HE IS 25 YEAR OLD
To cut the story short MY BEST FRIEND told me his[ MUM IS HAVING SEX WITH HIM] almost every day and his fed up his now getting 2much to the extend that the mum did not want to see him with a lady any more,his dad is late and his the only child but he love his mum so much that he did not want to run away i my self did not want him to run away so please guys we need your help what should we do now???

THIS PARTICULAR ISSUE HAS BEING A BONE OF CONTESTION AMONG MANY PEOPLE WHO ARE SEEKING ANSWER TO THIS ISSUE. SOME HAVE ARGUED THAT WITHOUT OUT EDUCATION, ONE WILL BE NOTING BUT ILLITERATE, HOWEVER OTHERS HAVE ARGUED WITH STRONG BELIEVE THAT COMMON SENSE GOT IT ALL.

i dated this guy for two year then due some circumstances, likes gossiping are cos we are not close, but  we love each other very much his best friend, cousin,friend wants me, but i wasn't want they think i am. cos they want me to be having affairs with them but i don't want to they started tell their friend i am a not they right women for him. i don't know my best friend was the devil behind all this,  cos of that i broke up with him, for the past two year. i went on with my life. he came to my house yesterday we chatted and talked as friends but he started tell me what he has passed through in the hands of woman, many heart breaks from woman. he told still want me back and he miss me a lot  that he want me back cos he single and am single too.


what do u think i should do

50 Universal Truths About Men
1.   Why should I remind you that “I love you?” I already told you once.
2.   I’ll do anything for sex; even commit to you for life.
3.   I hate arguing with you. I’d much rather find a compromise. 
4.   I love long hair. Sorry, but I do. 
5.   When you speak softly, I can’t help but listen.
6.   I need to be told “no” sometimes. Not a lot, but every now and again reminds me that you are expensive.
7.   Please don’t ask me how you look unless you’re willing to trust my answer. 
8.   My eyes notice other women a lot more when you are upset with me.
9.   When you’re happy with me I can’t help but want to please you.
10.   If I don’t feel I can make you happy, it makes me feel less than a man.
11.   I expect you to be ready when I pick you up.
12.   Cigarettes make any woman look cheap and easy.
13.   I'm scared if I let a woman inside my heart, she'll take advantage of me.
14.   If you can’t stand up to me when I’m a brat, you’re too weak for me to open up to when I’m upset.
15.   Sitting quietly next to me after you’ve made me a meal is your get-out-of-the-doghouse-free ticket. You’ll be surprised how quickly I can forgive.
16.   You did something hurtful. If I never bring it up, I’m considering leaving you.
17.   I don’t read minds. Remember, I’m not a woman.   
18.   You may know fashion, but I wish you’d dress to please me, not other women.   
19.   If I’m losing my hair, it’s not funny. Would you like me to joke about your weight?
20.   When I talk to you about golf and you act bored, it would be nice for you to remember all the times I’ve listened to you talk about what is important to you.                   
21.   The woman I love is easy to please. She appreciates the effort I put into making her happy, even if I get the details wrong.
22.   You look hot in a dress.
23.   I hate being told what to do when I don't ask for help. It makes me feel like you're my mother.
24.   If you sleep over, I might eventually marry you, but I'm less motivated.
25.   During sex my ears are as sensitive to your words as your skin is to my touch.
26.   I need some type of signal or cue to walk across the room and approach you. What if you’re married!?
27.   It makes me feel like you trust me when you ask for my advice.
28.   It feels competitive when you insist on being in charge.
29.   Being respected is more important to me that being loved.
30.   I want every man to envy me when we arrive as a couple. Please don’t let yourself go.
31.   When I’m upset I am very tone sensitive. How you say it is more important than what you say.
32.   I hate it when you minimize, ignore or tell me I don’t mean my compliments. It makes me want to stop giving them.
33.   I’m more insecure than you think. Why do you think I need your respect so much? 
34.   I don’t always know how I feel. That’s why I don’t tell you.
35.   I don’t need you to do things for me. What I crave is being able to please you.
36.   If I do one thing and say something contradictory – go with my actions – that will always tell you what’s in my heart. 
37.   I find myself wanting to please you when you simply smile at me without asking for something (like a favor).
38.   I really don’t want to hear about any of your ex-boyfriends, regardless of the point.
39.   If I don’t share what I’m thinking, it’s because I don’t think you will listen without interrupting.
40.   I don’t like to argue and I don’t like to guess what’s wrong. Just tell me so I can fix it.
41.   I love it when you put your hair in a pony tail. Yes, it’s a Freudian thing. 
42.   Don’t ask me, “Are you going to wear that?” when I’m already dressed.
43.   A gentleman should always be respected by his lady in public, even if she is disagreeing with him.
44.   If you don’t believe you’re pretty, you won’t believe me when I tell you, no matter how many times I say it. 
45.   It isn’t how much you weigh, it’s that your body is proportionate, which is so attractive.   
46.   Sometimes I have weird, strange or very segxwal thoughts. I don’t take them seriously and I don’t want to share them with you (or anyone).   
47.   Sometimes you really don’t want to know what I’m thinking. See above.
48.   If you cheat on me, it is nearly impossible for me to get over it.
49.   I don’t remember everything about our relationship but that doesn’t mean I don’t love you.
50.   I need some time to myself to calm down when I’m upset so that I don’t say something I will regret.   

why

none of the above

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i think is what inside her not outside of her.

what do u guys mean must a girl be a virgin to be an African Queen what of u guys are we all not born to be virgin is it only girls that are met to be virgin don't u know guys are met to keep there virginity as well as girls

is it true that for couples to have a peaceful marriage, they must be in a relationship for a period of 12months to at least 2years.

i have reasons doing all those thing on this forum
plz kindly bear with me on whatever i do or say or type on this forum

Todays fast paced modern 21st century lifestyles are making it difficult to maintain healthy relationships isn't it?

It is good to help people cope, find solutions to heartbreak and build powerful relationships. One thing I have found in all the forums I help with is that it is the lack of pure communication that cause relationship breakdown.

I have been helping /counseling people for many years in relationships as a freelancer with some great successes. My main occupation is market research and content writing for website stores in the United States which I have been involved in since 2008

I helped many relationship counselor professionals promote their guides and relationship problems. Experience is what I use to help others....

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Does drinking make you say things that are not true??
i have a friend she is so confused and really need some advice please!

my friend very good friends with a guy she work with.she think she have fallen in love with him actually. There seems to be a strong attraction between them but he is very shy unless he is drinking. When he is drinking he tell me that he loves me, he cares for me, that she is special, and that when they have made love that it was very special to him. When he is sober, it's a different story.they don't talk about the times they have slept together. they joke and kid around with each other and some occasionally flirting on her end but that is it. He does call her all the time, text me, and seems to make excuses to come and see me.

she is so afraid of being rejected by this guy that she don't think she can talk to him about her feelings.they have to work together every day so if he rejects me, what do she do then? she would feel stupid!!

Does drinking bring out your true feelings? Or does it make you say things that are not ture? I seem to be more open to talk about her feeling after drinking.

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4 Women Men Avoid
The Needy Little Girl

    This woman is every man’s worst fear. This type of woman is whiney and frequently verbalizes how desperate she is to get married. What is so frightening about this type of woman is that men can’t often identify her until they are well into a relationship.

    Initially, this type of woman appears to be independent. She has been told that she is clingy or needy and often overcompensates by trying to be ultra independent.

    However, once she is in a relationship and feels safe, her neediness begins to manifest.

    TIP: Ironically, these women would do better to allow men to see some vulnerability right away, which is actually what most men expect, rather than give to everyone else but themselves and then expect a man to make up for their empty feelings.   

The Man Hater, Witch (or other like words)

    This type is different from all the others in one aspect. Most men will give this type of woman more of a chance and try and win her over, simply because she is a challenge.

    Because of her strength (anger), most men don’t want to be in a committed relationship with her (and forget marriage), but they are intrigued with her perceived strength and view it as a conquest if they can get this type into bed.

    This type of woman has the competitiveness of a man and the sensitivity of a woman. In an instant, she can switch from being very seductive to emotionally distant.
    Put simply, she uses her hatred for men as a shield to avoid being hurt……again.

    TIP: These women tend to be very guarded against getting hurt. In relationships, when they do give their heart to a man, they often allow the relationship to proceed too fast, which frequently overwhelms most men. The most important thing they need to learn is how to s-l-o-w-l-y allow a man to capture their heart. 

The Career Queen

    The common myth is that men are threatened by successful women. Actually, like most myths, there is an element of truth to this, which makes it so appealing. Men are not “threatened” by successful women as much as they feel that a successful woman doesn’t need them.

    I have counseled many single, professional women who have told me, “I make good money, own my own house and have a wonderful social life. I don’t need a man to make me happy.” My reply to them is often, “Then why would any man want to be with you? What could he possibly contribute to your life when you are self-sufficient and self-fulfilled?”

    Granted, men don’t want a woman who is totally dependent on them, but it is flattering to a man when a confident woman allows herself to depend on them, versus when they don’t appear to need a man at all.

    TIP: Most men want to be the center of a woman’s interest, whether that is fair or not, and don’t want her devotion to work placed above her devotion to him.

 The Motor Mouth

    From a man’s perspective, a talkative woman isn’t good or bad. There is a perception that women use thousands more words per day than men. What most articles fail to mention is that this depends on the topic of conversation.

    If the subject is sports, most men will talk a lot more than a woman will. Should the conversation change to something feminine, such as a friend’s baby, the woman will inevitably use more words.

    Most women are accused of being too talkative when, in actuality, they are speaking more simply because they are discussing a subject that has great interest to them, not just because “women talk more.”

    In addition, most men aren’t good at talking over each other, the way women do effortlessly with their girlfriends. In a woman’s world, I speak, you speak, and everyone speaks together. Just join in the conversation whenever the mood strikes you.

    In the world of men, that is considered rude because men view conversation the same as “having the floor” of a debate. In other words, when he speaks, it’s his turn to speak and he is not to be interrupted until he’s done. Now that’s a little overdone, but not far from the truth.

    Therefore, when a woman asks a man a question and he proceeds to answer her – and then she begins to interject her opinions for the next 10 minutes – he’ll just quit trying.

    TIP: Men aren’t that different from women. Excessive talking is actually a form of conversation hogging. Don’t dominate the conversation unless you know it’s a topic that interests him.

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Jealousy is a big killer of love relationship. isnt  It

a bi u want to kill person

my dear go straight to the point by telling them u want to go and see a friend of urs that is very sick.

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