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Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Single Mother, Genevieve Nnaji Advises Women In USA On Marriage And Family |
on: 15-03-2012 12:54 AM
| My dear, you have to be in that institution of marriage before you can advice a married woman on what to do.
Well u don't have to be married to advised married people. U can learn from other peoples experience and from studying. priest are not married but yet the bless marriages and advise couples holistically. Genevieve is a single mother from an adolescense relationship and not from a broken marriage. Thats the difference. | | | | |
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Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Single Mother, Genevieve Nnaji Advises Women In USA On Marriage And Family |
on: 15-03-2012 12:54 AM
| You cannot give what you don't have. Genevieve should have a taste of marriage before giving lectures. marriage is a very big institution where you can obtain much experience. tell Gen. to get married and get experience b4 lecturing others.
Well u don't have to be married to advised married people. U can learn from other peoples experience and from studying. priest are not married but yet the bless marriages and advise couples holistically. Genevieve is a single mother from an adolescense relationship and not from a broken marriage. Thats the difference. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: PASTOR CHRIS OYAKHILOME REPLIES NAIJAPALS ON M*STUR*BAT*ION ACCUSATION!!! |
on: 14-03-2012 10:45 PM
| It's so sad most of the people here are so ignorant and can't follow simple instructions. The Pastor is trying to let you know that, it is your thought process behind the act that makes it a sin. If it is possible that you don't have any dirty thoughts while doing it, then it's not a sin. It's not the act itself that defiles you,but the nasty thoughts you had or have while doing it.
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If a man think of robbing his fellow man tonight and he eventually proceed with his thought, two things are involved. The thought which is a sin and the action which is the stealing. The thought to m*st*u*r*b*a*te and the m*st*u*r*b*a*tion itself is a sin.
Pastor chris was wrong to say m*st*u*r*b*a*tion is not a sin.
Please o! lets not deviate from the main topic. I hate when fellow Christians use irrelevant and indirect quotations and half baked biblical references to confuse people and answer questions. Question is "IS MASTURBATION A SIN". I am totalling dissapointed with the pastors opinion. Infact he didn't even answer that, but was going around in circles. He compared this with stealing bread and eating it, that it's the thought of stealing that is wrong and not the eating of the bread. Well i say it aloud now for all to hear. Eating or consuming "STOLEN GOODS" is wrong. Please pastors quoting the bible literally. How can one possibly masturbate without having impure thoughts? without first having lustful desires of the flesh and then satisfying the flesh by masturbating? are we not suppose to dwell in the spirit? Did Jesus masturbate? Any one who starts this acts, starts getting addicted to it and it could then grows to various acts of rape, paedophilia, incest etc etc. this is the same way he encourages young youths to dress half naked saying dressing doesn't matter it's the heart that matters. Then the question is how can someone who is so pure in heart dress half naked? and then lead others to sin??? How can a pure spirit entertain and get so excited at strangers admiring their body parts and clothings, when this so called body according to the bible is suppose to be the temple of the lord! At this rate there will be no virgins in "BELIEVERS THAT LOVE THE WORLD CHURCH" honestly. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: PASTOR CHRIS OYAKHILOME REPLIES NAIJAPALS ON M*STUR*BAT*ION ACCUSATION!!! |
on: 14-03-2012 10:43 PM
| Guy you can not m*st*u*r*b*a*te without having segxwal thought in mind, and as far as you have the thought you have sinned sayz the word of God.
Please o! lets not deviate from the main topic. I hate when fellow Christians use irrelevant and indirect quotations and half baked biblical references to confuse people and answer questions. Question is "IS MASTURBATION A SIN". I am totalling dissapointed with the pastors opinion. Infact he didn't even answer that, but was going around in circles. He compared this with stealing bread and eating it, that it's the thought of stealing that is wrong and not the eating of the bread. Well i say it aloud now for all to hear. Eating or consuming "STOLEN GOODS" is wrong. Please pastors quoting the bible literally. How can one possibly masturbate without having impure thoughts? without first having lustful desires of the flesh and then satisfying the flesh by masturbating? are we not suppose to dwell in the spirit? Did Jesus masturbate? Any one who starts this acts, starts getting addicted to it and it could then grows to various acts of rape, paedophilia, incest etc etc. this is the same way he encourages young youths to dress half naked saying dressing doesn't matter it's the heart that matters. Then the question is how can someone who is so pure in heart dress half naked? and then lead others to sin??? How can a pure spirit entertain and get so excited at strangers admiring their body parts and clothings, when this so called body according to the bible is suppose to be the temple of the lord! At this rate there will be no virgins in "BELIEVERS THAT LOVE THE WORLD CHURCH" honestly. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: PASTOR CHRIS OYAKHILOME REPLIES NAIJAPALS ON M*STUR*BAT*ION ACCUSATION!!! |
on: 14-03-2012 10:40 PM
| Nice writing. I think if we dwells in God's love and filled our life with the love of God, obedience, commandments and God's law will be made perfect unto us. Sin shall not have dominion over us. The peace of God surpasses all understanding.
Please o! lets not deviate from the main topic. I hate when fellow Christians use irrelevant and indirect quotations and half baked biblical references to confuse people and answer questions. Question is "IS MASTURBATION A SIN". I am totalling dissapointed with the pastors opinion. Infact he didn't even answer that, but was going around in circles. He compared this with stealing bread and eating it, that it's the thought of stealing that is wrong and not the eating of the bread. Well i say it aloud now for all to hear. Eating or consuming "STOLEN GOODS" is wrong. Please pastors quoting the bible literally. How can one possibly masturbate without having impure thoughts? without first having lustful desires of the flesh and then satisfying the flesh by masturbating? are we not suppose to dwell in the spirit? Did Jesus masturbate? Any one who starts this acts, starts getting addicted to it and it could then grows to various acts of rape, paedophilia, incest etc etc. this is the same way he encourages young youths to dress half naked saying dressing doesn't matter it's the heart that matters. Then the question is how can someone who is so pure in heart dress half naked? and then lead others to sin??? How can a pure spirit entertain and get so excited at strangers admiring their body parts and clothings, when this so called body according to the bible is suppose to be the temple of the lord! At this rate there will be no virgins in "BELIEVERS THAT LOVE THE WORLD CHURCH" honestly. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: PASTOR CHRIS OYAKHILOME REPLIES NAIJAPALS ON M*STUR*BAT*ION ACCUSATION!!! |
on: 14-03-2012 10:39 PM
| He has touch on a very important FACT that a lot of CHRISTIANS doesn't know. They called everything SIN but Jesus Christ the Son of God let us to know that SIN is not BELIEVING ON HIM. John 16 The Lord thy God let us to know in Gen 4 when we do WELL then we will be accepted if not then SIN lay at the door it becomes the person desire and that person will RULE over it. SIN is something that YOU RULE OVER. Christians doesn't understand that it is only BELIEVING you will be able to avoid SINNING. There are ABOMINATIONS, DEFILED BODY, TRANSGRESSIONS, TRESPASSES and SIN. BELIEVING start with hearing the Word of God which is the LAW OF MOSES and continue with His Son Jesus Christ. You live outside the COMMANDMENTS OF GOD and you reject the Son of God and follow POWER OF CHRIST teaching you are living in SIN. Power of Christ is what use to the DISOBEDIENT ONES. Learn what is SIN and then you will live in RIGHTEOUSNESS. That is why there is BLESSINGS and CURSE for the PEOPLE OF GOD. You BELIEVE you receive BLESSINGS you don't believe you receive CURSE. Hugs and Blessings
Please o! lets not deviate from the main topic. I hate when fellow Christians use irrelevant and indirect quotations and half baked biblical references to confuse people and answer questions. Question is "IS MASTURBATION A SIN". I am totalling disappointed with the pastors opinion. Infact he didn't even answer that, but was going around in circles. He compared this with stealing bread and eating it, that it's the thought of stealing that is wrong and not the eating of the bread. Well i say it aloud now for all to hear. Eating or consuming "STOLEN GOODS" is wrong. Please pastors quoting the bible literally. How can one possibly masturbate without having impure thoughts? without first having lustful desires of the flesh and then satisfying the flesh by masturbating? are we not suppose to dwell in the spirit? Did Jesus masturbate? Any one who starts this acts, starts getting addicted to it and it could then grows to various acts of rape, paedophilia, incest etc etc. this is the same way he encourages young youths to dress half naked saying dressing doesn't matter it's the heart that matters. Then the question is how can someone who is so pure in heart dress half naked? and then lead others to sin??? How can a pure spirit entertain and get so excited at strangers admiring their body parts and clothings, when this so called body according to the bible is suppose to be the temple of the lord! At this rate there will be no virgins in "BELIEVERS THAT LOVE THE WORLD CHURCH" honestly. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: I LOVE HER BUT I CAN'T MARRY HER |
on: 3-07-2011 10:59 AM
| @poster....I think you LIKE her not LOVE; if its true love
you will stand up to her and put those qualities which she lacks in her.
I guess she is not a WIFE material or rather you can't marry her for personal resons
get real young man! stop bloody theorecizing! ur comment is all child's play!! | | | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Church bans chieftaincy titles, wedding for pregnant women, others |
on: 24-06-2011 09:07 PM
| BISHOP IKEAKOR WHERE HAVE U BEEN ALL THIS WHILE ?
ITS CLERGY MEN LIKE U THAT WE 'VE BEEN LOOKING OUT
FOR. I SUPPORT U WITH THE LAST DROP OF MY BLOOD,BECOS
ALL UR INSTANCES MAKE SO MUCH SENSE.
GOT TO GO SEE MY BOSS.
What point??? Apart from Chieftaincy Title every other thing is rubbish!! Why should the church be the last point of call before any other place??? in the right sense the church should be the firts... God should come first!! I don't understand, I must confess the Bishop is being myopic and an authoritarian and fails to be rationale. It is only right for a couple to got to the registry to register their marriage in the eys of the Law and then come to Chuch for a weeding afterwards or on a later date. Their is no underlying principle that traditional marriage must come first. In addition, does it mean an unmarried pregnant woman is condemned to hell and shouldn't seek right in the eyes of God?? What happened to forgiveness. What the Church should do is to conscientize it's congregationon the need of not engaging in pre-marital sex and also to counsel defaulters and not come out with this kind of In-human laws!! he next thing that will happen is that Abortion etc will become rampant becos of such rigidity. it's better to treat a dying plant from the roots by moulding a faithful congregation rather than solving problems from the branches/leaves... doesnt make sense... He should go and say all these to the Anglican communion in the west where they encourage homosegxwals and have gay bishops abeg!! | | | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Church bans chieftaincy titles, wedding for pregnant women, others |
on: 24-06-2011 09:05 PM
| He's got a point, Christianity is fast becoming something else. I agree with u Bishop
What point??? Apart from Chieftaincy Title every other thing is rubbish!! Why should the church be the last point of call before any other place??? in the right sense the church should be the firts... God should come first!! I don't understand, I must confess the Bishop is being myopic and an authoritarian and fails to be rationale. It is only right for a couple to got to the registry to register their marriage in the eys of the Law and then come to Chuch for a weeding afterwards or on a later date. Their is no underlying principle that traditional marriage must come first. In addition, does it mean an unmarried pregnant woman is condemned to hell and shouldn't seek right in the eyes of God?? What happened to forgiveness. What the Church should do is to conscientize it's congregationon the need of not engaging in pre-marital sex and also to counsel defaulters and not come out with this kind of In-human laws!! he next thing that will happen is that Abortion etc will become rampant becos of such rigidity. it's better to treat a dying plant from the roots by moulding a faithful congregation rather than solving problems from the branches/leaves... doesnt make sense... He should go and say all these to the Anglican communion in the west where they encourage homosegxwals and have gay bishops abeg!! | | | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Church bans chieftaincy titles, wedding for pregnant women, others (Page 6) |
on: 24-06-2011 09:04 PM
| l think traditional marriage should come b4 the church.the both parent has to agree b4 the church blessing.that it does.nt seems right in the sight of men does,nt mean that pastors and priest should be compromising the word of God.
Which word of God??? Where is it in the bible that traditional marriage should come first.... stop being myopic!! traditional marraige is not the agreement of the parents... the parents normally agree long before the traditional or the church wedding... The chuch wedding is also an agreement of the parents, the couple and GOD... get this into ur skull! | | | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Church bans chieftaincy titles, wedding for pregnant women, others |
on: 24-06-2011 09:01 PM
| Chieftaincy titles lol looking to get n title with
What point??? Apart from Chieftaincy Title every other thing is rubbish!! Why should the church be the last point of call before any other place??? in the right sense the church should be the firts... God should come first!! I don't understand, I must confess the Bishop is being myopic and an authoritarian and fails to be rationale. It is only right for a couple to got to the registry to register their marriage in the eys of the Law and then come to Chuch for a weeding afterwards or on a later date. Their is no underlying principle that traditional marriage must come first. In addition, does it mean an unmarried pregnant woman is condemned to hell and shouldn't seek right in the eyes of God?? What happened to forgiveness. What the Church should do is to conscientize it's congregationon the need of not engaging in pre-marital sex and also to counsel defaulters and not come out with this kind of In-human laws!! he next thing that will happen is that Abortion etc will become rampant becos of such rigidity. it's better to treat a dying plant from the roots by moulding a faithful congregation rather than solving problems from the branches/leaves... doesnt make sense... He should go and say all these to the Anglican communion in the west where they encourage homosegxwals and have gay bishops abeg!! | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Court marriage and divorce |
on: 21-06-2009 03:16 AM
| i know its a wishful thinking....
but it will wake up ppl to their responsibilities...
prevent marriage abuse...like infidelities in marriages...abuse of women...
protect women's right in times any divorce...etc
Is this really true? what of in the developed nations with all the Law and legal system the rate of divorce and the height of infidelity and abuse is very alarming. Again during a divorce/separation, right protection is not just for women, if she's richer then she's in for it too cos she'd settle the man real time.... | | | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Men in the delivery room |
on: 18-04-2009 01:11 AM
| i think men should be around when their wives experience labour and during the delivery. It makes them respect their wives and handle them with care. it also gives them a picture of what their mothers , and women in general experience giving birth to children
Thanks to science women don't have to experience the archaic pain anymore anesthesia takes care of the pain. Meanwhile, the issue of being in the Labor room should be the decision of the couples and not doctors. yeah it should be that of the couples not doctors. Talking about Anaethesia i guess it is given after the delivery and and not during labour if not the woman will not be able to push and contract as per controling her muscles! Unless it is a Caeserian! | | | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Men in the delivery room |
on: 18-04-2009 01:05 AM
| I AS MEDICAL STUDENT...I THINK MEN SHOULD BE WITH THIER WIVES through all the delivery process.....cos with dat men will see the pain and sufferin the woman passed through....and with dat , the men will try by all means to respect thier wives...i.e wen his wife wants to beat or other stuff...the man wont say leave him/her just like dat...(cos we no dat children do disobey very well)...
IN westen word(europe) the man must go with his wife to the labour room..dats for sure..
conclusion...MEN SURPOSE TO BE WITH THIER WIVES TRU ALL THE DELIVERY PROCESS
where r u from young man? no beef but u sure sound so funny. Being a medical student as u claim doesnt make u knowledgeable and then what or rather which western world do u refer to huh? Do u even know what u r talking bout yeah, i doubt it seriously. There is no Law anywhere that enforces a man to be there, its only a matter of choice and love that a man is present my freind! When u come to terms that in the western world where single parenthood is very common most fathers r on many occasions not present. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: I am scared of having sex |
on: 29-03-2009 06:15 PM
| | bottom line my dear is that everything depends on u. If u love him and trust him then go ahead, cos three years is quite a time. But if u feel unsure and young then then try it at all if not u'll get hurt. If u wanna keep it till marriage then make him understand since u say for the 3 years he hadnt asked u of sex which means there's a level of decency in him, but if u dont love him enough then please let him know and move out and then both of u will not be wasting each other's time or deceining each other | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Do you support or are you against abortion? |
on: 26-07-2008 09:15 AM
| | Abortion in it self is bad. It should not necessarily be a way out and should be discouraged. What interest me in this topic is the way everybody here discredits abortion and i begin to wonder why it is still happening. Is it that people don't practice what they preach or are just being pruddish?
It will be great if this discourse is accessed wholistically, from every point of view and not necessarily from a religious one as Nigerians are said to be religious but not true to their words in most cases. Not everybody is religious or even believe in a supreme being and am sure if this discourse is hosted on another forum like Facebook we will have lots of varying opinions with strong and valid points. | | | | |
