I disagree with Divine Project Comments. Stating that African men are mostly polygamous in nature. Individuality matters in this case. What i love may be hate by others. Stop giving excuses for the guyz action. Let call a spade a spade. Don't Condemn Our culture.
It is wrong traditionally, biblically and psychologically having relationship out of a marriage and i think as an educated man, he should be able to create a peaceful lovely home.
It is not about Nigerian Guyz or European Girls or any other one you might have in mind, It is about what we have, learn, emulate and practice individually. do not allow a shit as a way. Talk to him as your husband without considering differences in race or culture.
I totally agree with u my man,cheating is in most human but it only takes self dicipline and total love and commitment for a man to stick to one woman,africa or non african.
Pls girl i advice u to sit him down and talk sense into his head dont let love blind u or u will soon cry and hate other africans thinking that we are all the same.
Handle him as ur man stop thinking about the differents between u and him or u will lose him to one of those girls out there.If he truly love u he will not cheat on u.
Am a NIG.guy and I hate cheating on a woman.pls we are not polygamouse dont mind them that was old mentality.
I wish u best of marriage.