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1  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Indecent exposure,why women on: 22-11-2011 06:11 AM
Only stupid women who have nothing else but their bodies do this..unless they get paid lots of money for it like models...otherwise, real men..men with great jobs and lots of money..go by brains.  And you can't overexpose THAT... Wink
2  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: LWKMD: Akata Girl Injected With Cement and Super Glue During Booty Inplant on: 22-11-2011 06:02 AM
This is going too far! Why do we value 'body parts' like this?  I've never seen, or heard, anything good come out of a 'booty'.  Shouldn't we be teaching our girls the value of education and letting them grow up to value themselves and others instead of how big their booties (Bosom s, lips, how long their hair, light their skin etc) is? This is moronic and preventable. 
3  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: NIGERIAN GIRL STRIPED NAKED FOR STEALING A BLACKBERRY PHONE (Video inclusive) on: 14-11-2011 05:31 AM
this is sick, the people who stripped this girl have no regard for women. what if this was their mother or sister? This is crazy. No-one deserves to be treated like this.  I pray this girl is alright after this happened to her and was posted all over the internet.  It made me want to to vomit.
4  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: SA: Zuma in a New Sex Scandal on: 12-02-2010 03:17 AM
Quote from: teeco on  3-02-2010 03:26 PM
SA's President Jacob Zuma has found himself in a new sex scandal. The President has allegedly fathered a child with the daughter of one of his friends. The news comes shortly after his fifth marriage this year. The opposition has been quick to accuse him "of undermining his own government's safe sex campaign, designed to limit the spread of HIV and AIDS."

Media outlets are awash with reports that Zuma fathered a baby girl with a 39-year-old divorcee Sonona Khoza in October last year. Sonono is the daughter of Irvin Khoza, a close friend of the President and the chairman of the organising committee for the world cup. He is also chairman of one of the biggest teams in South Africa (Orlando Pirates) and is vice-president of the South African Football Association.

However In 2006 Zuma was trialed and acquitted of molesting a family friend who was HIV positive. His claim that he protected himself from the virus by having a shower after sex prompted widespread ridicule and outrage in South Africa.

According to news reports, the Democratic Alliance leader Helen Zille, has been quoted as saying Zuma’s conduct was damaging to the struggle against HIV and AIDS.

“President Jacob Zuma’s behavior directly contradicts the government’s campaign against multiple segxwal partners, and the inherent Aids risk in having unprotected sex," Zille said in a statement. "South Africa now has a President who, both through his words and his actions, is doing similar damage to that struggle".

Not only that president Zuma is a polygamous man, Early this year, he got married to his fifth wife, Thobeka Madiba, aged 37. He has also engaged Gloria Bongi Ngema from Durban. It is not known if Zuma would tie the knot with Ngema anytime soon.

Jacob Zuma’s other wives include, Sizakele Khumalo, who he married in 1973, and Nompumelelo MaNtuli-Zuma, who he married in 2007 during a traditional wedding at his Nkandla home.

The president was legally married to Kate Zuma who died in 2000, Home Affairs Minister, Nkosazana Dlamini Zuma, was also married to the ANC president but later divorced in 1998.

39 is a teenager?  Well, Hells Bells!!  I'm moving to Naijaland!!
5  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: The untold truth about American marriages [Nigerians in diaspora] on: 11-02-2010 02:33 AM
Quote from: mazi on  8-02-2010 01:49 AM
Quote from: erikaakpan on  5-02-2010 06:03 PM
Quote from: Vixenx on  5-02-2010 03:51 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on  5-02-2010 09:09 AM
Quote from: sweetrobinb on  5-02-2010 03:30 AM
Quote from: Vixenx on  4-02-2010 04:24 PM
EAUCHARIA IHEME HAS GOT SOME ISSUES....................................SHE IS LYING LYING LYING LYING!!!

The girl wanted to be on the front page to make some extra money , so they paid her to tell lies........Because what she is saying is not true at all, maybe a little about the part where "if you don't work you don't eat"..duhhhhhhhh that's every where and not just in America...but as far as all those other things she's claiming are lies.


If you don't work you WILL eat.  Go to the government and get foodstamps...trade them in for whatever you want to eat..the government will pay.  Here..the poorest are the fattest..and a sign  of wealth is being slender...

thats NOT true...cuz if u dnt work u WILL NOT eat. in order to get welfare u have to go through a long and meaningless process. background checks to see if u are workin, if u have a car, if u have anything that  u may use in ur leisure time that u dnt need(cell phones) jus to see if u can quality to receive the stamps. most ppl that do get welfare lie on their application anyways jus to get over on the government


Erika, tell her that again plz. Grin

i dnt kno why ppl are talkin about America and never even been here...mchwww
jst give them visa...they will worship u....they r only consoling themsilves...lol

I live here.  Unfortunately I live in Minnesota, snowed in right now and it's awful. At least if I lived there I would be able to see something green...
6  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why do ladies value ugly guys than handsome guys on: 10-02-2010 01:42 AM
Quote from: Chosen4funny on  4-02-2010 09:17 AM
Please kindly drop your coments en dont  be upset,just wanna no why,
I think most handsome guys are arrogant, they do not try to please the woman they have because they can have as many as they want.  They also do not have to work at the relationship as hard as they could because they are so handsome women throw themselves at them everyday.  No woman wants to deal with that. 
7  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: The untold truth about American marriages [Nigerians in diaspora] on: 10-02-2010 01:40 AM
Quote from: Vixenx on  5-02-2010 03:51 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on  5-02-2010 09:09 AM
Quote from: sweetrobinb on  5-02-2010 03:30 AM
Quote from: Vixenx on  4-02-2010 04:24 PM
EAUCHARIA IHEME HAS GOT SOME ISSUES....................................SHE IS LYING LYING LYING LYING!!!

The girl wanted to be on the front page to make some extra money , so they paid her to tell lies........Because what she is saying is not true at all, maybe a little about the part where "if you don't work you don't eat"..duhhhhhhhh that's every where and not just in America...but as far as all those other things she's claiming are lies.


If you don't work you WILL eat.  Go to the government and get foodstamps...trade them in for whatever you want to eat..the government will pay.  Here..the poorest are the fattest..and a sign  of wealth is being slender...

thats NOT true...cuz if u dnt work u WILL NOT eat. in order to get welfare u have to go through a long and meaningless process. background checks to see if u are workin, if u have a car, if u have anything that  u may use in ur leisure time that u dnt need(cell phones) jus to see if u can quality to receive the stamps. most ppl that do get welfare lie on their application anyways jus to get over on the government


Erika, tell her that again plz. Grin

I am speaking directly from the complaint at hand, if you do not know  you should go back and read the main topic before YOU speak.  If you wish to comment, why not read the original complaint and comment on THAT instead of on other's comments?  Don't you have your own??   I know what I am speaking of, I live here and see all these things everyday.  Do you live down the street from me, if not, why are you so quick to laugh?  Why not come live here and see for yourself?  Before you talk, you should know...lik
8  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: How I Was Deflowered By My Cousin In My Grandmother’s Old Bed on: 5-02-2010 04:00 AM
Quote from: nametalkam on 27-01-2010 10:47 AM
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IT was a black night. The sky refused to spark with its usual flames, the moon lost its glory, the stars were cold and spit no colour. It was a night of thunder. The clouds were sad and ready to pour down rivers of tears. It was a night made alive in my soul forever.


The thunders came clashing, at first, it was like the rains it herald will spilt the earth in two. But there was no rain, it was all thunders. Thunders in a night full of nightmares. My nightmares, terrible tales I have dreamt of since I first heard about my hometown. Dark tales created out of my own fear. Lines I could trace but couldn’t see the end. whether it be tragic or comic. However the beginning is nothing but nightmare.
You are a great writer, I enjoyed th story but it was too long.  You want your cousin but can't have him, so forget about him.  It was a nice story tho..just a tad too long.

It was my first time in my hometown. It was an experience drawn out of a fairy tale. The rustic environment, the landscape, the trees, the streams, which I particularly fell in love with, my grandfather and many other things, I can’t express in writing. My hometown was an island drawn out of a picnic pleasure I thought could only exist in a fairy tale. I could live here all my life and dam the noisy city. But there was something else that turned my little paradise into a nightmare, my first cousin. Timothy.


His family lived in Warri, while mine lived in Kaduna. They came home too for the Christmas. Only that they arrived before we did. When I first set my eyes on him. I knew I was in big trouble. He was the first man that caught my breath hanging on my throat. couldn’t take my eyes off him. And as if the same force was working on him, he kept starring at me, which made me very uncomfortable.


I discovered later that he was three years older than me. He was nineteen while I was sixteen. Timmy as he was fondly called was the first son of my Aunt. who was the only person I knew in my Dad’s family since she had once visited us in Kaduna. Timmy sought for every opportunity to sit close to me. And each time he did I have this obnoxious feeling that I will etherise my virginity to this captivating cousin of mine. I knew incest was a grave sin but I couldn’t help it. The powers that exude from his body were bigger than me.


It was obvious, Timmy was in love with me from the first day. but what I didn’t realise was that my attraction to him was written on my face too, I tried to fight the ugly feeling but I was helpless.


If I had only confided in an adult maybe I would have been saved from this horrible night of thunders. But who would have listened to me? Mum was certainly not the type to talk to. Dad would have laugh and told me my feeling were part of my growing up. Aunty Kate (my mum’s younger sister) would have sounded the alarm, bringing the entire family together to come and hear my sinful thoughts. There was really nobody to talk to. I was all-alone with my lustful thoughts.


I resolved to prayers, praying that Timmy should not take his plans to the next level as he like touching me. particularly on the wrong places. I avoided being alone with him. Each time we happened to be alone. I will gather every strength in me to get out of that place. Then came the night of thunders.


It was a cold dull night. unlike other nights in the village when the moon flirts in its splendour. On normal December nights, the moon in my hometown is so full that one will almost think that it was drawn closer by magic because it seemed twice it usual size. Well. this night was different. The sinister darkness seemed to speak the inevitable to my skin Somehow I could tell sometime was going to go wrong that night.


All I can remember now is the thunder, the gentle push on my grandmas woody door, the room my younger brother and I slept on. I can still remember how my younger brother slips out of the room as if acting out a plan and disappeared into the main house, I was scared My parents were in the main house. I couldn’t tell the where about of grandma. who alone lived in the small adjoining little house to the main house we (my younger brother and I had to share her little house with her to keep her happy.


My fear was not that of the darkness but of not knowing where grandma was. Grandma was certainly not in the little house. Just as I was getting a little bit used to the nights of thunders, the worse happened. I could still remember every sound of that thunderous night void of rain as if it happened a moment ago. Each time I remembered, a cold shiver runs down my spine.


After my younger brother left the room, a cold breeze started penetrating through the old door into the room. I knew the old door wasn’t lock but wasn’t ready to go and bolt it, beside grandma might come in anytime. Another thought kind of played in my mind, what if Timmy choose this night to hatch his plans. As if to answer my thoughts, the breeze blew the old door wide open, no it wasn’t the breeze. Someone bigger than my little brother was squeezing himself into the room: I wanted to shout for help or asked aloud who that was when I heard his voice.
Felly are you sleeping?’ he asked.


I kept very still, pretending to be fast asleep. I never wanted him to touch me. I wanted him to go away. I knew how vulnerable I was at the time coupled with my feelings for him I wanted him to go away. But he walked closer to the bed where I laid. I could hear his footsteps. even now and his cologne was quite suppressing. God please let him not touch me I prayed silently.


Felly, it is me Timmy, I just want us to play a little’ he breathed the words into my ear. 1 know you like me. Felly, I like you too. We can play, you see no harm to it’.


I turned on my bed still pretending to be under the influence of a deep lethargic sleep, while using my hand to tell him to go away. My mouth couldn’t say the words. I guess that was my final mistake. Instead of him to go he slide into the bed with me. I felt him behind me and that was all I knew.


It is terrible to say but I was deflowered by my cousin, in my grand mother’s old bed. What is there to say? That I liked it or that I hated it and I have never quite forgiven myself for being so stupid. And the worst was that he almost did it again while we were alone in the orchard at the end of grandpa’s garden behind the house. That happened long ago. almost 2O years ago I am married now with two kids but each time there is thunder I still see myself on that sinful bed. How can I make this guilt go away?


9  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: The untold truth about American marriages [Nigerians in diaspora] on: 5-02-2010 03:44 AM
Quote from: ch33sbabe on  4-02-2010 10:43 AM
Wink this is xzactly wat is happpenin 2 me ooooo Lips Sealed     
Go get another man who makes as money as  you do..you'll be fine and happy too!
If you make enuf money you can have house help if you choose it BUT if you teach your children to be clean, you will NOT need much help!1 What help  is there you need?  run the vacuum, put the clothes in washer and dryer...sweep the floor and mop it with the disposable mop thingy...it's easy.  Spray the bathrooms..wait a few minutes and rinse..
Come on now...if you live here, you know this!!
10  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: The untold truth about American marriages [Nigerians in diaspora] on: 5-02-2010 03:40 AM
Quote from: Angelaaa on  4-02-2010 10:48 AM
Those men are called parasite....
Amen, Sister.  They are so accustomed to women doing something for them!  Ugh!  both do for each other here...or get packing!!
11  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: The untold truth about American marriages [Nigerians in diaspora] on: 5-02-2010 03:35 AM
Quote from: Josamase on  4-02-2010 11:07 PM
Everyone jut bull talk on this issue.. This is not making any sense from some dumb contributors to this editor's story. What is the true TITLE OF THIS ARTICLE?: "African women and their Marriages in America". Or  "African women And Their Professions As Nurses in America" This is not just Nigerian Woman issue, But Africans in General, Whether you are Ghanians, Ivorians, Cameroonians etc: Ones they becouse one lousy nurse, most of them will substitute their profession for their marriages. The reasons they got married in  the first place is to come to America, and after that they compete economically in their own homes with their husbands ones they become nurses, and not to support their husbands. Well I blame some men for using Nursing profession as a cateria to choose their wives. Well God help us all. We all will account to God one day. Marriage is an institution, and not a profession ordained by almighty God
What are you squawking about?  Most American women are not nurses because they don't want to be..you have to wipe the backsides of others and all that. Yuck!  Accountants, teachers,  InfoTech, stuff like that for women here..make lots of money and keep your hands clean.
12  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: The untold truth about American marriages [Nigerians in diaspora] on: 5-02-2010 03:30 AM
Quote from: Vixenx on  4-02-2010 04:24 PM
EAUCHARIA IHEME HAS GOT SOME ISSUES....................................SHE IS LYING LYING LYING LYING!!!

The girl wanted to be on the front page to make some extra money , so they paid her to tell lies........Because what she is saying is not true at all, maybe a little about the part where "if you don't work you don't eat"..duhhhhhhhh that's every where and not just in America...but as far as all those other things she's claiming are lies.


If you don't work you WILL eat.  Go to the government and get foodstamps...trade them in for whatever you want to eat..the government will pay.  Here..the poorest are the fattest..and a sign  of wealth is being slender...
13  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: The untold truth about American marriages [Nigerians in diaspora] on: 5-02-2010 03:27 AM
Quote from: TrillynTrully on  5-02-2010 01:29 AM
i dont get what an OWL has to do with it...
Me either.  LOL!
14  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: The untold truth about American marriages [Nigerians in diaspora] on: 5-02-2010 03:21 AM
Well some of what is said is true, but most is not.
You do have to pay for every single thing here, including water...but did you know....if you have no job the government will give you money, pay for housing, food and medical?
That's why the taxes are so high...
If you fall on hard times..you collect more than what you've paid.
And women here are not 'second class'.  We don't have to depend on anyone...at all.  If you're married and have children..and your husband leaves  you for whatever reason..the government will make him pay you AND pay for all the children.  You will continue to live as you have but may not be able to shop as much. 
It's ok...all Naija women should come here..not to look for husband but to look for themselves.
15  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Will you marry a second wife to have a male child? on: 31-01-2010 09:21 PM
this is very stupid on the parent's part; the husband's sperm determines the sex of the child.
He can remarry and have a lot more girls, but if she remarries her chances of having a boy are much better.
16  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: What is your Traditional name on: 27-01-2010 02:54 AM
Robin.  A bird.
17  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Some Pictures From The Jos Crises on: 27-01-2010 02:53 AM
Exactly what the Caucasians Embarrassed wanted..leave the Blacks to killl themselves.  And they will..
18  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: If Tiger Woods were your husband, would you divorce him? on: 31-12-2009 02:37 AM
This post is unrealistic on this website because Tiger Woods would not choose to marry ,or even have an affair with, a Black woman.  You all see that his wife and all of his lovers are skinny, white women with long hair...

There is no reason to even think of leaving or staying with someone who never wanted you in the first place... Huh? Huh?
19  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: men sleeping with their house maids...who's to blame? on: 8-12-2009 03:39 AM
Please blame no-one but the husband, People!
It's his 'thing' and he took it out...

What if the woman slept with the male house help because the husband was trying to lead his own life?

Wifely Duties???  What about Husbandly Duties of being monogamous to his wife?

20  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Confession of Nood dancers: How we were arrested and segxwally abused on: 8-12-2009 03:05 AM
I don't get it..the women are arrested for stripping then raped by corrupt police officer???!!!

Same thing over here in America, tho.  No molesting though as our government is more regulated than that...but strippers galore! They are licensed and they pay taxes too..

So  either give the girls another way to make a living or license them and  allow them to pay taxes and be legit.
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