Why not? If not???

You probably got all the advice you seek from folks here however, I'd like to put my 2cents. It wasn't exactly deceit considering that you didn't think to ask him when you first met but that's not to say that he shouldn't have told you all these while. That said, if you care about this guy and can also sense that he cares about you, why let little omission like that affect what could become a great relationship? Also, being a single dad of a 4 years old, I personally appreciate your man (if i can call him that) predicament considering the close-mindedness of us Nigerians. I know it's frowned upon in our culture for a single man or woman who has never been married to want to be with a partner who was divorced and has a child. That being the case Nigerians in diaspora are in a big predicament of finding a partner and as such we might chose to omit little information like....having a child or two and been married before.

I think its caused by lack of exercise and fat.

Nope. Agege bread is the best. if u doubt me then try eating it with ewa aganyi or with ekpa and three crown milk.

Talk of contract.....What happened to the billions of dollar Obasanjo Administration supposedly spent on the power sector??? Does anybody have answer to this question cos I fail to understand why my folks are still spending thousands of naira on gas to power electric generator.

"no throw stone for market becos e fit go land for ur papa head or come go break eggs for ur mama basket"

Are u for real? ok, just becoz its never happened to you does not mean it does'nt happen.
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You bet I'm for real and I've been there and done that. There's an undertone to the story that makes me doubt the veracity of the story but that doesn't mean that such incidents doesn't happen. If you still think that I might be wrong, then I would have no choice but to dissect the post and point out facts that spiked my obvious skepticism.

Oh yeah? Like what???

That's a good piece of advice though I don't believe a word of it. Its all bull crap. I don't believe in this day and age that a Nigerian lady (mother actually) would go to that length just to have some stupid fun. I think this dude fantasies has so messed up his head that he couldn't differentiate fantasies from reality.

Fantasies never stops; It used to be threesome now its foursome.

Thats a welcome news. Jose Mourinho is simply a GENIUS.

About time they do something about it. Cost of living keep increase yet personal income remains the same. Its a sad and frustrating situation.

Do you mean circumcision? cos I don't think women has balls that can be castrated.   

At first I didn't want to post on this thread cos it's absolutely disgusting and unbelievable but seeing that a grown man like yourself would blame a little girl of 11yrs old for becoming pregnant for a stupid and evil man is absurd. Put your daughter or kid sister in that scenario and tell me if you'd blame her for becoming pregnant for a grown man. What sense does a child of 11 has to fight off indecent lures from an evil man? I do agree to a certain extend that the parents should also be held responsible but considering the economic situations of Nigeria where most parents can't afford to provide the basic necessities of life for their kids, they (the kids) are bound to fall into temptations to get it. that's why I personally hope that rapist should be looked up forever. In my book, a 44 yrs old having sex with an 11 yrs old is nothing other than RAPE and should be treated as such.

Though an occasional critic I do applaud this innovation. Naijapal.com is da bomb.

Do u mean a billion naira??? Try renting a 3 bedroom apartment in surulere from your 1 million naira and then come back and tell me how much is left.

Why? Cos we've long ran out of patient. We've been having patient since 1960. how long do you suppose  patient would last, forever? You can only be patient when there's hope. Nigeria is hopeless.

What has patriotism has to do with criticism??? The days I believed Nigeria was the best country is long gone. Not with the power drama that we've been witnessing for years nor the incessant loss of life at various part of the country. My guy wake up. That country needs quick deliverance from the recycled failures that we call "leaders."

addiction to beautiful women

Yeah right. Nigeria is way too expensive to live because of the exploitation of business owners. Four nights vacations to the Bahamas cost me $700 with aaa membership (flight, hotel, unlimited drink and food inclusive). Try living on $700 in a 3 star hotel in Nigeria for four nights. I couldn't believe a movie ticket at silverbird galleria is 2,500 Naira when I only pay $10 here tax inclusive. That country is way to expensive because people live on the fast lane.