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121  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: 20 People Killed In Fresh Christian/Muslim Riot In Jos on: 1-09-2011 06:02 AM
Quote from: kebella on 30-08-2011 04:30 PM
Quote from: sagiru on 30-08-2011 02:22 PM
Quote from: otagermo on 30-08-2011 10:29 AM
i hope all the dead ones are the useless muslims.....i hate this people with all my heart.

evn "u" u'r going 2 die whether u like/hate urslf,,jst be patient...Beside,,u'r not suppose 2 like them,,,NONSENSE!!!!!!!!!!!%%%%%

shaaaaaaarup man! yu make me sick Sad Sad Sad

Though,,u hate Islam/Muslims,,,,but i still wish u quick recovery.
122  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: 20 People Killed In Fresh Christian/Muslim Riot In Jos on: 30-08-2011 02:22 PM
Quote from: otagermo on 30-08-2011 10:29 AM
i hope all the dead ones are the useless muslims.....i hate this people with all my heart.

evn "u" u'r going 2 die whether u like/hate urslf,,jst be patient...Beside,,u'r not suppose 2 like them,,,NONSENSE!!!!!!!!!!!%%%%%
123  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Why We Had To Bomb The UN Office - Boko Haram Leader on: 28-08-2011 01:06 AM
Quote from: babyleslie on 27-08-2011 11:56 PM
I new it..Muslims, BokoHaram... hmmmm....I think dis world would hv been a better place without them..

I started hating dz forum bcos of ppl like you,,,Nonsesnse!!!!

I started hating dz forum bcos of ppl like you,,,Nonsesnse!!!!

124  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Extended family gives an Ultimatum "Get Married or Else..." on: 13-08-2011 12:14 AM
They'r not suppose to pressurize her,marriage is a long time i support her to wait for her convinient time..""no promise,no yearn,no pressure,,jst PhD""
125  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: CELEBRITY MARRIAGES>>>> on: 7-03-2011 10:46 PM
1. It's jst d@ som couples only gets marriage 4 their segxwal satisfaction..if, 4 instance som1 sees a lady nd is segxwally attracted 2 her,he simply tries diffirents formalities 2 win ova her,so if he didn't succeed then he'll rush in2 marriage wit her..after marriage as he already knows her segxwally then divorce takes place,coz there wsn't true luv frm d start.. 2. if som1 cn get marriage cheafly, then why will he waste his time  maintaining her since he cn get another one witout difficulties?? U c!!! Dz is another problm affecting most of d marriages in our own generation.
126  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why a lot african people come to europe and want to make marriage? on: 11-02-2011 12:33 PM
Quote from: igbonnanna on 10-02-2011 11:46 PM
Quote from: TRAYCELEYELE on  9-02-2011 09:50 PM
Quote from: Sheree on  8-02-2011 10:54 AM
Marriage here is a very big thing. It is something we hold in high regards especially in Nigeria. But, It is so unfortunate some who travels overseas get involved in false marriages to get their papers.
Yes I believe that marriage is a big deal there, B/C the nigeria man is married to nigeria lady, and then that man go and marry some1 else for papers. That benifit the nigeria woman, b/c she will be coming to join her nigeria HUSBAND in the place he gained his papers. God is going to get yall. I find it scary that people don't fear God, and think it's ok to do these nonnigeria women this way. I pray that God trouble the minds of theses men and give them no rest, until that repent and stop this rubbish.

Abeg don't fight.
127  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why a lot african people come to europe and want to make marriage? on: 11-02-2011 12:16 PM
European Vs African,,verrrry interesting...O.K still reading comments b4 deciding what 2 say.
128  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: US indicates interests in Plateau crisis on: 11-02-2011 11:01 AM
Quote from: ekezieprince on 11-02-2011 07:53 AM
that people is always looking for opportunity,  i have nothing to say yet.

me self dey fear those Americans,,,,let not Nigeria fall to hands of FREEMASONIC CONSPIRACY...
129  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 8 Qualities of a Perfect Girlfriend on: 10-02-2011 04:14 PM
Accurate!!!,,,if na me go mark am u go score A+++++++++++++++++++++++++++
130  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Mr. Rich Guy Vs Mr. Handsome Guy on: 30-01-2011 01:02 PM
Quote from: interpo77 on 29-01-2011 07:50 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 29-01-2011 04:50 PM
hmmm i no fit date real ugly person, i fit date rich person...but i no fit date rich but wowo person

hmmmm hmmmm am confused  ;D lol

131  Forum / Sports / Re: La liga Showdown: Real Madrid against Barcelona, Mourinho confirmed on: 29-11-2010 01:08 PM
Quote from: nice9ija on 28-11-2010 09:37 PM

Hmmmm!!! never insult an alligator till after you've crossed the river..
132  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: men sagging pants on: 25-11-2010 02:58 PM
Honestly speaking,, this sagging habits is originated from the gays, only gays used to sag as their identification, but now most guys does that due to illiteracy coz they don't know the true meaning of it...
133  Forum / Religion / Re: I can prove christianity is fake on: 22-10-2010 12:35 PM
May b u do proofed dt Christianity is fake, so wt of Islam??? is it fake too?????? proofs nd references are needed.   
134  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Why I Allowed Dad To Impregnate Me –16-year-old Girl on: 15-10-2010 01:23 PM
May Allah guide nd protect our private parts..wishing dt poor girl a quick delivery nd recovery of her health,, may dt devil father be furnished in the day of judgment.
135  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Okah has link with bomb blast suspects – S/African prosecutor on: 15-10-2010 12:36 PM
Only God can judge..but let's wait nd here something reasonable nd favorable action to b taken  frm d president.
136  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: A man's world...always the man's fault. on: 15-10-2010 12:19 PM
It may jst b dt women are alwyz at the negative side nd so they're underrated which can't b blame at any givn situation,,it's upon a man to maintain the relationshp using his intellectuality nd maturity.......So to me women'r nt to b blamed, coz they alwyz expct good nd right thing frm her man.
137  Forum / Politics / Re: President Seeks Reps’ Approval For $4.43bn Loan on: 15-10-2010 11:38 AM
Hmmmm!!!!!! we better keep praying for brighter future of our dear nation,, may all the wicked leaders be replaced with the better ones...
138  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / WOMEN BEND, MEN BREAK on: 8-09-2010 10:34 PM
U see, relationships as we knw grow frm strength 2 strength as long as there is a constant rotation of luv, trust nd c'mmtmn; d bond is created b/w a man nd woman based on these foundations. HOWEVER there comes  numerous tyms wen ds relationship is tested and 8 times out of 10 dt so called strength portrayed becomes curiously fragile.

It wouldnt be accurate to say every test has the same reaction but more often than not you find in circumstancial scenarios women bend while men break. Now when we say women bend we are refering to their reaction to a negative scenario/event that can affect their relationship….the woman is clearly affected (hence the bending) but rather than show outright anger she conceals it and saves the issue for a rainy day. When it comes to the man on the other hand he has less tolerance and his reaction is instant and somewhat volatile (hence the breaking) towards the situation. If you pay your attention to the scenarios below……
Who is that?

You see your partner talking to someone of the opposite sex, and they are friendlier than usual

Woman Bends: She’ll see her man talking to the other girl, she’s upset about it (the face expression says it all) but she wont react. Instead she’ll look on, collect her thoughts and save this moment for a future argument.

Man Breaks: He sees her talking to a guy and it’s an instant reaction, he’s angry. He makes sure his presence and concern is known by both the girl and the guy she’s talking to by wandering over to the conversation.

Holiday in Ayia Napa?

Your partner’s going on a party holiday….in Napa

Woman Bends: Has her suspicions over and over again but quietly trusts her partner will behave himself ( Napa? haha)

Man Breaks: He knows and hears stories about Napa which sends him into a paranormal state, he trusts her not to misbehave but knowing  some of the girls she’s going with he’s torn. He decided he’s not happy, he gets into an argument with his woman which either results in her misbehaving out there or forces him to JOIN her in Napa
You’re not getting any

Your partner isn;t in the mood for sex, simple

Woman Bends: She’s baffled at first, then shows mild anger but doesnt complain for too long, she collects her thoughts and uses this against him in future

Man Breaks: Its the end of the world, he’s fuming and doesnt know what to do with himself; fidgety and annoyed he says things out of his character which further prevents him from having sex that night; which results in more frustration

Your partner has a new friend of the opposite sex that they speak to often

Woman Bends: She’ll wait (and hope) for her man to tell her who the new friend is. If he doesnt say, she’ll attempt secret snooping through his phone and facebook. If no harm is done she’ll leave it but if she finds something….

Man Breaks: He’ll complain ask about her new friend and demand request less time be spent speaking to him. When meeting the friend he attempts minimal conversation and delivers the “eyes” to let him know he dont like him. The new friend unsurprisingly rarely speaks to her ever again..
Miscellaneous Objects

You see something in the car that doesnt belong to you…and sure as hell dont belong to your partner….but whoever it belongs to is the same sex as you

Woman Bends: You observe it, analyse it, think and then Save it for a Rainy Day

Man Breaks: Everyday is a rainy day, instant phone call
What time do you call this?

Your partner comes home late….real late after a party. They look and smell different

Woman Bends: She doesnt say anything, she logs it into her memory

Man Breaks: If he hasnt called her already before she even hits the door, He doesnt stop asking questions, we suddenly have an episode of CSI Miami/Forensic Detectives in which the volume gets louder by the minute

The scenarios dont lie……the scenarios do not lie!
So I guess after that the next thing is to look at the even wider perspective and disect why. Why do women bend and men break? We can never be 100% sure but I put it down to control issues. Reading an essay once the writer interstingly suggested that there’s sometimes a gap between a man’s ability to reason and his ability to feel whereas women can connect reason with emotion whilst also knowing that reason can’t solve all emotional issues.

We all like to be in control of our life…men more or less take pride in being in control of their relationship and when they sense that their control has been comprimised they react aggressively because they aren’t used to not being in control; they havent gained the necessary knowledge of how to react.

Women on the other hand use logic and emotion to get what they want. They know that breaking hardly creates control so they wait, they bend…they are tactful. They wait until the man is at a vulnerable or weak position and then they unleash. All those bending expeditions are used as ammo and when this ammo is released it triggers alot of stupidity in a man in regards to his respone (ranging from stuttering to not well thought out lies)

Does that make women are stronger than men?….well thats another article in itself. What do you think?
139  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: 4 Men Rape Girl, 11, Infect Her With HIV on: 8-09-2010 11:13 AM
This guy is really a property of devil!! maybe na him dis-virgin d girl self nd lead her lyf in2 misery... poor girl nd wicked guys,, may God revenge herl in any possible way b4 their death..
140  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: HOW DO YOU WANT TO SPEND YOUR WEEKEND. on: 5-09-2010 12:50 PM
well, am jst on my way 2 visit som of d family,relatives nd frnds. moreover, i'll combck nd tek rest.
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