We have been married for 5+years and have 2 kids.
A few months after our wedding, she got an oil company job while i have always been a banker and till date.
We were earning about d same salary when she started the job but after a while she started earning more and now she earns almost double of what i earn.
With time, she started disrespecting me and even talks any how to me. We are always having quarrels here & there and i had slapped her on two occasions out of extreme annoyance. I had begged her for forgiveness but she still holds it against me. To b truthful, i had been unfaithful twice also in the past. I have asked her for forgiveness but she also still holds it against me.
I had sat her down on many occasions to talk; her issue is that she feels am not doing enough to improve my career to get a better job. She doesn't like the fact that she brings more money home. Its affecting her and that is why she puts up all those kind of attitude towards me.
I have explained to her severally that getting another job is not that easy. Am not just sitting down doing nothing, i have done an MBA + my first degree and also have a PMP certification. I told her that her oil company job is by God's favour and not that she did any extra thing to get it apart from her uncle who helped her in getting the job. But she never sees it that way, instead she feels i shld go and do CFA, foreign on-line additional degree etc. My response was that i will do them when I feel i need them.
Because of all the issues i mentioned, she claims she does not love my again and so does not even allow me touch her; she claims she cant have sex with someone she does not love. After so much pressure from me, she allows me like an average of once in 3 months in the past 2 years now. And i know is not and has never cheated on me.
This is really affecting; i see myself getting close to other ladies in my office, but i have been very careful not go too far.
What do i do please?
u dey craze....if u dont know, know it know..she is doing it with other guys and e fit be small boiz for that matter...stop spending ur money on her and the family since she doesnt appreciate u....the earlier u stop begging her and get young, sexy and controversial booty babes outside to satisfy u, the better for u..no let woman do shakara for u cos of ordinary honeypot......
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