The thing is for a lady, it might be easier for us to say our mother before the husband...but you guys that are saying your mum, u kno your mum can't be your wife.. and its usually the man that goes wrong in a relationship and leaves the woman for another.....so dont even try and day the wife can leave you for another man, its only if u make her... the thing about women is that when we truly love we love deep and thats y sum women are still in sum unsuccessful marriages cus they have love and they can endure and man on the other side will get tired....unless u wanna marry ur mum...
As for me i will save my mum..Cus after a while that same guy can be too quick to forget what i did for him and do all sorts of nonsense...cus my mum needs to eat the fruits of her labour...