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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: 20 People Killed In Fresh Christian/Muslim Riot In Jos |
on: 1-09-2011 06:02 AM
| i hope all the dead ones are the useless muslims.....i hate this people with all my heart.
evn "u" u'r going 2 die whether u like/hate urslf,,jst be patient...Beside,,u'r not suppose 2 like them,,,NONSENSE!!!!!!!!!!!%%%%% shaaaaaaarup man! yu make me sick Though,,u hate Islam/Muslims,,,,but i still wish u quick recovery. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: CELEBRITY MARRIAGES>>>> |
on: 7-03-2011 10:46 PM
| 1. It's jst d@ som couples only gets marriage 4 their segxwal satisfaction..if, 4 instance som1 sees a lady nd is segxwally attracted 2 her,he simply tries diffirents formalities 2 win ova her,so if he didn't succeed then he'll rush in2 marriage wit her..after marriage as he already knows her segxwally then divorce takes place,coz there wsn't true luv frm d start.. 2. if som1 cn get marriage cheafly, then why will he waste his time maintaining her since he cn get another one witout difficulties?? U c!!! Dz is another problm affecting most of d marriages in our own generation. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why a lot african people come to europe and want to make marriage? |
on: 11-02-2011 12:33 PM
| Marriage here is a very big thing. It is something we hold in high regards especially in Nigeria. But, It is so unfortunate some who travels overseas get involved in false marriages to get their papers.
Yes I believe that marriage is a big deal there, B/C the nigeria man is married to nigeria lady, and then that man go and marry some1 else for papers. That benifit the nigeria woman, b/c she will be coming to join her nigeria HUSBAND in the place he gained his papers. God is going to get yall. I find it scary that people don't fear God, and think it's ok to do these nonnigeria women this way. I pray that God trouble the minds of theses men and give them no rest, until that repent and stop this rubbish. Abeg don't fight. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: men sagging pants |
on: 25-11-2010 02:58 PM
| Honestly speaking,, this sagging habits is originated from the gays, only gays used to sag as their identification, but now most guys does that due to illiteracy coz they don't know the true meaning of it... | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: A man's world...always the man's fault. |
on: 15-10-2010 12:19 PM
| It may jst b dt women are alwyz at the negative side nd so they're underrated which can't b blame at any givn situation,,it's upon a man to maintain the relationshp using his intellectuality nd maturity.......So to me women'r nt to b blamed, coz they alwyz expct good nd right thing frm her man. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / WOMEN BEND, MEN BREAK |
on: 8-09-2010 10:34 PM
| U see, relationships as we knw grow frm strength 2 strength as long as there is a constant rotation of luv, trust nd c'mmtmn; d bond is created b/w a man nd woman based on these foundations. HOWEVER there comes numerous tyms wen ds relationship is tested and 8 times out of 10 dt so called strength portrayed becomes curiously fragile.
It wouldnt be accurate to say every test has the same reaction but more often than not you find in circumstancial scenarios women bend while men break. Now when we say women bend we are refering to their reaction to a negative scenario/event that can affect their relationship….the woman is clearly affected (hence the bending) but rather than show outright anger she conceals it and saves the issue for a rainy day. When it comes to the man on the other hand he has less tolerance and his reaction is instant and somewhat volatile (hence the breaking) towards the situation. If you pay your attention to the scenarios below…… Who is that?
You see your partner talking to someone of the opposite sex, and they are friendlier than usual
Woman Bends: She’ll see her man talking to the other girl, she’s upset about it (the face expression says it all) but she wont react. Instead she’ll look on, collect her thoughts and save this moment for a future argument.
Man Breaks: He sees her talking to a guy and it’s an instant reaction, he’s angry. He makes sure his presence and concern is known by both the girl and the guy she’s talking to by wandering over to the conversation.
Holiday in Ayia Napa?
Your partner’s going on a party holiday….in Napa
Woman Bends: Has her suspicions over and over again but quietly trusts her partner will behave himself (pssh..in Napa? haha)
Man Breaks: He knows and hears stories about Napa which sends him into a paranormal state, he trusts her not to misbehave but knowing some of the girls she’s going with he’s torn. He decided he’s not happy, he gets into an argument with his woman which either results in her misbehaving out there or forces him to JOIN her in Napa You’re not getting any
Your partner isn;t in the mood for sex, simple
Woman Bends: She’s baffled at first, then shows mild anger but doesnt complain for too long, she collects her thoughts and uses this against him in future
Man Breaks: Its the end of the world, he’s fuming and doesnt know what to do with himself; fidgety and annoyed he says things out of his character which further prevents him from having sex that night; which results in more frustration
Your partner has a new friend of the opposite sex that they speak to often
Woman Bends: She’ll wait (and hope) for her man to tell her who the new friend is. If he doesnt say, she’ll attempt secret snooping through his phone and facebook. If no harm is done she’ll leave it but if she finds something….
Man Breaks: He’ll complain ask about her new friend and demand request less time be spent speaking to him. When meeting the friend he attempts minimal conversation and delivers the “eyes” to let him know he dont like him. The new friend unsurprisingly rarely speaks to her ever again.. Miscellaneous Objects
You see something in the car that doesnt belong to you…and sure as hell dont belong to your partner….but whoever it belongs to is the same sex as you
Woman Bends: You observe it, analyse it, think and then Save it for a Rainy Day
Man Breaks: Everyday is a rainy day, instant phone call What time do you call this?
Your partner comes home late….real late after a party. They look and smell different
Woman Bends: She doesnt say anything, she logs it into her memory
Man Breaks: If he hasnt called her already before she even hits the door, He doesnt stop asking questions, we suddenly have an episode of CSI Miami/Forensic Detectives in which the volume gets louder by the minute
The scenarios dont lie……the scenarios do not lie! So I guess after that the next thing is to look at the even wider perspective and disect why. Why do women bend and men break? We can never be 100% sure but I put it down to control issues. Reading an essay once the writer interstingly suggested that there’s sometimes a gap between a man’s ability to reason and his ability to feel whereas women can connect reason with emotion whilst also knowing that reason can’t solve all emotional issues.
We all like to be in control of our life…men more or less take pride in being in control of their relationship and when they sense that their control has been comprimised they react aggressively because they aren’t used to not being in control; they havent gained the necessary knowledge of how to react.
Women on the other hand use logic and emotion to get what they want. They know that breaking hardly creates control so they wait, they bend…they are tactful. They wait until the man is at a vulnerable or weak position and then they unleash. All those bending expeditions are used as ammo and when this ammo is released it triggers alot of stupidity in a man in regards to his respone (ranging from stuttering to not well thought out lies)
Does that make women are stronger than men?….well thats another article in itself. What do you think? | | | |