i cant decide who i want to get married to, i have this wonderful lady, we have been going out for 6yrs, she is simply nice, has all the attribute u need in a woman but she is a sickler, found out about 2 yrs ago but i loved her so much i could not leave her,medical wise we are not compatable, then i met someone else 6 months ago, am her first love, loving ,caring and too nice.she too has the wifey attribute.she always treats me good like u treat ur first love i guess u know how that goes.
  now i have to decide who i get to marry, cause i set a goal for next year to be married and it has to be one of them, if i let down the first, she may kill her self.if i let down the second i may as well be dead. help me out