Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
Then it's love.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply that it hurts?
Then it's love.
Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and the relation pulls you close and holds you there?
Then it's love.
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's love.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
Then it's love.
Would you allow them to leave you , not because they want to but because they have to?
Then it’s love.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
Then it's love.

This is a typical Naija babe syndrome. They always make sex a big deal. When and where couples have sex depends on how intense the feelings are. If the guy is not really interested, it doesn't matter if you had sex the next day after you met or one year after. He will still leave.
I resent this attitude of Naijababes,who think that they are doing the man a favour by having sex with him. What about you eamakagee. Do you get segxwally aroused or not?. Do you also want sex but deliberately holding back?.
My advice is EITHER WAY, IT DOES NOT MATTER. I had sex with my lovely wife the first day we met. 9 years on, we are still together.

i agree wit u simele
God knws best

well ,its part of sex education.

My brother, if you understand poetry, here is my take:

Dilemma of Love
http://extramantra/2009/08/poem-dilemma-of-love.html
 

i met dis guy a month now our friendship is going will untill 1day he invite me to his house,then i go bcos i luv him.i didn't knw it was all about sex when he as me to have sex with him than i refuse,dat is where our problem start.i told him dat is too early hve sex with him he said dat if i truly luv him as he luv me dat i will do dat. i told him dat sex is not everything,he said dat is num one thing in relationship.dat if i'm not ready to hve sex dat i will be ready to loose him.And i love dis guy,should i do it or not bcos i think if i do it i will look too cheap.           AND HE said dat he love me. did he really luv me

Can you  be bold to tell us the number of time you've had sex this year, you will just  find out that some of us have not even had sex year. So let us hear your story.

ajose1, wat do u mean by tht, u are a fool.

This message has been sent to you for good luck in sex. The
original is in a room in the basement of the Dwight House Pub.
It has been sent around the world nine times. Now sex has
been sent to you. The "Hot Sex Fairy" will visit you within four
days of receiving this message, provided you, in turn, send it on.
If you don't, then you will never receive good sex again for the
rest of your life. You will eventually become celibate, and your
genitals will rot and fall off. This is no joke!

Send copies to people you think need sex (who doesn't?).
Don't send money, as the fate of your genitals has no price.
Do not keep this message. This message must leave your
e-mail in 96 hours.
Please send ten copies and see what happens in four days.
Since the copy must tour the world, you must send it.
This is true, even if you are not superstitious.
Remember -- A good friend will come and bail you out of
jail... BUT a true friend will be sitting next to you saying,
"Damn...that was fun!"

Life continues, as long as i'm not dead.

Is beta u look 4 something 2 engage urself wt. nonsense.

ajose1, wat do u mean by tht, u are a fool.

wat is this?

NEWBIE everywhere... who dey F is he!.. psycho!

Making sense!

both men and women do cheat but this is very bad and that is why u see broken home cos up till when they got married, they don't know themself, as for i can never double date and if i ever new my girl double date, tha will be the end cos what i dont do, i dont accept,, i need advice,, call  08039412584,,,, 98% men cheat while 95% woman cheat

as they said, it is good for both(guy & the lady) to start sometin 2geda frm d beginning.but cum 2 tink of it,if ure not able 2 cater 4 ur family ''children'' dey will end up doin wat is not rite.as ibobobelvis said our parent made d same mistake and we d children are payin for it seriously.so my dear fink twice b4 u make ur decision.i believe u knw wat is best for u.

blackberryPearl, have never been proposed to before?



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forget her na pretender she be oooo