@ THE ONE WHO POSTED:

Well, there's a catch phrase that says different strokes for different folks.
Another says one man's meat is another man's poison.

Something you would have to understand is the intent. A guy who calls you "BABE" does not mean it in a derogatory way.
More so, if he's meeting you for the first time, he does not know your likes and dislike, so forgive his ignorance.
You can let him know that you don't like being called "BABE". When informing him, please do so with some courtesy.

However, the guy when informed must cease from still calling you "BABE" else, he is disrespecting your feelings.

BUT IN ALL, EVERY GUY  BECOMES A POET WHEN HE FALLS IN LOVE AND WOULD JUST WANT TO EXPRESS HIMSELF IN VARIOUS WAYS.

@ THE ONE WHO POSTED:

Blood oaths or blood covenant is a cheap way of love security.
Most of the time, the reason behind engaging in the act is not because of love bot OBSESSION.

Experiences have shown that the resultant effect of blood covenant is nothing short of misery.

Girl, Please take the many advices of the posters on naijapals and hit the road running.

RUN BABY, RUN FOR YOUR DARE LIFE.

Personaly, I decided very early that I am not going to marry someone who wasn't my friend.
Because I cherish relationships with friends.
This has made me restrict my search to my circle of friends.
I have never (for emphasis, I repeat NEVER) stopped a lady by the way side and begin to toast her.

I have asked some of my lady friends out in the past and they turned down my request.
That never enstranged our relationship cos till now, we are still best of friends.

It only depends on how the people involved chose to handle the rejection. I must confess that the rejection was hurting but you see
love is a beautiful thing.
It's better for you to have loved and lost, than for you to have never loved at all.

I am married now and guess what?

I married my friend

@ Princedafe

You think the post is dumb and stupid right?

May you or any of your loved ones never experience that kind of ordeal.

Whether you believe in the existence of demons or not does not change the fact that they do exist.

Radio waves are everywhere even though you cannot see it.
Ones belief that radio waves do not exist simply because he cannot see it, does not negate the existence of it.

The only way that person can know radio waves exist is to plug in your radio.

For someone like you, the only way you will be convinced of the existence of demons is when it afflicts you.

But I pray you never fall victim to demons.

That man is devoid of knowledge. He is a disgrace on manhood.
It is what he put in that he got.

GABBAGE IN GABBAGE OUT.

 can't quit my job for any thing! It means the guy wants to limit me, its not possible!Expect he's ready to give me a huge amount of money to start a businees, i can consider it! That is the only condition! At least he knew my job before marrying me, can he quit his job too A career i've spent so many years of my life building, kts not possible! These are some of the things we ought to be putting into consideration during relationship and courtship, but we focus on unneccesary things. Mr Biggs, sweet sensation and the likes! May God help us!

Friend,
Issues like this are very sensitive and we should not let emotions rule us. The future of your children are at stake and the position you take may make or break their lives and that of your marriage. Rather than put up a brickwall approach, let the husband and wife come to the table like two grown adults and DISCUSS IT and find a way forward around the challenge. Dialogue with honest and sincere heart will clear the way.

Marriage comes with great responsibilities and sacrifices are part of it.

Both man and wife must also know that marrige also helps each other in realising personal goals and aspirations.
While I agree that it is quite an unpleasant ewxperience for the wife to give up her career, she has to weigh that against the future of her children. Is it better to sacrifice the future of her children at the alter of career?
I just heard somebody ask:

WHY NOT THE MAN?

It is primarilly the RESPONSIBILITY OF THE MAN to provide for his family while the woman is a A HELPER.

However, both parties having a sincere open minded discussion on the issue will go a long way to solving the problem. That way, there will definitely be a point of compromise reached  where everybody will still be happy MAN, WIFE & CHILDREN) without anyone feeling uneccessarilly denied of personal aspirations

Anything that has a beginning has an end including bad leaders/leadership.

I BELIEVE IN NAIJA.

We are not there yet but I know we'll get there someday.
SLOWLY BUT SURELY.

Marriage comes with great responsibilities and sacrifices are part of it.

Both man and wife must also know that marrige also helps each other in realising personal goals and aspirations.
While I agree that it is quite an unpleasant ewxperience for the wife to give up her career, she has to weigh that against the future of her children. Is it better to sacrifice the future of her children at the alter of career?
I just heard somebody ask:

WHY NOT THE MAN?

It is primarilly the RESPONSIBILITY OF THE MAN to provide for his family while the woman is a A HELPER.

However, both parties having a sincere open minded discussion on the issue will go a long way to solving the problem. That way, there will definitely be a point of compromise reached  where everybody will still be happy MAN, WIFE & CHILDREN) without anyone feeling uneccessarilly denied of personal aspirations

Anything that has a beginning has an end including bad leaders/leadership.

I BELIEVE IN NAIJA.

We are not there yet but I know we'll get there someday.
SLOWLY BUT SURELY.

From the bible we know that the life of a thing is in the blood. When you take a blood oath you simply have surrendered your life to him & vice versa.

But the issue goes beyond that. Blood oath is strong as death and should anything go wrong thereafter (this neither you nor him has control over that), both of you cannot walk away just like that.
You both begin to live a miserable life. Blood oath is not as easy to undo as it is to go into it.

MY ADVICE: Girl, your life is too beautiful for you to make a misery out of it. Even if his intentions are noble, blood oath is never the best form of love security.
Your word should be you bond. If that is not enough for him, walk away.

If you see stripping as a proffesion, socialization and civilisation, do the following:

1. When you are entering a strip club neither disguse yourself nor hide.

2. When your sister opts for the proffesion, encourage her and sponsor her with your money.

A hungry man is an angry man