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1  Forum / The Buzz Central / help, naijapals . on: 26-11-2010 02:50 AM
i found a number of music on najapals is so much wonderful amazing . so i wanna keep them in my mp4 . who know how to download ? thanks !
2  Forum / Relationships & Romance / what's the meaning of life on: 11-09-2010 04:31 AM
true love is flooding in movie , but is rare in reality . you can see people have date , make sex , then leave so fast so easily  . maybe then start with likeness , or killing loneliness . i'm tired of the procidure . how good it is , if we possess the wisdom to keep us love one and only once , complete fall in love only once , and accompany one and only person through the rest of our life . when our hair get white , skin get shrink , foot walks slowly , but we hand in hand , heart in heart !
Dream is pure and colourful in childhood , but is disappeared in adult . when i grow up , money starts to control my life , my life goal is changed from realizing dream to pursuit of money . it is no good , but i must confess ,my heart is not free because of it . eventhough it's like this , i still try to looking for the little happy cute moment in life , coz i need smile . but it proves that all is fake , all is just reluctant to be happy . that really bottom laugh , where are you ?
no dream , no love ,you can imagine how dull and dake the life is!
so am starting to suspect , what is the meaning of life ? we eat , sleep ,talk , make love ,earn money , work . so what is the significant of all these things ? is it to pursuit the happiness ?  is that our life purpose ? what are we really living for ? who can help me out ! sos.......
3  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: My boss bought me a car on: 8-07-2010 10:37 AM
your boss give you a car , just because he thhink that you are humble and he want to be your close friend ? can you accept that car ?
4  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: if chinese marry african on: 19-04-2010 05:06 AM
Quote from: omatu on 18-04-2010 08:54 PM
Quote from: crossabove on 16-04-2010 12:32 PM

in my opinion , it is not because of her friends and parents have village mind , frankly speaking , nowndays most people in china , they don't have a good impression about african . i don't know why .
yes ,indeed , it's true that if they love each other truthfully , they can overcome it . but the fact is that she never know if the african guy is loveing her sincerely . she still suspect wheather he comes to her for the purpose of business , sex , visa or something else . but she like him .  i think that's why she is so hard to decide . and i remenber she once told me that the guy ever kneel for her don't give up in McDonalds . and also he have required the girl borrow 6000RMB from her parents  to moving his business . but she refused. since begannig untill now , they have been stay together for nearly five month , they never making love . coz my friend don't like sex b4 marriage .


 To face the fact, talking of love, that is fine, if the guy is asking for that kind of money it means the guy is up to something, though d guy mit love her. at d other hand chines  blif much in them self, that is the reason the parent will nt want her to marry him, talking about visa. if you have your money u can go to china anytime n there is nothing much in china tht will make you wanna stay there.... tallkin 4m experience chines is friendly when it comes to money the comon language is no money no friend.
Exactly.  The chinese motto is no money, no love.


i confess that some chinese worship money , but it's not suitalbe to discrable our chinese as " no money, no friend or no love." everything happened must have reason , you guys maybe know that china have exprienced a very poor period of time . so today they just want to earn enough money to make sure that they are safe,they will not be hungry anymore like before , or in other words , they just want to satisfied the sense of crisis . china is a country have 5000 years excellence history . most of them have refined gentle manners , we will not give up our own principle just because of money ! so please don't misunderstand us . ok ?  i think , this is something can called culture  shock .
5  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: if chinese marry african on: 17-04-2010 04:38 AM
Quote from: ksurrina on 16-04-2010 01:58 PM
Quote from: naturegifts50 on 15-04-2010 03:19 PM
lets face the truth here now, am an african lady i live in china.the fact i sthat 90% of chinese women that got marret to naija guys dont ve a gud story to tell.not all naija guys re bad but most of them here re bad.some girls  that come here to say love knows no race could be the wives of these same naija guys here that come cheat women and leave them with pains in the name of making money and they send to u while u stay back home and enjoy while another woman is in pains.some of u naija girls even know they ve women here and children yet u play cool knowing that ur husband is out for money. well @poster tell ur friend to be careful and watch her back

There is truth to this. Nigerian women know that their husbands are married to foreign women and they don't care as long as they are getting money to live big. Nigerian woman will all tell you that the man is his sister and she is his wife.  A Nigerian friend told me that he would only marry a foreign woman for citizenship and as soon as he receive it he back in Nigeria for his girlfriend. I find myself falling for him and remembering this I cut all contact with him.

Five months is too soon to know if marriage should be discuss. What your girlfriend need to know is what this guy is really after. A lot of the Nigerians in China are there looking for citizenship the one who doesn't know about the Chinese citizenship Laws will rush marriage after they found out that China not giving them the citizenship but only extended their stay they start to abuse the wives.  China only give up to one year visa to Nigerians who are married to Chinese National and each time it has to be renewed these Nigerians has to be working. So tell your friend to be educated about this before forsaking her friends and family members.

Love is not everything when there is no Joy, Peace and fulfillment.

Love is not everything when there is no Joy, Peace and fulfillment. yeah, i totally agree with u ! thank u for tell us the reality . but what am doubting is why do some women can stand other woman sharing their husband  with them ?  this is something very importand about betray !if i were them , i must have divorced .
6  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: if chinese marry african on: 16-04-2010 05:04 AM
Quote from: SHERYLCRUZ on 15-04-2010 11:01 AM
In my own opinion there is nothing wrong marrying a Nigerian man or any other race provided u love each other. Love takes no boundaries... I am dating one myself. I am a quarter filipina spanish and me and my Nigerian boyfriend will plan to tie the knot in November this year. I live and grew up in Hong Kong and my boyfriend currently lives in Abuja

congritunations to u  , it indicates that u meet ur own mr. right ! but my friend's situation is diffrent .
7  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: if chinese marry african on: 16-04-2010 04:45 AM
Quote from: naturegifts50 on 15-04-2010 03:19 PM
lets face the truth here now, am an african lady i live in china.the fact i sthat 90% of chinese women that got marret to naija guys dont ve a gud story to tell.not all naija guys re bad but most of them here re bad.some girls  that come here to say love knows no race could be the wives of these same naija guys here that come cheat women and leave them with pains in the name of making money and they send to u while u stay back home and enjoy while another woman is in pains.some of u naija girls even know they ve women here and children yet u play cool knowing that ur husband is out for money. well @poster tell ur friend to be careful and watch her back

Thank u for telling us the real truth , i will tell my girlfriend what u have said . i believe there is always someone very righteous  ,Sincere  and kind here , thank god ! i appreciate u very much . wish u good luck !
8  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: if chinese marry african on: 13-04-2010 11:14 AM
in my opinion , it is not because of her friends and parents have village mind , frankly speaking , nowndays most people in china , they don't have a good impression about african . i don't know why .
yes ,indeed , it's true that if they love each other truthfully , they can overcome it . but the fact is that she never know if the african guy is loveing her sincerely . she still suspect wheather he comes to her for the purpose of business , sex , visa or something else . but she like him .  i think that's why she is so hard to decide . and i remenber she once told me that the guy ever kneel for her don't give up in McDonalds . and also he have required the girl borrow 6000RMB from her parents  to moving his business . but she refused. since begannig untill now , they have been stay together for nearly five month , they never making love . coz my friend don't like sex b4 marriage .
9  Forum / Relationships & Romance / if chinese marry african on: 13-04-2010 08:50 AM
one of my girl friend like one african from negerian . they have stayed together for five month . they are happy to each other. but when she go back her hometown during spring fetival , her family disagree very much , her parents shouted and blame her :" how can u find a foreign boyfriend ? u can make friends with them ,but cannot regard them as ur future husband ?. it's hard for us to accept him ,u must stop ur interaction with him ......." she is very upset ,and always think how to make her partents accept her african boyfriend . but who knows , the worse is the boss she work for is also very surprised and persuade her to give up ,said " is there something wrong with mind , are u crazy ? " after her friends and collegues knowing that they never comunicate with the girl like before and always discuss something back of her , it seems that she is a crime who had done something very bad , seems that she should be ashame and feel guilty for herself . she don't know what happend , why everthing change . she told me she cannot breath even , there is no space for her to stay relaxly except for the god's house . ask me what should she do .
i said :" maybe u can get some help from the chinese women who have married african , maybe they can give u some advice ."
after interviewed many chinese woman , she said most of them suggest that it's far more better not to choose a african husband . one of the woman said :" u must be very brave to bear the public voice , and also should get used to the way of african's lifestyle , in negerian , women doesn't enjoy the same right as men . women stay in a lower position than men . some african husband like to have sex with others , can u accept that ? they are machismo . once u decide to marry an african , u must be prepared to meet the harsh chanllenge .some african marry chinese just for business,sex,visa and so forth . u must be very careful.  of course ,not all african will be so bad , there are very good ones . but the chance to enjoy a successful marriage is very low . u don't need to take that rist ......"
i don't understand , love is no boundary , why is there someone always talking something wants them to break up ?each one have the right to choose the live they want , each one must find their own detiny . hope she can find her own one and make the right decision ! i even don't know how to help her , now she is very upset , every day just thinking , her weight is loosing heavily . as her best friend ,i really want to do something for her  , so ladies and gentlemen , is it really a risk to choose an african ? is it really more better to choose a chinese husband for her ? hopefully u guys can tell us the truth and give some advice ! thanks in advance !
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