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1  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Why Do Men Batter Their Wives? on: 23-02-2012 02:41 PM

"A man who batter  is wife is no less a criminal than a man who punch a stranger" Says the quote of an emotional researcher.
High perecent of women today has been or are still victims of battery in their own matrimonial homes.

One woman narrates her own story on how her husband often come home after work and on little than no case he throw the woman on the sofa and start beating her on many occassion right infront of ther two little kids. It went so bad that he couldn't even make a proper move to render his due as a man, rather, whenever he feel like making love to his wife he pounce on her like a rapist. Talkless of the countless rotten and hurting words he rain on her. He even have series of heart paining pet names for her.

But why? why would a man who vow to love and cherish a woman suddenly turn a batter? Reseacher has discovered these causes:

* If the man is a product of a domestic violence he will surely produce one
* If he deals with Ilegal drugs.
* Men that cannot control their aggressions easily carry it to their home
* Not having lots of vital things in common such as culture, beliefs and opinions.
* Pressure from friends, books he reads and his kind of movies.
* Unmarried couples living together hardly respect each other.

As much as these factors are concerned they do not justify a batter. And sad to know, many women in the name of keeping their home have been suffering in silence. Though nobody has the right to force a woman to separate or remain in her marriage on such ground, the woman also should have a deep look into the extent of the battery especially when it is doing her physical, spiritual and emotional damage.

Therefore;
Men who have chosen battering as their style of exercising their headship on their wives should  know that doing so will earn them nothing but ETERNAL SUFFERING that is what the inspired word siad @ 1Peter 3:7


Women who have fallen victim can cope by:

* Ensuring to play your role as a wife at home
* Be Prayerful
* Do not hesitate to report to the concerned Authority if its getting out of hand.
2  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Nuptial Bliss Can Last Forever on: 20-02-2012 05:07 PM

Every institution such as Companies or Businesses has the feature on which the establishement must rest to survive. When a company lose its important characteristics, there is no doubt that such company will surely close up.
Marriage is an isntitution, and for the reason mentioned above, many marriages has packed up. Daily research shows that thousands of marriages are crashing. But then there is no doubt that the parties involved did not wish it that way.

The goodnews is that there is lasting solution for those who want to be honest to themselves and those who does not mind listening to the truth even if the truth seem bitter.
The solution lies in the source of marriage itself. Marriage is a gift from God to those who appreciate it and it is practicable.

NOTE: There is no way marriage will not have problems even the scripture confirm it @ 1Corinthians 7:28. But the problems are manageable.
Applying the following principle will be beneficial to all who wish to have a honourable marriage:

1..... Study God's Word together and always pray to God for guidance on probable problems (Pvoverbs 3: 5-6)
2..... Recognise your individual roles in your marriage as man and woman then follow them accordingly. (Colossian 3: 18 - 19)
3.....Respect your sxualities by confining it only to your mate.  (Hebrew 13:4) (Infidelity takes high rate in marital problems today)
4.....Try to control yourselves whenever you have crusial matters to handle, anger, nagging and abusive speech can destroy homes (Ephesians 4: 31-32)
5..... Titus 2:4 says Wives should be industrious in taking care of the house, the husband and the children alike.
6..... Be united in diciplining your children if you have them. Wives should not be supporting when the husaband is opposing and vice-vesa. (Ephesians 6:4)


IF YOU CAN TRY TO APPLY THESE USEFUL TIPS..........NUPTIAL PEACE TO YOU!   

 
3  Forum / Religion / Who to be Social and God-fearing on: 9-02-2012 04:48 PM
@ 2Timothy 3:16-17, the bible says that all scriptures  is inspired of God and beneficial to teach, discipline,  correct, and guide so as to enable God fearing people to live a better life.
If you fear God as your creator who deserve your respect, you will want to please him by trying to do all things for his glory. (1Cor. 10:31)
Those who want to do what is right always consult God's guidance.

There is no doubt that almost all humans are now enjoying online communication. Infact, research has it that the facebook has over 800 millions users! Imagine that. But as much as we know that everything that has advantage will also have its disadvantage, it is then obvious that online communication will also have its disadvantages that if care is not taken can have painful effect on us.
But the goodnews is that the bible contains principles that can protect you from online dangers.  Perhaps you are suprised, check these biblical principles out:

PRIVACY - If you did not put limitation to your level of privacy the bible @ Proverbs 10:19 says it can be disastrous. ( too many words can be dangerous, but keeping your thought under control is wise) So becareful when you post informations, photos and address online.

TIME - Philipians 1:10 has it that Spending too much time chatting online can cost you other important aspect of your life such as family, Job, and even time to pray and move closer to God. So make good use of your time.

REPUTATION - Proverbs 22: says a good reputation is better that silver or gold. The kind of info and photo you post online can give  a wrong impression of you to others, so be selective of words and images you use online.

FRIENDSHIPS - Proverbs 13:20 also says if you make friends with wise persons, you will be seen as such but if you make friend with bad ones it is vice-versa. Imagine a single person having over a thousand of friend online most of whom has never been met with physically. Many people have fallen victims of the so called yahoo-yahoo curtesy of say they dont know whom they are keeping as friends.

ENTERTAINMENT - @ Job 31:1 Job made a covenant with his eyes so as not to see worthless things. The kind of video image and information we see online can have weighty effect on our thought and way of life. So we should select our choice of entertainment wisely.

God's Word is Alive, and like a sharp sword can pierce into our heart IF WE READ, STUDY AND APPLY IT IN EVERY ASPECT OF OUR LIVES. (Hebrew 4:12)
4  Forum / Education / The Most Seductive Part Of Human Body. on: 6-01-2012 12:46 PM

One European marketer said " the most seductive part of human body is the Eyes". This is easy for him to say because as a marketer he knows that flashy adverts attracts the eyes and that will have a flambouyant effect on the marketing moves.

Infact, the holy books of christian did support the fact that the Eyes can be seductive. The accounts at the opening of the scriptures points out that the major source of mankind problems today is via the seductive power of the Eyes! and afterwards, there has been series of palava that result from the influence of the eyes. If you are familiar with bible reading, you perhaps have come across the deadend of men and women of old whose eyes led them astray such as:
Eve....................... the first woman in human history @ Genesis 2:17
Achan................... @Joshua 7:1 and the famous King David of old @2Samuel 11:2-5.

Even Angels from heaven fell for that trap and suffered bitterly as Genesis 2:6 confirms.
Evidently, what we do with our eyes has lots to do with our salvation.  If you want to keep a healthy relationship with your creator, AVOID SEDUCTIVE VIEWS  such as:

1.  PORNOGRAHY.............either in pictures or in videos, internet is making it worse and these has destroyed many homes, relationships and increase in RAPE rate.
2.  OCULT, HORROR AND VIOLENT MOVIES................These has contributed highly to what we see around us such as Bomb Blasts and Gun Shots, because they think that is the solution to end problems as they learn in movies.

Remember, the Eyes feeds the mind, and the Mind feeds the Heart. We always like to practice what we see.
PARENTS BEWARE OF WHAT YOUR CHILDREN DO WITH THEIR EYES.

After the Psalmist had suffered the penalty of his endangered Eyes he prayed to God @ psalms 119:37 " May you keep my eyes from seeing worthless things and preserve me alive in your own way".
Though it will not be easy to do this, but one useful method of avoiding the danger is to CONTROL YOUR EYES. Make selective choice in your choice of movies, magazines and Novels that you read.

MAY OUR EYES NEVER DESTROY US.
5  Forum / Relationships & Romance / What is the Origin Of Sin? on: 26-10-2011 03:42 PM

Is Sex the original sin commited in the garden of Eden?..............Many people are of that impression. Perhaps you have friends who have that believe or you have come across people of that impression. The truth of the matter is worth knowing because it has to do with the source of humanity. To find the precise answer to this question, its better we consult the book of creation......i.e the Bible.

Learn From God's Word.

At the begining of human existence, after God created the first man Adam, before even the existence of his wife, God had commanded Adam not to eat the two specified fruits of knowledge of good and bad (Genesis 2:15-18) surely segxwal relation wouldnt exist without two bodies.
Aslo @ Genesis 1:28, the purposeful use of segxwal relation was revealed where God said " be fruitful and become many and filled the earth" It is thus obvious that if sex had been a sin, it will not be the source of approval to God for procreation.
It is also note worthy that @ Genesis 3:6 which featured Eve eating the fruit, the account said Eve was alone while eating the fruit, and she later gave some when her husband arrived. Such circumstances cannot be linked with segxwal relation.

There is no doubt that those who linked the issue of segxwal relation to the original sin tries to justify their segxwal impulses.
The Bible did not teach that.

Those who actually want to be set free by the truth will make thorough search and study into the bible for Jesus said the word of God is the Truth. (John 17:17)
6  Forum / Religion / Message to Parents on: 15-08-2011 03:06 PM

Dear Parents,
In view of the obvious fufilment of bible prophecy at 2Timothy 3: 1-5, there is an urgent need for parents to be at alert regarding their children and their life style. Train a child in the right path and it will never depart from him.
Many parents have after school teacher for their children with heavy payment, but do you allow a bible teacher even though it is free of charge?  Share this experience;

It was a Sunday Moring, a woman heard a knock on her door and she opened only to meet a 7 year old boy who said " good moring ma, i have a message for you"...then he opened the bible and read Revelation 21:3&4. then he ask the woman "Do you believe this?"
The woman just look at him and said " I wish you are my son"
How would you feel if you are the parent of that boy and you were standing behind him when the woman commends him?

Many people think children are too young to learn and teach about God. So they postpone that knowledge. But are you suprised to see your children stretch an insulting palm to someone and said (your father/your mother). how did they know that?
Parents, compare and contrast:
The number of bible verses your kids can quote  vs Number of  obscene songs your little ones can sing off hand.
The number of bible stories  vs  The number of violence and horror movies they can narrate.
Who are their role models?

God fearing parents should know that there are lots of things children can learn from God, such as these:

1.  Psalm 83:18 (Teach that God has a personal name and he is a real person that can be known)
 2. Colossians 3:20 (Teach children to be obedient to parent and please God)
3. Acts 10 34&35 ( Love and respect all people, no matter their colour or race)
4. Exodus 22:22-24  ( God hear prayer from children, so they should learn a short prayer)
5. Colosians 2: 13 ( Children should forgive others no matter what)

Remember, children's brain are like plain white paper, whatever you store on it is what they accept.
7  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / TRAGEDIES OF OUR TIME on: 12-07-2011 03:21 PM
LAGOS FLOOD DESTROY LIVES AND PROPERTIES
SULEJA BOMB CLAIM LIVES
GIRLS FOUND DEAD IN A RESTAURANT
 BABARBER KILLS APPRENTICE FOR MONEY RITUAL..............

Many of those who have lost their lives and properties into such tragedies are deeply pitied. But those who had scapped through such incidences should not think it is luck that spare them or it is God's special favour on them because God is not partial. Rather these occurence should serve as warning to us all. It should alert us to the fact that no one is immune to the effect of time and unforseen occurence that can befall all human. (Eclesiastes 9:11)
But they can still be prevented, because most of these happenings have our own neglegence in question. We should avoid carefree attitude against how we treat nature so as to avoid nature's fury. Because when it will eventually come we will partake  of it.

As for our governments, their  capacity is very limited ( Jeremiah10: 23) so don't expect overall attention from them.

USEFUL TIPS OF ADVICE:
Wise is the one that has seen the calamity and proceeds to conceal himself, but the inexperienced have passed along and must suffer the penalty.(Proverbs 23:3)

Before you take the next decision on accomodation make good achoice.
When it is raning heavily stay indoors...
Avoid being in the wrong place at the right time or being in the right place at the wrong time.
 Call for any available help as it may demand.

SCRIPTURAL WORDS MAY SEEM ODD TO YOU, BUT NONE OF THOSE WHO READ AND APPLY ITS COUNSELS HAVE  REGRET IT.

SO BE WISE!
8  Forum / Relationships & Romance / TO THE segxwalLY ACTIVES on: 31-05-2011 03:49 PM
HE WAS dark and handsome. She was talented and beautiful. They worked for the same company. She showered him with personal attention. He gave her admiration. They bought gifts for each other. Soon they were lovers. He left his wife for her. She, in the end, decided to stay with her husband and to call the affair off. Halfheartedly he tried to return to his wife. Lacking true remorse, however, he did not succeed. Everyone involved continued on with life, though not unscathed.

segxwal morality is no longer thought of as a virtue in this world. The pursuit of pleasure and satisfaction without restraint appears to be the order of the day. The New Encyclopædia Britannica states: "Adultery seems to be as universal and, in some instances, as common as marriage.

How can we protect ourselves from the corrupting influences that surround us?

Thinking Ability to Protect You- the bility to think before you take the next step can alert you to danger of immorality.

Wisdom—the ability to differentiate from bad or wrong.

Beware of a Smooth Palate-  A well known acient poet wrote  "As a honeycomb the lips of a strange woman keep dripping, and her palate is smoother than oil. But the aftereffect from her is as bitter as wormwood; it is as sharp as a two-edged sword."—Proverbs 5:3, 4.

In this proverb, the wayward person is portrayed as "a strange woman"—a prostitute. The words with which she seduces her victim are as sweet as comb honey and smoother than olive oil. Do not most immoral segxwal advances begin this way? For example, consider the experience of an attractive 27-year-old secretary named Amy. She relates: "This man at work gives me a lot of attention and praises me at every opportunity. It feels nice to be noticed. But I can clearly see that his interest in me is strictly segxwal. Are you experiencing same?

The aftereffects of immorality are as bitter as wormwood and as sharp as a two-edged sword—painful and death dealing. A troubled conscience, an unwanted pregnancy, or a segxwally transmitted disease are often the bitter consequences of such conduct. And think of the enormous emotional pain experienced by the marriage partner of an unfaithful individual. One act of infidelity can inflict wounds deep enough to last a lifetime. Yes, immorality  hurts.

We need to stay as far away as possible from the influence of immoral people. Why should we open ourselves to their ways by listening to debasing music, watching corrupting entertainment, or exposing ourselves to pornographic material? 1 Corinthians 15:33
says bad association spoils good habits.
 
Too High a Price to pay
such as loss of self respect, and feeling of shame thereafter.

"Drink Water out of Your Own Cistern" - that was the scriptural statement of a man who believes that marriage should be respected he is simply saying let all romatic affair take place  between you and your marriage partner only.

Need for Self-Control- segxwal desires can be controlled
Young people, then, should not rush into marriage when they first experience an awakening of segxwal impulses. Marriage requires a commitment, and living up to such a responsibility calls for maturity

The fundamental reason why segxwal immorality is wrong is that Jehovah—the Giver of life and Bestower of segxwal capacity in humans—disapproves of it.
So what will you do?
   
 
9  Forum / Religion / Sermon: The fear of God is the begining of wisdom on: 20-04-2011 10:31 PM

The book of psalms 111:10 says " The fear of God is the begining of wisdom and all those doing them have good insight."
The word of Gos is always right but how wil someone show that he or she fear God? ....................share your knowledge with me.
10  Forum / Relationships & Romance / WHAT IS WRONG WITH PREMARITAL SEX? on: 17-03-2011 01:07 PM

"I sometimes wonder if premarital sex is really that bad, especially when I feel strange for still being a virgin."

“I feel pressure to experiment with sex. I think we all have the natural inclination to, Everywhere you turn, it’s all about sex!”

Those are the statements of two teenagers who felt strong urge for sex.

Do you have same feelings?

There is no doubt that sex related matters has been as generally acceptable as money! Everywhere on the radio, Tv, Cinema, etc.

Even here on naijapals forum, it is observed that people respond to sex and romance related jists than any other jist. And that could

be evidence that large number of people are sex addict. People hardly talk about chastity or morality in the society.

 A survey in one Asian country revealed that the majority of 15- to 24-year-old males felt that premarital intercourse was not only

accepted but expected of them. Little wonder that throughout the world most young people have had sex before they reach 19 years of age.

What is the truth of premarital sex? And what about so-called alternatives to intercourse? Are they safe?

An authoritative answer to these questions can come only from our Creator and the creator of sex organs. In his Word he tells us
to “flee from fornication.” (1 Corinthians 6:18) Even the dictionary will define fornication for you. But if you try to live by that

scriptural principle, Others may ridicule you for taking such a stand, they may even say “‘You don’t know what you’re missing!" If

you fall into that trap It can cause lasting physical, emotional, and spiritual harm.

For example, each year millions of youths contact a segxwally transmitted disease (STD)

In fact, the threat of STDs (as well as HIV) is higher for females than for males. If a young girl becomes pregnant, she places

herself and her unborn child at further risk. Why? Because a young girl’s body may not have developed to the point of being able to handle childbirth safely.

Even if a teen mother escapes severe health consequences, she must still face the serious responsibilities that parenthood brings. such as fending for herself and for a newborn infant.

Then there are the spiritual and emotional aftereffects. King David’s segxwal sin endangered his friendship with God and nearly led to his spiritual ruin. (Psalm 51) And while David recovered spiritually, he suffered the consequences of his sin for the rest of his life.

Young ones today can suffer similarly. Such as being used and dumped, such emotional wounds can linger for years, causing stress

and heartache. Premarital sex can wound the conscience of a God-fearing youth, therefore, learn Self-Control
 
It is true that segxwal desires can be particularly strong during “the bloom of youth.” (1 Corinthians 7:36) In fact, teenagers may

experience sudden segxwal arousal for no seeming reason. But this is not something wicked. It is a normal part of the development of

the reproductive system.

It is also true that segxwal relations is designed to be pleasurable. But it was made for a purpose and it took effect after the first

human couple has been joined as one. (Genesis 1:28) It was never intended for us to misuse our procreative powers.

segxwal relations are a gift from God, and we will not show appreciation for that gift if we mis use it.

What should you do about your segxwal feelings? Put simply, learn to control them.
11  Forum / Relationships & Romance / COPING WITH SPOUSE BETRAYAL on: 12-03-2011 02:30 PM

ONE INSPIRED WRITER WROTE THAT" DURING THE END TIME, DIFFICULT TIME WILL BE HERE FOR PEOPLE WILL BE SELFISH, UNKIND, NOT APPRECIATING, DISLOYAL, BETRAYAL ETC" (2 TIMOTHY 3:1-5)

SPOUSE BETRAYAL HAS UNDOUBTEDLY BECOME RAMPANT WORLDWIDE, INFACT IT IS NOT DIFFICULT TO NOTE THAT OVER 60% OF RELATIONSHIP HAS SUFFERED BETRAYAL.

IF YOU ARE AWARE OF THE WORDS OF THAT INSPIRED WRITER YOU WILL NOT BE SHOCKED OVER BETRAYAL. TRUE MANY MARRIAGES AND RELATIONSHIPS HAVE SUFFERED REJECTION, ABANDONMENT, AND VARIOUS FORM OF ABUSE SO MUCH THAT SOME HAVE ZERO THEIR MIND OVER THOSE HURTFUL FEELING, THEREBY REJECTING MARRIAGE THINKING THAT THEY CANNOT COPE.

BUT THE TRUTH IS YOU CAN COPE!
MARRIAGE IS A GIFT FROM GOD TO MANKIND
REMEMBER THAT MARRIAGE HAVE A PRODUCER, PROVIDED YOU ARE READY TO HEED THE MANUAL INSTRUCTION OF THAT PRODUCER THAT IS THE ALMIGHTY GOD HIMSELF. YOU WILL COPE.

HEEDING THESE USEFUL TIPS WILL HELP YOU.

1.  RESPECT YOUR RELATIONSHIP EVEN IF YOUR SPOUSE DID NOT. (EPHESIANS 5: 21-29)
2.  NEVER LOOK DOWN ON YOURSELF BY BLAMING FOR NO ONE IS PERFECT
3. KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO IS SUFFERING IT, EVEN JESUS WAS BETRAYED!
4. TAKE COMFORT FROM THOSE  WHO HAVE SUCESSFULLY OVERCOME THAT PROBLEM BY READING ABOUT THEM FOR EXAMPLE  IN THE BIBLE SAMSON WAS BETRAYED BY DELILAH HIS TRUSTED WIFE.
5. NEVER TRY TO PAY BACK AS YOU WILL HURT YOURSELF ON THE PROCESS! AND BY SO DOING YOU WILL NOT GIVE GOD A CHANCE TO ACT ON YOUR BEHALF.

IF YOU ARE SINGLE BUT CONTEMPLATING MARRIAGE, ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION:

* WHAT WILL I DO IF MY SPOUSE BETRAY ME IN ANYWAY?
(BECAUSE THE LOVABLE SPOUSE YOU KNOW TODAY MIGHT TURN OTHERWISE SOMEDAY)
FINDING ANSWER TO THIS QUESTION WILL PREPARE YOU FOR WHATEVER DISPOSITION YOUR RELATIONSHIP MIGHT CAUSE YOU.
12  Forum / Relationships & Romance / BE HER HERO! on: 20-01-2011 04:17 PM

" THERE IS NO MAN OUT THERE ANYMORE, WHAT WE HAVE IS  JUST MALE, ALL OF THEM ARE SAME UNRELIABLE BEING"

" AS FOR ME I HAVE HEARD ENOUGH OF HEART BREAKS FROM MEN, I CAN NEVER TRUST THEM AGAIN"

" MEN! YOU CAN NEVER PREDICT THEM!"

These are the kind of expressin you hear from most women today who have experienced one heart break or another in their relationships. Infact, some who have never had any heart break experience but who have heard from friends or family have made that resolution due to unfriendly experiences they have had with men.
Thus they see men as evil.

Little did we know that most of the problems we encounter are caused by our own ignorance or legligence of facts.
( song of solomon 2:16)
one young pretty girl said about her man " My dear one is mine and iam his he has gone sheparding in the lillies. He was a shepard"

Can your woman say this in your absence? or would she say (who know what he is doing in the field now? may be he is with another woman)

The reason why your spouse will say this is simply because you dont have what it takes to be her hero!

A hero is a man who is known and admire for his brave and right deeds.
the following qualities are found in heroic men:

1.   Prove to her that you can avoid temptation - Many Men think being around their woman every time, curdling and petting will prove their love for her, if you are that type, whenever she see you with another woman alone she will start insinuating suspicious thoughts about you and that is why a chaste relationship is better.

2.  Prove to her that you can protect her interest - Sending love messages and calls is not the only way to prove your interest, take time to know more than the romantic aspect of your lady such as her family, job of interest, how  she spend her leisure time, her view of life e.t.c.

3.  Dissuss spiritual interest - You can create more self respect for your self when you discuss things that are of Godly devotion,with women by this your spouse will develop confidence in the kind of husband and father  you will at make because every woman desire a self respected man. Not a man of all women.

 An inspired expression say "A wise person avoid danger before it arrives but a foolish person stupidly fall into trouble."

DO NOT CONSIDER THIS MESSAGE OTHER WISE, IT IS PRACTICALLY BENEFICIAL FOR THOSE WHO LOVE PEACE.

13  Forum / Relationships & Romance / TALK ABOUT SEX on: 4-01-2011 04:41 PM
HOW DO YOU FEEL IF YOU GIVE AN EXPENSIVE GOLD RING TO A FRIEND AND ON VISITING THAT FRIEND YOU DISCOVER THAT THE GOLD RING IS HANGED ON THE EAR OF A PIG SHE REAR.
EVIDENTLY, YOU WONT FEEL HAPPY.
THAT IS THE WAY IT GOES WITH ANYONE WHO USES THE GIFT OF SEX IMPROPERLY.
WHAT DO I MEAN BY IMPROPERLY?

WHILE SEX IS NOT BAD IN ITSELF, EVERY MATURE BEING WOULD HAVE UNDERSTAND THAT SEX IS A PRODUCT MADE FOR CERTAIN DIGNIFIED PURPOSE AND JUST LIKE ANY OTHER PRODUCT, IF USED IN A WRONG WAY FOR WRONG PURPOSE IT CAN TURN INTO A POISON IN OUR SYSTEM
THE PRODUCER OF SEX IS THE MAKER OF THE UNIVERSE, AND AT THE MANUAL OF CREATION HE STATED ITS USE AS:

1.     FOR PROCREATION
2.     FOR STRENGTHNING THE BOND OF UNION BETWEEN TWO LEGITIMATE PATNERS
3.     FOR PROTECTION AGAINST TEMPTATION AMONG COUPLES
        E.T.C.  (REF: GENESIS 1:28,  1CORINTHINANS 7:5)

THESE THREE REASONS ARE WIDE IN EXPLATION, BUT NOTE THAT THE segxwal TOOL WERE NOT DECLARED READY FOR USE UNTILL AFTER THE COUPLE WERE LEGALLY PERMITED TO USE IT. (REF:  GENESIS 1:28)
WHICH MEAN THAT SEX IS ONLY EXPECTED TO TAKE PLACE BETWEEN MARRIED PEOPLE.

WHEN IT IS OUTSIDE MARRIAGE, IT BECOMES A POISON TO THE SYSTEM AND THAT IS THE REASON WHY MANY HAS SUFFERED FROM:
1.     GUILTY CONSCIENCE
2.     segxwalLY TRANSMITTED DISSEASES
3.     LOSS OF SELF RESPECT
4.     LOSS OF LOVED PARTNERS
5.     LOSS OF TRUST
        E.T.C.

ONE WOMAN WHO SUFFERED FROM CHILDLESSNESS IN HER MARRIAGE OF MANY YEARS COULD NOT CONTROLL HER TEARS WHEN HER HUSBAND SAID " FOR YOUR INFORMATION WOMAN, I  IMPREGNATE OUR HOUSE HELP! AFTERALL IAM A MAN, ONLY YOU KNOW HOW YOU USE YOU REPRODUCTIVE SYSTEM BEFORE I MET YOU. NOW YU ARE BARREN."

PERHAPS SUCH WORDS WOULDN'T HAVE COME IF THE WOMAN HAS NOT GIVEN INTO PRE-MARITAL CHANCES.

THE GIVER OF THAT GIFT "SEX" WILL FEEL LIKE THAT KIND GIVER OF THE ABOVE ILLUSTRATION AND MAY NEVER FAVOUR US.
 



14  Forum / Religion / Stephen Hawking on: 28-09-2010 04:20 PM
BRILLIANT, INTELIGENT AND RICH WITH MOTIVATING HUMAN FEATURES. A MARRIED MAN WITH 3 CHILDREN DISTINTIVELY.
THIS 68 YEAR OLD PHYSICIST HAS WRITTEN MANY SCIENTIFIC BOOK WHICH HAS EARNED HIM ABOUT 30 HONOURARY AWARDS TO HIS CREDIT. FOR OVER 20 YEARS HE HAS BEEN SUFFERING FROM MUSCULAR DYSTROPHY WHICH HAS LEFT HIM ALMOST PARALYSED TO THE EXTENT THAT HE CANNOT FEED, MOVE AND DO MOST THINGS BY HIMSELF WITHOUT THE AID OF A MACHINE.
HE COULDNT EVEN SPEAK FOR ANYONE TO UNDERSTAND EXCEPT THOSE THAT ARE CLOSE TO HIM. THUS HE HAS BEEN PLACED ON A VOICE SYNTHESIZER THAT SPEAK FOR HIM VIA A COMPUTER.
PERHAPS IT IS BASED ON THE FACT THAT STEPHEN'S COMPLETE LIVING WERE BASED ON SCIENTIFIC OPERATION THAT HE HAS CONCLUDED THAT EVERYTHING EXISTING TODAY ARE THROUGH SCIENCE AND NOT GOD. IN ONE OF HIS BOOKS TITLED " A BRIEF HISTORY OF LIFE" HE SAID THINGS EXISTED THROUGH THE FORCE OF GRAVITY. MEANWHILE HE HAD EARLIER MENTIONED THAT GOD CREATED THE INTEGERS BUT OTHER THINGS EXISTED BY MAN, THEREBY PARTIALLY AGREED THAT THERE IS GOD. BUT LATELY HE IS NOT BELEIVING THAT GOD IS RESPONSIBLE FOR CREATION.

MANY SCIENCE STUDENTS TODAY ARE LIKE STEPHEN HAWKING.  THEY HAVE INVESTED SO MUCH IN THEIR BELEIF THAT THEY DID NOT BELEIVE IN A CREATOR OR GOD . SCIENTIST MAY BE MIGHTY BUT THERE IS ALWAYS AN ALMIGHTY!
IF  HUMAN  SCIENTIST HAS MADE LARGE RANGES OF THINGS.....IS IT NOT SOMEONE WHO MADE THE SCIENTIST AND THE BRAIN HE USE IN HIS OWN CREATION. GRAVITY HAS NEVER MAKE PROCERATION POSSIBLE WITHOUT CONSULTING HUMAN WHICH ARE MADE BY GOD.

THE BIBLE TALK ABOUT NUMBERS OF SCIENTIST THAT HAS EXISTED OVER CENTURIES...AND THEY  DIRECT ALL SCIENTIFIC POWER TO THE ALMIGHTY GOD THE INVISIBLE SCIENTIST.
DAVID WAS ONE OF THEM, HE WAS SHEPERD, MUSICIAN, SOLDIER, PHROPHET AND KING. AS A POET HIS POETRY REFLECTED THE FACT HAT HE WAS SCIENTIFICALLY COMPLIANCE . AFTER HIS OVERALL RESEACH ON CREATION  HE SAID "IT IS ONLY A FOOLISH PERSON THAT WILL SAY THERE IS NO GOD (A CREATOR) PSALM 14:1
LUKE WAS A PHYSICIAN DURING HIS LIFE TIME HE PRACTICED MEDICALS BUT EVEN THOUGH HE WAS HIGHLY EDUCATED HE NEVER DOUBT THE EXISTENCE OF THE ALMIGHTY GOD (JEHOVAH) FOR HE LATER BECAME A CHRISTIAN.

SCIENTIST WILL NEVER BE UNDERESTIMATE BECAUSE THEIR ACTIVITIES REVEALS THE INTELECTS OF THE ONE WHO MADE THEM NEITHER WILL THEY BE OVER ESTIMATE JUST BECAUSE THEY THINK THEY ARE BRILLIANT.
THEY CAN NEVER BE BRILLIANT THAN THEIR CREATOR JUST AS A CHILD'S EXPERIENCE WILL NEVER SURPASS THAT  OF ITS PARENT.
THE ALMIGHTY GOD JEHOVAH TRULY AND REALLY EXIST.
15  Forum / Relationships & Romance / What has happened to Love? on: 20-09-2010 04:23 PM
LOVE IS THE ONLY UNIVERSAL LANGUAGE SO FAR IN THE HISTORY OF CREATION. IT IS UNDERSTOOD BY ALL. THOSE WHO CANNOT SEE IT CAN FEEL IT, THOSE WHO CANNOT FEEL IT CAN SEE IT, THOSE WHO CANNOT TOUCH IT CAN HEAR IT, EVEN NAIVE INFANTS CAN UNDERSTAND IT. IT EXIST IN EVERY ASPECT OF LIFE EVEN IN ANIMALS KINGDOM.

THE BOOK OF CREATION, THE MANUAL OF LIFE CONFIRMED IT THAT EVERYTHING EXIST OUT OF LOVE, BECAUSE THE CREATOR... GOD IS LOVE. (1JOHN 4:Cool
AND EVER SINCE THEN LOVE HAS BEEN IN ACTION. LOVE IS KNOWN TO BE OF TWO FACES NAMELY: PLATONIC LOVE SUCH THAT EXIST BETWEEN FRIENDS AND FAMILY (2Sam 1:26) AND ITS ON THIS KIND OF LOVE THAT THE UNIVERSE WAS MADE.
THE OTHER FACE IS THE ROMANTIC SUCH THAT EXIST BETWEEN A MAN AND WOMAN WO ARE WILLING TO BE TOGETHER IN MARRIAGE. (Gen 24:67).   
BUT EVEN AT THAT SOME PEOPLE WILL SAY THERE IS NOTHING LIKE LOVE. THIS HAPPEN ESPECIALLY WITH THOSE WHO HAVE SUFFERED ONE KIND OF LOVE RELATED BETRAYAL OR ANOTHER. 
PEOPLE ASK THEMSELVES:

WHY IS THE HAND THAT USED TO HUG ME NOW BEAT ME?
WHY HAS MY KISSABLE CHEEK TURN TO A SLAPPING BAG?
WHY IS THE MOUTH THAT PROFESS LOVE FOR ME NOW RAIN LASHES ON ME
WHY IS MY KINDNESS AND LOYALTY NOT APPRECIATED?.......E.T.C


THE TRUTH IS THAT LOVE IS STILL VERY MUCH EXISTING!

SO IF YOU ARE SUFFERING BECAUSE OF LOVE DO NOT CONCLUDE ITS NO MORE, THE QUESTION YOU SHOULD FIND ANSWER TO IS "WHAT IS HAPPNING TO LOVE?" AND HERE IS THE ANSWER:

LOVE IS NOT DEAD BUT IS BEING MISUSED AND THUS APPEARED TO BE CONTERMINATED.

WHEN JESUS SAW HOW LOVE WAS BEING TREATED IT WAS EASY FOR HIM TO KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO LOVE IF CARE IS NOT TAKEN.  HE SAID AS THE END GRADUALLY ARRRIVES, THE LOVE OF PEOPLE WILL BE COOLING OFF. (Matt 24:12)
EVEN THE LOVE FOR GOD! (1John 5:3)  (2Tim 3:1-5)

BUT THEN WITHOUT LOVE, HUMAN WILL NEVER ESCAPE SUFFERING. (Matt 22 : 27)
IF YOUR SPOUSE IS FADING OUT OF LOVE FOR YOU....THE END TIME PROPHECY IS JUST TELLING ON HIM /HER.
PERHAPS YOU WILL BE THE ONE SO SAVE THE SITUATION BY REPAIRING YOUR OWN LOVE SO AS TO RENEW YOU SPOUSE'S.
TO REPAIR YOUR OWN LOVE FIND THE REMEDY AT 1Corinthians 13:4-8 IF YOU CAN APPLY THAT YOU WILL TESTIFY.


THE END JUSTIFY THE MEANS THEY SAY........SO TIME OF THE END JUSTIFY THE REASON WHY MANY ARE SURFFERING FOR LOVE.
SOON LOVE WILL BE REAPAIRED TO ITS ORIGINAL FORM. (Rev 21: 3&4)

16  Forum / Religion / Are we in the Last days? on: 13-09-2010 01:30 PM
When you are about to go out of your house in day time, and you notice there is a dark cloud and cold weather, you immediately understand that rain might probably fall and you pepare yourself either with umbrella, rain coat, rain booth e.t.c.
That means you are concious of your life getting endangered.

All true christian hope that one day there will be end to all evils attached to this world, but the question most people keep asking is when and how?

Some extract from the best selling book (the bible ) quote the answers of the greatest man in human history (Jesus Christ) when he was asked  the same questions he said " when you see and hear reports of war, nations and kingdom rise against each other, tribulations, earthquake,rising of false phrophets,lack of love for God, persecution of christians" e.t.c
Another writer of Hebrew scripture mention that there will be hard times to deal with as pople will be selfish, un imaginable, pride, children will be disobedient to parent, no true love even in marriages, disloyal, no fear of God, e.t.c  then be watchful of the end time.

Since all these things listed above are happening in our surroundings today as we see in our country and others pehaps on TV News.
Are We Living In the Last days?

Reference : Matthew 24: 3-14 and & Timothy 3: 1-5.
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