Reasons for this are numerous and could be from both sides. It is not every girl that a guy engages that he marries for numerous reasons ranging family backgrounds, the weight of his pocket at the time, and general behaviuor of the girl, her family background and the ups and downs of the relationship before and after the guy propose. Ladies are always asking wen are u going to see my parents even when we the guys love them and still want to marry them a few years to come. So assuming the love of ur life keeps on bringing the question and u can't let go, a ring will serve and u marry her as u have planned before (just one reason).
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