Why great majority of women prefer parasitic relationship to 'mutualistic' relationship? Is this trait natural or artificial?
Nice post with interesting replies and grammar galore.
Anyway, "Sew ur cloth according to ur coat"...abi na hw dem dey talk am sef!
Most times, na we guys dey put ourselves for wahala.
We can over exaggerate our levels jst bcos we're desperate to win a "fine girl".
Of course, "fine girls" have their price tags.
If u make the "Move" the right way from the beginning, u won't fine the relationship parasitic at all.
For instance,
During my early days in the university in 9ja, I had a very big problem with ladies. I considered them parasitic, opportunistic, etc.
But, the truth is that I was the one actually buying all the wahala for myself, unnecessarily.
Can u imagine me recommending exotic eateries for lunch jst to impress, when she would as well have appreciated a cheap meal at the students' Lunch bar. worst still, she could even buy for me if I wanted.
Posing like a big boy who has all the monies in the world and telling all kinds of lies to cover-up when you're actually in broke ass will only give the lady a fake picture of ur true person, and she will keep demanding the heck our of u. After all, WHAT ARE FRIENDS FOR?
Once I got the proper orientation about women, all my relationships have been 100% mutual, to say the least.
Besides, relationship is an emotional or other connection between people. Parasitic or whatever, in any case, you have a choice.
After all, some me too are "parasites".
The problem with men is Pomposity. Naturally, women are very comfortable with our pompous nature since it serves them better.
Rgrds,
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