Any love that have not been tested is still a baby love,the ability of holding on when things get rough is the strenght of love,so my dear,hold on and keep praying for that is the solution to your problem.But let me advice you,in respect of the love both of you share,"If both of you are not meant to live together as husband and wife,with or with out his father's blessing,their will always be problem,so seek devine intervention who knows God want you out.