Well normally wen you start a relationship, the initiator(be it male or female) most spend more(buy way of cash, time patience etc) to win confidence trust and over. Along the line of progress, the initiator must check if he/she is making sense. If yes continue, if no pull out. If yes, you naturally expect the relationship to balance at some point. meaning demand and supply must coordinate. At this, all must hover around the 50% mark...........love could be blind at first but over a period of time, it must ve opened its eyes for it to make sense. |