Eish lala ngoxolo Mama (RIP), and to the twins and rest of the family, be strong and cherish the good moments your Mom shared with you all during her time on this earth.  This is heartbreaking, ask God for healing and strength

HELLO EVERYBODY JUST WANNA COMMUNICATE WITH DA PEOPLE ON DIS FORUM, ITS QUITE INTERESTING, and by the way I just like people from Naija think you guys rock!!!

Hop to visit that side of AFrica soon.

hI Naijapals, my name is Noks, hailing from South Africa, new to the forum, excuse my manners, made a comment recently without greeting the members.

Hi guys, as a single mother I also feel that it is not right to stigmatize single mothers.  Well, in my country people are viewing it differently nowadays because there are so many single parents in South Africa (having children out of wedlock).  The best way to look at it is to see how it happened for one to be in that kinda situation.

I fell in love with an Igbo man in 2005 and when I fell pregant he told me how he had a wife back home and I should have an abortion, this I refused.  Had a beautiful baby girl and she's now 3 years old and her father has never contributed towards her wellbeing.  I am facing all the responsibilities by myself.  I was hopelessly in love with the man to an extent that I did not think of  any complications when my child was conceived.  At the time of my pregnancy some relatives did say how stupid I was and all that but at least my family was very supportive.

I don't regret having my daughter she brings me all the joy in world and its just unfortunate that she doesn't know her roots. to all single mothers just stay positive and don't think of people who stigmatize us because it will only hurt our feelings and stop us from moving forward.