I just noticed that most of the forumites dont like the above topic... maybe because its hard for some of them to xplain or rather they feel its not worth talking about, but they say learning is a continious process and and someone can enrich from your suggestions, opinions and wealth of experiences about this word LOVE. On a personal note, some of us misunderstand lust for love, maybe because LUST is deceptive and pretends to be LOVE. But when you meet your true love, someone that is meant for you, something in the inside of you will tell you that he or she is the one. He/She might be saying I LOVE U AND I WILL DIE FOR YOU for as many times as possible, that too might be all lies. You have to pay attention to the heart of that person whenever both of you are discussing and monitor his/her reaction towards everything you do or say, you will get to know more about his heart. Remember, you didnt tell us how long your friend have been dating with this guy. Also note, there are different kinds of guys with different lifestyles, so orientation, background and environmental factors may contribute to their attitudes and perception towards life. This is my little contribution for now... For more details email me at
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