Quote from: Equipper on 24-09-2009 07:58 PM
Hi everybody! I dare say that I am new to this site and also that I am a Liberian guy who passionately loves Nigerians and their culture. I cannot explain it nor can I escape it; maybe it is spiritual or psychical. This passion is so strong that I made a decision long ago that the mother of my childrem must be a Nigerian. Serious, isn't it??
Here is my situation coming from my emotional register: I Met this intelligent, educated, and beautiful lady from Lagos who was visiting Richmond, Virginia. Ten minutes spent with her after we were introduced made me want to see her again; she made an impact upon me. We became close acquaintances over a three-week time frame. Upon her return to Nigeria, we kept in touch. I am seriously working on travel arrangements to spend the Christmas holidays in Lagos. I intend to give a surprise call after I settle down. Here is my question though: What must I, a non Nigerian guy do to woo this lady? Are there cultural-specific considerations I need to accommodate? I need your candid suggestions.
Thanks
Equipper
to start with, where are from?Here is my situation coming from my emotional register: I Met this intelligent, educated, and beautiful lady from Lagos who was visiting Richmond, Virginia. Ten minutes spent with her after we were introduced made me want to see her again; she made an impact upon me. We became close acquaintances over a three-week time frame. Upon her return to Nigeria, we kept in touch. I am seriously working on travel arrangements to spend the Christmas holidays in Lagos. I intend to give a surprise call after I settle down. Here is my question though: What must I, a non Nigerian guy do to woo this lady? Are there cultural-specific considerations I need to accommodate? I need your candid suggestions.
Thanks
Equipper