I never believed that with the high degree of hard times people are facing in Nigeria there are still lunatics who can think of such absurdity...well since you need advice my advice to you is that you should go and look for one fine fulani girl endure and collect a hundred stroke of cain then you will have a virgin for ever it wont cost you much maybe free.
This kind of parents they vex person...imagine people are struggling to find 15,000 naira in a month and some parents spent 100,000 dollars for won small pikin just to call one beard man for birth day party guys this is annoying.