@ poster, U can protect u'r self by abstainning u'rself from the relationship once u realise he is a Nigerian...., cos It will do u a favor for not being the one left out for another woman from the man's country.
Secondly, u should remember that most of these problems are caused by ladies who would not like to relocate with their man should he decide to move down to his country. I have a friend who got married to a gurl from another country but now divorced; the problem was a stereotype thing about Nigeria which was her reason to refuse travelling to Nigeria with her man..... cos she don't want to be kidnapped or suffer in Nigeria .
Sorry!My question was for humblej!
So I repeat,are you advising women to not date nigerian men?