i dont always think and i dont generalise but from what u said it was obvious that u ve made bad experiences with girls or that u have d wrong orientation about girls a perfect gentleman should b humble and a human being should help people without expecting anything from them , he\she should help them bcos of d love of GOD NOT BCOS OF WHAT D PERSON DOES OR DID NOT DO! AND DO REVENGE d sin of another girl on innocent girls , two wrongs never make right it only makes worst i had bad experiences too but i gave everynew guy a chance to prove that he is not bad i didnt aveng my bad experiences on total innocent guys that i dont know anything about, lets spread love not hate then we have d hope of a better Nigeria
you are sooooooo right.