U wan die? Elder say make u shut up u stil dey yarn

U're just curious? Just shut up!

That's it__You so understanding smart friend.
As a man i have no problem with the bill cos its my right
to make payment....I can't sit my ass in one corner and watch a lady to upset the bills.
Its not proper that way

Are U ok at all? Did U even read what U wrote here? U are falling in love with a married man... U try to flirt with him... Are U ok at all?

@blessedme, see your question below.

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what if she is nt married and just got a child out of a r/ship
she intended to keep and just did nt work out?
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Come on! Wetin be dat? Got a child out of a relationship she intended to keep and bla bla bla bla didnt work out! Come on! What nonsense is that? What nonsense is that?

Has the child got a father? Who is the father? Where is the father? What nonsense are we talking. One shouldn't even contemplate such.

What was she thinking? Was she being selfish? Did she think she was the only person to consider? Did she not know that every child wishes for a daddy? What gross irresponsibility is that? Okay, she did not abort the child. Good. One point for her.

Some people just want to eat em cake and have it. Some just wish to eat em cake and have it.  Can't blame em cause that is what holy and nolly wood preach.

It is a shame that the way Christianity is practiced now is far from the set principles in the bible. Some think the bible and the holy books are hog wash and they turn to magazines and movies for wisdom. What straits? A shame.
And parents aint even helping the matter.

@blessedme, as we say in Nigeria, "my eye never open reach that one oo00!" My eye never open reach. Plus I have things to consider. Like my kids especially my daughters in the future may have cause to follow mama's example. I do not want that. Pardon my catechism and Sunday school as a kid.

Every Mother should raise her daughter to be XTREMELY SELF CONSCIOUS. I will repeat it again, every mother should raise her daughter to be XTREMELY SELF CONSCIOUS. XTREMELY SELF CONSCIOUS.

There is an extent I will not go. We leave in a world where parents know that their daughter has gone a whoring in Italy and they still do not detach themselves from the proceeds. How do you reconcile that?

And am sure such a girl would want a marriage for a life time right? What right does she have to want a marriage for a life time? And will I have the respect that is necessary to keep a family for her? And if I have cause to suspect her of cheating, will her past not count against her?

@blessedme, there are a lot of reasons why a guy will not want a girl who has a child especially if it is out of wedlock. A lot of reasons.

May God help us, cause, this present generation of girls do not believe in working things out. Especially if one's pepper is not on the high side.

May God help us.

Us guys oo00! Ha ah ah ah ahah!


after reading ur storys i notice most men are just the same ......the same old story dont u guys think ladies act that way due to the way u treat them!!!! some may even be victim or lack of love from family and when they try search 4 one the get pregnant and  no  not what to do.... most of ur comment get me upset ....i know most ladies could be heartless but i tell u no woman want to be a single mother as well as been a single father but how come no one talk`s about a single father ........wetin girls do una self.....at the end of the day after ur comment and all u will end up falling in love with a woman in dat condition i wonder what u will do or happen ...

yes na.. at least if her dowry should be 300 thousand, i will cut it down to 100 or 150 thousand cos she is no longer brand new.. na TOKUMBO she be

Yes there are many things we wish guys knew, but on the other hand there are  alot out there that we don't know about them or just haven't actually believed yet, read this it will make you think!!!



Guys hate sluts even though they have intimacy with them!
(oh yeah, you're not "popular" if you've slept with more than 5 guys, you're a AGOLO{USED TIN})

--"Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

--Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

--Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

--Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

--Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

--Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are
method.

--A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

--Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

--Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

--Guys get jealous easily.

--Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

--Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!, uh, never mind, " would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

--Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

--Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

--Girls are guys' weaknesses.

--Guys are very open about themselves.

--It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

--Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

--If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

--A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

--Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

--Guys will brag about anything.

--Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

--Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

--Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

--Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

--Try to be as straightforward as possible.

--A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

--If the guy does something silly in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

--No matter how much guys talk about asses and bosoms, personality is key.

--Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

--Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

--If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

--When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

--When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

--Guys don't really have final decisions.

--If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know some thing's up.

--If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

--When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

--Guys like femininity not feebleness.

--Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

--A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

--Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

--Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

--Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

--Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

--Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

--A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

--No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

--Not all guys are A*#Ss. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn't mean he represents ALL of us.

--We don't like girls who are too skinny.

--We love it when girls talk about there bosoms.

--Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy , like whether it's a one time deal or not ,

--Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to, it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unnoticeable tell them about yours,

--When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you segxwally

--Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs,

--Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it , it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts,

--Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that, after you let him know a couple times.

--When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.


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WHATS WRONG WITH THAT?FOR U TO LOVE SOME ONE  WHO IS OLDER THAN YOU