Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........
but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman?
It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving.
That's rubbish! Because even here in Nigeria, a lot of people (especially the man's family) still view it as a taboo for the husband to engage in household chores...... whether the woman is black or white, the man's got to help! I believe it's simple jealousy on the part of the wife......what makes her think she's more special than the white woman? What makes her believe she's the one who only deserves the "caring" like she put it? In this respect, what's good for the black is also good for the white.........the woman's just looking for a way to spite her man (ex)......
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