I have a new girlfriend, I've never used a condom with her, and she was cool with that. But to my surprise, suddenly she wants me to wear a rubber. I feel like she no-longer trusts me. When I ask her why, she says she's changed her mind. What do I do?

Generally, from my experience, Nigerian women don't like the male condom, and so it doesn't surprise me that they would object to the female condom. A condom is what it is. It takes away the pleasure. And that's why women who dislike condoms tend to date men who don't use them. My current girlfriend broke up with her ex because he wanted to use condoms... which obviously she hates. 

LOL, it's like you're putting a DON'T DISTURB sign on the door. I'm among the 80% so I do understand where your'e coming from.

Virgin? Hmmm.

Hahaha, very funny. I like dat. You have a way with words. Well, the reason I broke up with her is because I got her pregnant and she aborted. I wasn't pleased with that at all. We argued a lot and eventually went our separate ways. I dated many girls after her, and now I have a new woman. And she's caught up in the middle of my relationship. What if she gets pregnant again...then what?

My ex girlfriend has come back into my life and I'm sleeping with her while I already have a new girlfriend. She knows I have a new woman but she don't care. We had a relationship two years ago, and now she wants me back. I really don't know what to do. I don't want my new girl to find out about her.

Thanks for your pointers naijapals.

I had casual sex with a girl this month and now she's pregnant. I only slept with her once. One night.
I'm not too sure whether I should believe her... a) that she really is pregnant b) and if it's true, is the
baby really mine? Dudes, if this has happened to you, what can you advise me?

Yes, for real bro.

I only found out today. So I guess I need to be on red alert now.
She is a lovely girl and for 2 weeks now we've had a good thing
going. This news is devastating. She never hinted anything of the
sort and I never suspected anything at all.

jossy4reall, I hear you buddy. It's my fault man, I know. Everything you said is true. I seriously want to drop her man.

Are you for real? You think she could be lying?

Her friend is a woman.

Jasonbod not bond lol. She is not pregnant yet, as far as I know, but her friend tells me she is trying to get
pregnant. And yes, I've slept with her many times but I was sure she was taking precautions. But now I find out
differently from her friend. It's a delicate issue cos if I confront her she will know her friend revealed the truth about her
intentions. What do I do? Dump her?

I found out from her friend that my current girl wants to get pregnant. We've
only been going a couple of weeks after I broke off with me previous girl. But
to my surprise, this news is very disturbing. Why would she want to get herself
pregnant without my consent, deliberately? I haven't confronted her with this.
What would you naijapals advise me about this disturbing matter?

Don't worry about it. It's quite normal. But using a condom when she's on the pill?
That I don't understand. Why go on the pill if she's going to insist on condoms?

Women are like us, they sleep around too. Best we learn to live with it.

Normal mate. No biggie.

Touche! But that's unavoidable nonetheless. Passion makes you do anything stupid.

I've knocked up a few girls myself, so I know what you guys are going through. As he's only 18,
I think it would be best the woman aborts. Why the responsibility? She should've known better. I
would have said, your brother should've used a condom, but because I didn't use condoms myself,
it would be hypocritical, right?