I never imagine I could do it until I did. I read with quite intense to see if there would be one who can identify with me but everyone here seems to be living in the theory realms.

My story - Because I am the first son of three and my parents are divorced. I endured all unimaginable acts that men do to show their anger. my baby may just call home that she is passing the night out or she will just go out without telling a particular destination; when she is angry - she will not cook at home and non of my family member is welcom in our house/home. my baby keeps malice with my mum.

How long can you cope with the above? BUT I coped until a one night, September 22, 2009. She had gone out and at returnin, it was a different story. As her attitude is to separate rooms whenever she is angry because we lived in a 2 bedroom apartment. that night, like play like play, she had separated room and I was trying to know why and settle the case as it may be but she wont just yield her ground.

Are you with me? I went to bed, my wife came to drag me off bed unexpectedly to the sitting-room. I forced my way up and in anger, I stood-up and pushed her with strict warning. At that moment, the memory of a time when my wife gave me beatings with cane while I was on my kneels flooded my mind. Yet I went back to bed.

Can you guess her next action? Unexpectedly, my wife poured a pot of cooked soup on me even in my nakedness. So tell me - what will you do in my step?

This is real life story, the story of my life

You know what the Bible said? To a liar, everything he/she hears are lies.  Truthfully, does men need to fight to get a lady's heart - if there relationship is for REAL!   Ladies out there, sincerely speaking - search yourself, havent you at one time or the other wish to be a friend to a particular guy without the guy coming after you? If yes, sometimes, same goes for men & more often, to me, before I venture out, I see the greenlight BLASTING!!!!!!

For me o, I cant remember in the past BUT in the recent past, NO NOT. I dont need to lie to get a lady to have interest in me. I chose ladies I go out with, ladies dont chose me [ladies out there, dont be offended].

Tell your guy to ask his girl-friend to choose between your friend and her catholic doctrines & father. Jesus came to abolish the traditions but unfortunate event is that Churches are today in the name of discipling causing more confusion in the body of Christ

Follow your heart! It is easier said but if I may say something, you need to understand that as real as spending real time together in person is, you guys need to be close to enter into marriage. What I meant by closeness is have you for once taken a visit to him? Expected and Unexpected? See, what you know about him now is what he wants you too know about him and what he knows about you is what you want him to know! If I am right, search yourself. Let me categorically state that there are always hidden person of ourselves that we ourself do not know is existing?

A good question to guide you in your quest is - how much of his foolisheness/stupidity will you be able to cope with?

Divine project, why is yours not a reality?

These is only a replica of the wealth of heaven. Believe me, Jesus wasn't poor either - abi, why would the soldiers cast lots on who to take his robe? abi, why was he sound asleep despite storms on the sea? he must have been in a special cabin. I serve a wealthy God

Yes, this is nice

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