The major problem in marriage is that we marry personality but live with character. Personality attracks us in marriage but character (good character anyway) sustains it. Personality is how people experience you whereas character is the real you that may not be seen at the initial time of marriage.Personality includes Job, business, profession, beauty/hansomeness, family background etc. The real person (character) which we really experience in marriage journey can mar or make our relationship. Positive character sustains marriage but negative character afflicts marriage with untold woes, which when not guided against early will eventually lead to divorce which negates God's plan for the marriage institution.Finally, good character make marriage to be enjoyed whereas bad character makes it to be endured with pains that can lead to untimely death. |