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1  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: how do i tell her on: 25-07-2009 06:01 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 25-07-2009 11:35 AM
Nike. Just do it.

Which is worse, dying in silence or being turned down after U showed U had the guts to go for what U want?

She just myt be into U too U know.

he has it coveredCool
2  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: love on: 25-07-2009 03:23 PM
@ Poster!
You know many a man has lost their ideal woman because they kept the love in their head....
Deal with it now, Learn to express your love & do not allow the person that hurt you steal your future also.
Feel the pain, Hurt & joy of it all then you know your alive  Cool
3  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: hypocrisy..whose fault? on: 25-07-2009 03:10 PM
True talk but I would not call that "Hypocrisy" its progression 
4  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Can u attend u ex's wedding? on: 25-07-2009 03:04 PM
No not going, your saying you both had planned your lift together then a month after the split you get an invite!!!!!!!!!!

REBOUND!!!!!!!!!!!  Grin

I really wanna know what the person they are marrying thinks about you go to the wedding?Huh?  Shocked
5  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: my laptop has snatch me from my babe on: 25-07-2009 02:56 PM
@ Poster

You need to check out "Usher" his new album has a song on it called "Appetite"
Listen good now  Grin
6  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: ciberboyfriend- my far love on: 25-07-2009 02:43 PM
You will have to travel to Nigeria first, you need to meet his family & friends.
He will not be granted a visa as you are not classed as a relationship until you start to spend time together.
I traveled to Nigeria first and have been 4 times and my man has been to my countrie 3 times, If we decide to marry it will be because we want to not for a visa, those days are gone, visa control is much tighter now.
Just be careful, in time you will know if it is real, for me its just as normal as any relationship, we scream & shout down the phone ;-) I now know how to fight by text, my typing skills are off the hook I burn the keyboard!!!!!!
It is very difficult to have a long distance relationship, Learn all you can about Nigeria, don't trust everything you hear about Nigeria specially the bad stuff, go experience the home of your man as it will help you understand him.
Remember rome was not built in a day!
7  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: I can't believe this..... so so strange to me. on: 15-07-2009 09:50 AM
White men do not say "I Love you" to there staff  ;-)
He is taking advantage, maybe the husband & wife have an understanding & thats between them.

White men don't even tell their kids they love them never mind their staff....LOL  ;-)
8  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: can u allow your wife ask her ex-boyfriend for assistance on: 15-07-2009 09:43 AM
Any man would feel very degraded if his wife had to go to an Ex to get support, So why would the wife even let him know that she went?Huh?
Marriage is about struggling together, just caz the going gets tough you can't go to an Ex!!

If I did that it would show I had no respect for my husband, Is there no friends or family??
As for the Ex, Well he will want his payback someday thats for sure.
9  Forum / Celebrity Talk & Discussions / Re: Piracy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on: 11-07-2009 04:37 PM
Keep the Pirates ;-) Don't let the big record companies take over everything.
I love your C.Ds & D.V.Ds
We are so controlled here in Europe regarding all that stuff, The only way I would agree would be if the record compnies were Nigerian based & the profits were creating jobs etc, But Nah they would take the money out of the countrie.
Best that the guy on the market stall is making some bucks!
10  Forum / Celebrity Talk & Discussions / Re: Michael Jackson is dead..... on: 11-07-2009 04:31 PM
Waiting on somebody to read this stuff  ;-)
11  Forum / Celebrity Talk & Discussions / Re: Michael Jackson is dead..... on: 11-07-2009 05:29 AM
The world has lost a gifted & talented man, Michael Jackson was ahead of his time.
Any HATERS out there, Check your facts before you pass comment, Please do not beleive all you read in the Media.
Ignorance can no longer be excused when it comes to a legend.

R.I.P  Michael Jackson
12  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: can u operate same bank account wit ur partner? on: 26-06-2009 09:24 AM
Joint banks accounts normally go fine as they are mainly set up to pay bills or save for something, So if both partners are working they each wud put a certain amount in the account.

The reason why you do not seem to use it much in Nija is Becaz ur banking structure is different to Europe, USA, Etc.....All bills & payments are set up by direct debit here, put ur money into ur account & ur bill is taking out, Most people do not get paid by cash, Just ur payslip & ur job lodges ur money in ur bank account.

All these things were set up because of "BANK ROBBERIES" Too many of them Grin

Truth is if U do not trust ur partner in that way, WHY are U with them?? Of course I refer to a committed relationship, Long term, otherwise do not even dream of it.
13  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: can u operate same bank account wit ur partner? on: 26-06-2009 09:08 AM
Quote from: pepigambit on 22-06-2009 06:26 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 22-06-2009 06:22 PM
Quote from: welli on 21-06-2009 05:57 PM
Quote from: pepigambit on 21-06-2009 05:51 PM
and dey kill demsef for it abi
No...they don't.
Such stories are on a high rate in countries like Nigeria where greed is the Father of the day. Tongue

I say leave film for Oyinbo. And stop dissing my country. Greed isnt the father of the day. Ene if I were not African, I doubt knowing humans as I do, I'd do any joint acct thingy with any one. People are dramatically diff when moeny is in question.
esp d wites who have less family views an us......u see en money is involve in form of insurance,et all...a whte woman can kill for it.........
[/quote]@ Pepigambit  Shocked  U saying I have less family views than U?Huh?Huh???
Ur letting me down with that kinda comment.
A white woman wud kill for it?Huh?Huh?Huh?
I am not gonna get into the black & white thing But please do not label people, YOU surprise me!
14  Forum / Celebrity Talk & Discussions / Re: Michael Jackson is dead..... on: 26-06-2009 06:36 AM
This is so sad  :'(

We won't see another Legend like him, He broke so many barriers, 1st person to make top class videos, His concerts were amazing, As for his dancing, AMAZING.

May He Rest In Peace.
   :'( :'( :'( :'(
15  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Just wondering on: 25-06-2009 03:25 AM
@ Recovered

Yep! I agree with U, Just because a guy has a low sperm count it does not mean they are no good, They may just be bad swimmers Smiley & need some help to complete the job.

Many people I know have done Artifical insemination & now have children, sometimes it may take a few attempts but it is possible.
16  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: MY NEW RELATIONSHIP on: 25-06-2009 01:26 AM
Sorry for you losing your friend.
In times of grief people do tend to cling to belongings or stuff from the person that is gone & yes even the family or B/F or G/F

U are also on the rebound so U need to give urself time to distance yourself from it all, Try to clear your head & focus on your grief of losing your BEST friend & also your girlfriend.
In time U will know if this is right or not, Pray for the strenght to get through this.

I wish you well  Wink
17  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women the Evil doer: Devil on: 24-06-2009 11:37 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 24-06-2009 08:37 AM
Quote from: Mariabell on 23-06-2009 10:27 PM
Come On Guys!!!!!!!   Cool

Have U got nothing to say on this?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?

did u look thru the pages...?

What I was asking is what do the guys think??  Do they think women are the Devil?Huh?Huh??  REALLY...
Caz I wonder what would that make a Man to us women?Huh??? 
18  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: *SLANGS & MEANINGS* on: 24-06-2009 02:07 AM
Loving It, Feel like I am in school, RESPECT.
19  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: IGBO PPLE ARE ALL THE SAME, WITH ALL THESE ATTRIBUTES. on: 24-06-2009 01:48 AM

What is happening here?Huh??? Shocked

I leave U 4 a few days to go to Nigeria...... Grin Grin

I seem to have comeback to some major Haters in the House!
Please stop this nonsense......What Happen to?
20  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women the Evil doer: Devil on: 23-06-2009 10:27 PM
Come On Guys!!!!!!!   Cool

Have U got nothing to say on this?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?
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