You have found the love of your life ... been dating a while... even married... but for whatever reason... childbearing, sickness, operation, job...the body of your better half has changed from athletic to fluffy fat or from fluffy fat to skinny. There's nothing healthy you can do to reverse this transformation. You are stuck. Would you stick with this new figure or start looking elsewhere? Please... not what you SHOULD do ... that we all know!...what WOULD you do?
My brother, in situations like this, u need to be very careful. It might be external attacks to prevent you from enjoying you marriage.
Pray hard so that you will not run from frying pan to fire.