i honestly ask myself this question everyday. why is there emphasis on the female child when it comes to virginity? how do you know a male is a virgin. we should try and change our perspective about this issue. a girl that has been segxwally abused at a tender age gets married and is not a virgin but is a devout wife and mother or a girl who was a virgin at marriage but two years down the line starts phyuking her hubby's bestfriend and gets pregnant which one is better?
virgin or no virgin a man will cheat on his wife. just give him two to three years after marriage. personally being a virgin doesnt mean you can take care of the home properly or you can cook a delicious meal for your husband, it just a added value to a woman. how many of our so called sweet mothers were virgins before their wedding night but to their kids they are the best moms ever! [/b]

that's sad. we are all human, ofcourse he will feel bad and not want to see the girl again but i think if a man can look beyond that and marry her after all men do the same to women. what goes around comes around.