first i'll like to correct an impression by someone here that tattoos are unafrican. frankly, tattoos should not be limited to marks on the boy alone, our so-called tribal marks are facial tattoos! it isnt a 21st century thing u will agree. but wether facial or not, i am against it. period!
well as someone puts it earlier, the issue of sex is really over rated. but if i should comment, i think ur guy should realise that forcing someone into a segxwal intercouse is simply - RAPE. Now all u have to do is ask urself if u want to be raped!