We into a 4yr relationship now and we were so much in love,but for the past few months things have not being ok.We both in our early twenties now,he uses a BB and i dont,he dosent care again n alwyz on his fone chatting even when i talk to him he prefers smiling to his fone and many more crazy things happening.  Now i ask him if he his tired of me,he says his tired of our every day quarell but not me and so i am,but d problem is each time i ask for a break up he does not answer me,e tells me no! I dont double date n i can neva and not even a male friend, he knows that and am thinking thats y his taking me 4 granted....i really dont know what to do cause am really tired and things are becoming worse for me,i end up crying everyday each time i think of him,his really bad to me now and each time i try us talking about it off,it courses another quarel and his never ready 2 listen 2 me...This a new year and i dont want myself down again,please wat do u think i can do? Let him go? Stay wiv him in pains n hope things get better?

Babes.....2 b real,dnt yet open up 2 him.Make sm moves n watch him rspond,i dnt min kissn him or something,buh u cud use ur matured brain 4 dat...try talking 2 him only wen u guys r togeda,cud b u guys only gisting or just talking in his room or yours,den u make ur moves,look into his eyes while u talk,u know how we girls do wen u want sm1 2 knw u lik him,u knw wat am talking about just try it n its gonna work! But girl,dont yet mk a mistake telln him u dnt knw wat he has in mind,so u wunt spoil ur family stuffs......just let him knw u lik him!