what love are u talking about? what does a 23yr old and a 17yr old know about love? parents sent you to school to go and learn to enhance your future, you were, busy gallivanting around in the name of love which you do not understand.
You can see where your juvenile delinquency has landed you, if all you said is the truth, God will save and vindicate you, because one find it difficult to believe you children of nowadays.

All these nonsenses are happening because you want to have pre-marital sex, otherwise what is the need for you to have a girlfriend at your age.

Somebody who hasn't cooking utensils, let alone having a source of livelihood to maintain himself becuse from your story you are still a dependdant.
This should serve as a lesson to other young guys.

I pray that God will intervene in your matter.
Be Godly, Be perfect as your father in Heaven is Perfect.    

Sad, that is the result premarital sex, what you should have enjoyed and even do with pride, you did in secret and secret  is no longer secret, because alarm has blown.

You had better, inform either your senior sister or aunt who could go with you to inform your parents.

But why engaging in what you can not contain.
Sex is sweet,pleasurable, honourable and sacred, but when, how and where you do it matters.

very sad news, may his soul rest in peace, but i think his school teachers should be questioned, on how it all happened, does it mean that teachers can't take care of thier pupils any more or what?