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1  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: UR SUPPOSE FIANCE IS CONVICTED FOR 4YRS WILL U WAIT FOR HIM OR HER on: 4-03-2011 11:23 AM
Yes, i will wait if we have been sincere partners...
2  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 11 Reasons He Dunped You on: 7-10-2009 11:39 PM
Quote from: Hearthrob on  7-10-2009 05:47 PM
Passing

come back hey u gurl
3  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Bf and Gf only on: 6-10-2009 09:40 PM
hmm daddy...
4  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: are u single then drop comment here on: 6-10-2009 09:15 PM
hmmmm
5  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Is it possible for a guy to abstain for over a year without having sex??? on: 6-10-2009 09:13 PM
when u say is very possible...u r not sincere to the topic....guys
6  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 11 Reasons He Dunped You on: 6-10-2009 09:10 PM
Quote from: onchedu on  5-10-2009 02:36 PM
This is much dude. pls could U summarise?

Here is ur summary:
1. I Got Bored
2. One of Us Was Too Serious
3. Burnout
4. I Was Tempted To Cheat
5. All My Friends Broke Up With Their Girlfriends
6. Divergent Lives
7. Feeling Selfish
8. I "Misread" My Feelings
9. My Friends Or Family Didn't Like Her
10. I Took Her For Granted
11. She Was Too Negative
7  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 11 Reasons He Dunped You on: 6-10-2009 09:08 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  6-10-2009 08:40 PM
where is the number 11?
ok, i do it this way:

1. I Got Bored
2. One of Us Was Too Serious
3. Burnout
4. I Was Tempted To Cheat
5. All My Friends Broke Up With Their Girlfriends
6. Divergent Lives
7. Feeling Selfish
8. I "Misread" My Feelings
9. My Friends Or Family Didn't Like Her
10. I Took Her For Granted
11. She Was Too Negative
8  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Bewteen man and Woman which one enjoy sex pass on: 6-10-2009 08:41 PM
old stories in 9japals
9  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 11 Reasons He Dunped You on: 6-10-2009 08:39 PM
Divergent Lives: 

If someone moves to another town, or work is taking over, or other life changes are driving you apart, sometimes it's best to end it.
10  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 11 Reasons He Dunped You on: 6-10-2009 08:38 PM
Quote from: DarkCoco on  6-10-2009 04:48 AM
hehehehe....u just copied my blog here

do you have any... read and get something into ur head...
11  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: One of Us Was Too Serious on: 6-10-2009 08:27 PM
All your points are GREAT!!!
12  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 11 Reasons He Dunped You on: 5-10-2009 02:39 PM
ok, i break it down now...cheers
13  Forum / Relationships & Romance / One of Us Was Too Serious on: 5-10-2009 02:36 PM
This could be as simple as she wanted to see me three times a week, and I only wanted to see her once a week. If she's flirting with other guys, flighty, or not as into it as I am, then I'm too serious for her.

14  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: hey on: 5-10-2009 02:34 PM
what?
15  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: no i'm ready 2 fall in love on: 5-10-2009 02:34 PM
fall in love?
16  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Are Woman better players then men ? on: 5-10-2009 02:33 PM
Women are better players no doubt about it...
17  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Will you forgive? on: 5-10-2009 02:32 PM
As for me, she will go for redundancy...make she go another...cheer buddy!
18  Forum / Relationships & Romance / 11 Reasons He Dunped You on: 5-10-2009 02:24 PM
I was flipping through a Women's Health recently (I admit it), and I noticed an interesting poll. Women cited the following as the most common breakup reasons:

He changed
We weren't compatible
He cheated on me
When I was little, it drove me crazy when my parents supported "no" with "because I said so." I always wanted a reason. I'm not sure if knowing why always helps, but perhaps if you know common reasons guys break up with girls, you'll at least be able to see it coming. So, here are mine:

I Got Bored:  I've read many different hypotheses on attention span, but my favorite is (Wikipedia):

"Continuous attention span, or the amount of time a human can focus on an object without any lapse at all, is very brief and may be as short as 8 seconds. After this amount of time, it is likely that an individual's eyes will shift focus, or that a stray thought will briefly enter consciousness."

My attention span (unless it's a football game or a song) may be worse. I know a relationship is not supposed to be exciting all the time, so getting through those flatline moments between the sparks is critical. If I start having more fun with other activities, the relationship is doomed.

One of Us Was Too Serious:  This could be as simple as she wanted to see me three times a week, and I only wanted to see her once a week. If she's flirting with other guys, flighty, or not as into it as I am, then I'm too serious for her.

Burnout:  I'm a big believer in pacing and rhythm in dating. A relationship can suffer burnout if certain milestones occur too fast: Being exclusive, sex, meeting parents. When that happens, I get that feeling the colonists must have gotten after they won the Revolutionary War: "Ok, we did it...so now what?"

I Was Tempted To Cheat:  I do my best not to cheat, so when I have recurring urges to cheat on my girlfriend, I figure it's time to break up with her. I don't need to go through with cheating; the constant urge is enough for me to end things.

All My Friends Broke Up With Their Girlfriends:  This is by far the most immature reason on this list. While my girlfriend and I are curled up on the couch watching "The Devil Wears Prada," my newly single guy friends are out shredding the karaoke waves with Journey's "Don't Stop Believin" and tearing up the town. That conflict gives me wanderlust. It's much easier when we are all in for a quiet Saturday night with the significant others.

Divergent Lives:  If someone moves to another town, or work is taking over, or other life changes are driving you apart, sometimes it's best to end it.

Feeling Selfish:  Dating is selfless because you're giving your time and yourself up to a relationship. "Me time" is necessary at some point to work on career/living situation, travel, or whatever. When I'm in a "selfish period," it's tough to participate in a relationship.

I "Misread" My Feelings:  This is the most unfair of all the reasons. Both genders make this mistake—you get into a relationship and everything seems so great. Then, a few weeks later, you realize you got wrapped up in something for the wrong reason, dated for the sake of dating, or whatever, and you need to get out.

My Friends Or Family Didn't Like Her:  I pay close attention to friend/family opinions because they know me best, and they've earned the right to have their say. Also, friends and family may be able to see things inside the relationship that I'm too blinded to see.

I Took Her For Granted:  Great relationships should be easy, but there has to be some tension too—especially in the beginning. If it's too easy, there's a lack of challenge. If I feel like I could have her heart any time any place, sometimes I'll let her go. This almost always ends up coming back to haunt me later, though. I never learn.

She Was Too Negative:  All too often, I end up with the brooding, depressed, uptight type who is constantly complaining. I don't expect someone to be happy all the time, but if she makes me unhappy every time I see her, why stay with her?

What reasons have guys used to break up with you, and which make you most angry? What reasons have caused you to break up with guys? Which reasons do you think are the most common cause of breakups- do they differ for guys and women?

19  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Does anyone still write love letters ? on: 22-09-2009 07:59 PM
Quote from: temi07 on 21-09-2009 11:44 AM
Yes, i still do on occasions, lol, caligraphy pen and scented paper with red lipstick are still my friends.

Ah! don't tell me u still do that old style thing...
20  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Can you miss someone you have never met? on: 22-09-2009 07:26 PM
Yes poster, u can miss someone u have not met in person. Reasons are: u ppl have been interacting well and at a point, u lost contact...in one form or the other..u will miss those special moment on the phone or chat room or those beautiful emails....cheers
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