hence u are man enough to keep her as ur wife don't fear if she is in lagos or in naija just compose ur self and approch to her she we accept ur offer, gud luck BRO
marriage is not a matter of sex or virgin ,4 better 4 worst is a life time assignment,so all women has equal chances on that whether virgin or not ,it only depends on how u parkage ur self.
I fill that financing a wedding we be the desire of every chic that is finacially okay,there is nothing wrong in a chic to finance her wedding, if she understands.