I didnt say either of those now did I? I'm saying when a man is more interested in U having his baby than he is in respecting U enuf to honour U in marriage before getting the babies, if U can both agree on that, then U myt want to raise eyebrows.
i dont agree with your comment and am doubting whether you are an african man. If you are then you suppose
to know that wanting a woman to carry ones child is a big step for any man and any african man only gives
this priviledge to the woman he loves and is ready to settle down with.