Show Posts
1  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What country you would like to visit most and why? on: 15-05-2011 08:17 PM
I like to visit Brasil so see the carnival in Rio, I like to visit China to take a step to the chinese wall and I like to visit the Fjords in Norway.
2  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What Is The Most Romantic Pet Name To Call your Girlfriend? on: 1-02-2010 05:01 PM
Why it must be a pet name? My boyfriend call me mule, because I'm a mule. If he call me like this, he mean it lovely. So I can life with it very well. If your girlfriend is beautiful but sometimes also dangerous like a rose you can call her your sweet rose. Roses are beatiful but she has also thorn. A butterfly is also nice, because also butterflys are beautiful. If she is a very delicate person, you can call her my little deer or little roe.
Nobody can realy help you. Your are the one knowing your girlfriend, so I'm sure, you will find the right name for your darling.
3  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: she love me too much and i don't like it on: 1-02-2010 04:44 PM
For how long she is your girlfriend? If the relationship is young, she loves to spend all her time with you. Also man could be like your girlfiend. The other thing is, she is jealous. She don't trust you, so that's why she always call you and like to be with you.
Tell her, that she confine you and you doesn't feel good this way. Show her that she can trust you.

4  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: how can I help someone with a broken heart ? on: 14-09-2009 12:54 PM
Be there for the person, have a open ear and never laugh about his or her situation and say never "there are other mums with a nice son or daughter" (this nobody like to hear).
A broken heart needs always time and good understanding friends by the side.
5  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Is it ok for a girl to ask a guy to marry her ? on: 14-09-2009 10:43 AM
In Germany it's no problem, but I'm not sure how it is in Africa especially Nigeria. Is the relationship binational it's also o.k. I think.
If you have talking with him about marriage, you must know how he is thinking about it and about asking.
6  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Likes & Dislikes! on: 14-09-2009 10:36 AM
Well I like it, if the man trust me , so that I feel free and not restrict. I like it, if he is listen to me and feel free to talk with me about his problems. Otherwise I like it, if he try to understand me and my problems. I like sporty man. I like man showing feelings. I like man who love kids.
I like man who respect me.

I don't like smoker. I don't like man laughing about my problems. I don't like man, walking outside and having fun without me (sometimes is o.k. but not always).
I don't like man drinking to much alkohol.
I don't like man who are lier.

7  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Does marriage makes a man responsible? on: 14-09-2009 10:20 AM
Maybe it's a step, but not every man, who is not responsible before marriage will change after. Also unmarriage man can be responsible.
8  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Should "Ability To Cook" Be A Prerequisite For Marrying A Lady? on: 13-04-2009 01:08 PM
We both are cooking. My man is cooking his nigerian food and I cook all the other things.
I cook some german food, but I love also different type off pasta, pizza, chili con carne and curry chicken.
And my answer is no, because if you love somebody it doesn't matter if she can cook or not, she must be other qualities.

Happy Easter to all!!!
9  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: The female boss - Work / Family on: 31-03-2009 01:27 PM
from chrissiebee

its possible but very rare..and i think its rare cos men find it hard to even think about working under their wives...its all about their egos..if they can both put their egos in check n the wife realizes that ikun lo mu eja kako...that he is still her hussie, and she stays respecting him...then things can work out perfectly!


I think you are right. It's possible but very rare, even in Germany.

But I also think, it's sometimes not so easy to work in one company because the partners see each other all the day and they have nothing to talk about after work, everybody knows what the other one was doing all the day.
10  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Can u marry a disable lady/guy?? on: 31-03-2009 12:42 PM
Not because of the future of anybody, but if I falled in love why not???
11  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How can a partner be ready for a baby but not marriage? on: 31-03-2009 12:24 PM
Well, I have two child from my boyfriend but we are not marriage. I can love each other without it, but we both like to have kids together.

To adop a child is not the same, because it's not your blood. If two people can not have there own child, than they can adop one, but if you can, everybody prefer to become there own child.
12  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Who determines the end of a relationship ? on: 24-03-2009 01:47 PM
I think it comes how is comes. One time it's the male, the next time it's the woman. The person, who feel not happy anymore in the relationship will end it.
Like me , one time I was the one and other time, teh man end our relationship. still I loved him. That's live, the feelings must be there from both sides.