i just like as U take arrange Ur comment, although i no deh surprise, bcos na only charming, quality, digital lady like U fit talk dis kin heavy talk weh mek sense, God go bless U.
Make Tamuno bless you plenty plenty.
My brother, some people tink sey wen the Groom pay plenty money mean sey the Groom dey buy the Bride. When man spend money to get something, that alone go make am love, cherish and appreciate that thing. If man marry em wife with sweet, chewing gum, plates and spoons, d man no go value the woman na. Abeg, make una leave them and their tradition alone o. Nobi person sey make una sell una sisters and daughters with sweet, chewing gum and kunu.
that is why they don't get married on time because the man will have to work for so many years to gather money before thinking about marriage,anyway that is their choice
That is not true. Don't say what you don't know. I'm not an Ibo girl but I have lived with them. I even have then as in-laws. As a woman, I prefer to be married expensively than to be married with Sweet and Chewing gum. Men value their most expensive shoes and shirts.
I don't see anything wrong with the list. The culture and tradition of certain people remains their culture and tradition and there is nothing one can do about it. Nobody can change it except the gods of the land beccause the tradition and culture has been there before the new generation came into existence. For the fact that the list and money involve is much, doesn't mean the Bride is being sold. If d Groom is to bring a jar of palmwine and he isn't boyant enough, there is no need to panick. All he has to do is to talk to the parents of the Bride to assist him get that. What I saw in the list is small compare to the list of the Riverine people of Rivers State, that doesn't mean after that, the couple can't feed. Before a man thinks of getting married, he should be prepared and marriage this days is not done by the Groom alone. The Bride and the parents of the Bride supports the Groom in most cases. For me, I think the list is just ok. Men value the most expensive shoes and shirts they have. For those of you who think Ibos sell their daughters because of what you saw in the list, that is a lie. If you trully love a girl, money shouldn't be the problem.
YOu also watched secret of the sand,do you remember Ruth and Rakiel...the twin.
Yes o, I remembered the twins. One is wicked while the other is meek and kind hearted. Their mother loved the wicked one and their father, the kind hearted. I still remember that the wicked twin tried to kill her twin sister and their mum was in support of that. Hmmmmmmm................................... Secret..................... of.............. the.................. Sand.....................
Hmmm............. old time memories....................... Sohie darling, you try wella. I remember those days when every child rush to sit infront of the television set every Thursday by 7.30pm, tune to NTA to watch Hot cash (Willi Willi), by 8.00pm same day is Check Mate(Ada, Nduka, Nduka's mother etc). On Friday by 7.30 pm is Secret of the Sand on RSTV. Oh! Sweet memories. Tanks Sohie.
What wrong has this innocent man done? Why trying to make the country ungovernable for him? Did Jonathan eat that which was meant for you? Why are you dis wicked? Why hunting for a man who has done nothing but good to you? Why is it that you don't appreciate good things when you see them? This same Jonathan you are planning to distroy in 3 months time built an Almajiri Model School in Sokoto to eradicate and minimize begging and poverty in the North. Chai....................... some people don't deserve to be done good. You can burst in your holes. I know you can't come out to the open. Jonathan will forever be your nightmare. Take his wrist watch, your hand will be gone. Remove his cap, your head will be cut of from your neck. MENDS is waiting.