he has it covered! 

MMMmmmm???
True talk but I would not call that "Hypocrisy" its progression 

@Poster
You will have to travel to Nigeria first, you need to meet his family & friends.
He will not be granted a visa as you are not classed as a relationship until you start to spend time together.
I traveled to Nigeria first and have been 4 times and my man has been to my countrie 3 times, If we decide to marry it will be because we want to not for a visa, those days are gone, visa control is much tighter now.
Just be careful, in time you will know if it is real, for me its just as normal as any relationship, we scream & shout down the phone ;-) I now know how to fight by text, my typing skills are off the hook I burn the keyboard!!!!!!
It is very difficult to have a long distance relationship, Learn all you can about Nigeria, don't trust everything you hear about Nigeria specially the bad stuff, go experience the home of your man as it will help you understand him.
Remember rome was not built in a day!

White men do not say "I Love you" to there staff  ;-)
He is taking advantage, maybe the husband & wife have an understanding & thats between them.

White men don't even tell their kids they love them never mind their staff....LOL  ;-)

Any man would feel very degraded if his wife had to go to an Ex to get support, So why would the wife even let him know that she went?
Marriage is about struggling together, just caz the going gets tough you can't go to an Ex!!

If I did that it would show I had no respect for my husband, Is there no friends or family??
As for the Ex, Well he will want his payback someday thats for sure.

Guys!
Keep the Pirates ;-) Don't let the big record companies take over everything.
I love your C.Ds & D.V.Ds
We are so controlled here in Europe regarding all that stuff, The only way I would agree would be if the record compnies were Nigerian based & the profits were creating jobs etc, But Nah they would take the money out of the countrie.
Best that the guy on the market stall is making some bucks!

Parking!
Waiting on somebody to read this stuff  ;-)

This is so sad  :'(

We won't see another Legend like him, He broke so many barriers, 1st person to make top class videos, His concerts were amazing, As for his dancing, AMAZING.

May He Rest In Peace.   :'( :'( :'( :'(

@ Recovered

Yep! I agree with U, Just because a guy has a low sperm count it does not mean they are no good, They may just be bad swimmers & need some help to complete the job.

Many people I know have done Artifical insemination & now have children, sometimes it may take a few attempts but it is possible.

Sorry for you losing your friend.
In times of grief people do tend to cling to belongings or stuff from the person that is gone & yes even the family or B/F or G/F

U are also on the rebound so U need to give urself time to distance yourself from it all, Try to clear your head & focus on your grief of losing your BEST friend & also your girlfriend.
In time U will know if this is right or not, Pray for the strenght to get through this.

I wish you well 

SORRY........
What I was asking is what do the guys think??  Do they think women are the Devil??  REALLY...
Caz I wonder what would that make a Man to us women??? 

Ohhhhhhhhh!
Loving It, Feel like I am in school, RESPECT.