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301  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHY DO NIGERIA WOMEN LIKE LYING? on: 4-04-2008 09:45 AM
I will not say that somepone likes lying!!! But on rephrasing the question to : WHY DO NIGERIAN WOMWN LIE?  I answer with my opinion but fact:

Nigerian Ladies lie because an african lady has a LIFE! With life i mean she has a begin. With a begin, i mean she has a content full! In her foundation is ALOT of life with meaning attached due to the African culture.

With ALOT OF LIFE in this sense, i mean, The culture she was born in and growed into puts a lot of ingredients in her POT, which makes her life very crowded and solid depending on how any individual deals with what she has.

These thing brings her into a state where she can't KEEP FULL CONTROL OF HER DOING BY ONLY TELLING THE TRUTH!!! It happens especially when she has not a very STRONG sprit.

Comparing to a white lady, She is born, eats bread and groundnut butter, plays all day, does only necessary home work for the sake of a good grade, sits while the food is prepared by the parents who possess the same qualities in on a higher level etc.
This becomes an EMPTY LIFE, due to this there will be no reason to lie for nothing coz there is not even a content NOT TO SPEAK OF A LOAD.
On the other hand white/other ladies that are not NIGERIANS do lie TRUELY but on a differnt die.

Black men often feel that a NIGERIAN / AFRICAN LADY will be with him coz of MONEY and such!!!
True! BUT READ THIS:

 It is every where!!! But do not make a mistake, there IS PURITY in the devil!, there is PURITY in a lier as there is EVIL in the devil and EVIL in a lier
I will talk about NIGERIAN LADIES, because that i know about though i believe strongly that what i am about to say, do apply for all AFRICAN AND MOST EXPECIALLY AFRICANLY RAISED LADIES.

Everyone except me will go for your money. Now, that's a true joke!

Though i have not yet experienced every race. I say boldly that in every race there is always an individual that will go for materialism and as well not!

But with the WHITE LADY..., that male could consider him self a life prisoner! i say that because, a while lady can start loving you just because of your money and you never notice coz she do not really plan it as far as you got a manhood! While a NIGERIAN lady, will NEVER fall in love with you because of your money! She only falls in love with your MONEY, which you a NIGERIAN/ AFRICAN GUY NOTICEs coz she brings it in ya face. (here I say.., if I were a male who never really knew what love is, I will get marraid to a NIGERIAN LADY, who loves my money for I say….. :  (HONESTY COULD RESULT TO SWEET LOVE) which is a good thing for you to know, because then you do not have to waste your life time with an individual that never really loved you from the start and meaning WILL divorce you when the time is ripe! meaning after the marriage that unites you MATERIAL WORLD(MONEY AND PROPERTIES) has taken place and when your face she never was in love with becomes too common for sex for your manhood and money was the target! She needs a new face and a taste from another person.
Due to the system of the western world for example Germany or Italy. Married couples are forced to stay together by the system when married cos then standing alone will be a hell of a load (financially and spiritually and economically) for both of the married individuals. If not of the system, there will be MILLIONS of divorcing within the white themselves and white and blacks that are marraid, coz the white man and the white woman 98% NEVER TRULY fall in love AND  at the dam time, the white ladies exaggerate heavily when feelings are concerned! but very snaky and slimy like snakes.
They have no sense of what love really is (but they have a lot of fantasies of the nature of love and for reason try to play that Cinderella role when a male gives only a smile , THOUGH A LOT others NOT WHITE ALSO have idea of love!!!…
With the Nigerian in Africa raised ladies, when they like a male and his money, IT IS 100% CLEAR to that guy!
It is a long discussion……………….
To end it short, an example
A white boy friend of my, have being with a BLACK LADY for 6 years now!!! Funny enough she is a Nigerian girl. Now, he a friend and she a SISTER coz from Africa and Nigeria. and most specially born and raised in Nigeria.
Now 6 years… He have being CHEATING IN HER in a way that I really can’t explain with words!!! and WON’T even though I could.
On the other hand, one thing I do not know is IF SHE TOO cheats on him.
But what I know is just too sick and disgusting to digest continuously into my blessed system!
I never let him introduce her to me, coz then I feel a part of this act I call  Devilish because then I do know her and do not throw her some good advice! Now I have told my friend, you either BREAK UP with her coz you coz  this is crazy OR  you let her know and she breaks up with you OR I BREAK YOU OFF MY FRIENDS TREE!

Conclusion
LYING IS EVERY WHERE!!! 
REASONS FOR LYING ARE DIFFERENT!!! 
TACTICS OF LYING IS DIFFERENT!!! 
AIMS OF LIERS ARE DIFFERENT!!!
NATURE OF LIES (good spirited/evil) IS DIFFERENT!!!

NOTE:
If lying is not telling the fact when being asked something…. EVERYBODY IS A LIER!
If lying is not telling the Fact when being asked something by a second party that is not in any way involved in that matter (then arises the question: when is one involved in a matter) ……….........NOBODY IS A LIER. My opinion enlightens why if necessary! Do not visit your dictionary for things have changed and definitions changes with them! MY DEFINITIONS!!! Thank you


302  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / IMPORTANT! on: 3-04-2008 07:37 AM
Good day... I singed up in this site because i wanted to coment on this question. First of all, i fine it no suitable question to the African continent. This is because tattoos what according to my opinion presently have turned in a senceless way of fashioning the body for the senceless (My excuses on that but it's my fact)! is originated from Africa!
If i will refrase the question to : What do think about an african lady with a meaningless tattoo?
Tattooses are meanful marks to certain traditional cultures in African and now outside like china and such. Such a tattoo i respect fully from da soul for they exsisted befor my exsitance and they came from our ancestors and for a beautiful reason i can't tell.
IN my culture in Nigeria tattoos are very special marks and blessings aswell. They are not just given by anyone and for a fashionable reason but for a meaning... A meaning that helps stand your existance and that make you feel worth a person. I will compare it with having a village were you originated from.
Coming back to the Topic , i find it senceless of the White coz in the Netherlands and in other part of the western world tattoos are used by ladies and guys like a baby using a chalk on his his / her boy trying to learn how to write. A child who has totally no concept of the aim of the chalk. Now this child is even better comparing to a grown up who will do certain things for no useful reason. At the point i will understnd from many that there is  a reson and i suppose that reason is the pleasure you feel as a person on wanting to get  a tattoo. I stop at this point to say... It is less of stupidity for a white person to get a tattoo coz the white man has no culture nor manners and for that reason seaks confort in materialism and anuthing that is good for the economy. Now here comes my saying... 'when you got nothing you can't lose nothing' This is one of the reason why the white girls are very easy going with segxwal intercose and anything you can think of. They are totally empty and for this reason feel very happy when attention is given or showned! Now do not get me wrong i am not saying that black girls are totally the opposite but here lies a difference. You see this is a long topic to one like me, so i cna´t say everything i will say if disscussing face to face! Do leave any blank space open adn try to digest the filled space. 
Coming back to the topic...
If a black lady will get a tattoo for thesame reason it is gotten in the western world then even if i do not know you MY HEART is hurt very badly as i see AFRICA´S nature being disrespected.
You see, at this point, not just is Africa as a whole abused by you but also are you abused by your self and a GREAT disgrace to you CONTINENT, COUNTRY, CITY, VILLAGE, PARENTS, AND last and still not the least ACCENSTORS!!!!!
you cna then see that you are drawned away from your own culture and the wonderful meaning and honour Africa attachs to tattoos that are worn. At this point alot of people already are because in their heads they do not have respect for these little things no more! They see it just like it is seen by the while man, while the whole beauty of tattoos and others are taken from Africa!!!
Do not let stupidness run crazy because by then you  will have wondered too far to find you way back home!!! Sometime i ask my self : The reason why alooot of Africans or nigerian do not see the beauty of THE MOTHER LAND. They glide into the wester ways , habbits and all. Which is totally not adorable, kind not humanlike. I am not descriminating , but i have lived in alot of places and not assimulated but integrated into different cultures and i SPEAK A FACT OR I SPEAK NOT.
You open your ears and eyes for at your willing monents they are always closed though seemed opened. For alot of people whoe never see it at a early age they always turn out discoving at the very late age why changing appears a waste of effort.

This is the period to save what you've got. If ya take a tattoo that means something very special and important to you, that i find a good aim. But then comes the question, if it is that important will you let it be placed by some worker you do not know in a tattoo shop and pay for it or by some one special and good in heart... here again i do not respect your person for you do not know what life contents.I know why you want a tattoo and i know the consequences and i know what ya feeling now but ask your self: Why do i want a tattoo? this will help you figure out how short you will be liking that tattoo and how long you will be hating it!
Shot because eventhough you like till you are 60 years of age and you die when you are 65 years of age, The period you hate it and regret  having it will still be more longer, unconfortable or painfull. So take caution. It ya skin is not blue do and you have no concret meaniful reasons don not join the crazy club for free! I COMMENTED ON THIS MORE TO ENLIGHTEN THE ORIGIN , MEANING , BEAUTY  AND BLESSING OF A TATTOO AS IT ORINATED! SAVING AFRICA'S BEAUTY AND MAKING THOSE WHO DO NOT KNOW, READ AND KNOW THAT AT CERTAIN ACTIONS THAT WE TAKE OUT BEAUTIFUL CONTINENT AFRICA AND CONTRY NIGERIA IS DISRESPECTED AND INSULTED WHILE UNITY IS SPOKEN THE MOUTH!!!
I fly off. Goodluck on solving the equation of life.  Peace from da mind!
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