Sophie,
i can say that everything depend on you because who he put on a shoe know where it pains you......you are with him for years and you tend to know if he is the right man for you......you should not be carry away by any gift been given to you.....and also remember that you can marry a rich man now but there could be to peace at home.....just try and take a 2nd thought of whatever you want to if it pleases you and the man you want to spend the rest of your life with.....there is a limit to what people can advice you on and if you know the advice is right for you......don`t allow some people to push you but value their opinion if is going to work for you.......

In this kind of situation we all understand the reason for all this and the people in question are also saying their own mind why its ought to to be so.....come to look at it the best way is for both parties to work hand in hand but reverse is the case......due to the fact that some love this money more than the other and some are lazy that they want one to go out there and bring in money while they turned their own busy sit at home with kids to be a big work.......this issue still need to be address in every ones home. But remember that how you want it to be ok for that how you intend addressing.....May God help us all...........Amen

that is nice

there nothing wrong in that , the most vital thing there is the love and to care for each for one another

martha, why are you saying that? tho` i don`t really know what went wrong between them but i do understand that if one relationship is no favorable then u have to leave than to die in there or do they say someone life is attached to a marriage? that mean somebody dead body has to be taken away then

it is just a wrong thing as for me to be dating neighbor because the rat in the house or environment won`t allowed the outside to come in again. more so, i don`t just like it .......i have done it before but is  not ok...it could ok for those that really know that they are going end up in marriage

You've got to be kidding... We are more than 2 months past April fools! LOL.
Maybe the cheated husband is in denial, maybe he still love his wife and doesn't want to divorce, so he adopted her charade, but there's no way in hell an educated person living in the 21st century can believe that a woman can get pregnant by watching porn. 3D or not.
If I were the horned hubby, I'd ask for a DNA test with the porn movie actor. Let's see if the test match.
They might get some media atention (aparently, they already got), but they look extremely stupid in it.

Come to look at it , Why would she perform a pregnancy test knowing that she didn't have sex? And only after a month.

People skip periods, and people get sick. It doesn't mean they're pregnant, but she presumed she was.

So basically she performed a pregnancy test, having not had sex in months and months.

Lots of sense here.

 But the Christians believe in a virgin who became pregnant out of nowhere and who said it was a holy ghost. Go figure out yourself. But my advice for the Lady is to  please STOP lying and Mr Military man star looking for the REAL man who got your wife pregnant, don't believe that story, she is playing with you mind, of course she went to bed with a black guy!!!!!

This is soooo sad that you were there in Iraq risking your life and she was here having fun! DUMP her man!!!

There is no how a child will be happy without his or her seeing or being with both parent....coming from a broken home is just a bad experience of which i don`t pray it for any 1.....one thing that people refused to understand is that such a child would be a total stranger in both parent houses, the attention will be totally different from when the both parent are living together in the same roof and taken care of the child or children together.
The kind of Psychological trauma that such a child or parent will be into can`t be measurable but it's just a pain in someone`s heart. The theory and practice of it is that some parent can`t be able to take good care of their child or of the child they have not to talk of that the child parent are living separately. The trauma would be there for live.

some of the ladies have forgotten that most lady now a days only want to have a child from a man but not want to get married

i don`t know why people want to vote blankly................to me( Shekarau ) is the man if you guys take your time to watch the former presidential debate which Goodluck tend not to turn up with any reason.....that shown a disgrace to him or would he say he`s on a sick bed? still today i have not seen or heard any reason why Goodluck can`t come to the debate.
You guy need to watch the former debate brfore you can deside on any one to vote for......what really pain me the mot is that how many people watch the presidential debate...how many people has DSTV bcos that was where they transmit it from in channel NN24 .................PLEASE watch it. The man is very articulate and compost........moreso go to KANO and see all what he has done...just like fashola in Lagos state.

I can only tell you to try me for like 3 month if there could be changes between us and after that prepare to have baby.....reply me in order to know when we are going to start the proper relationship.....call or text me 08053518296.....or what did u guys think about it?

to me it is ok , if every1 can be given wotever he or she does either gud or bad ds would surely make nigeria a better place