From the story narrated it looks like 2 were playing the games.
Dont forget that it is a game between consenting adults.
I dont think it is a rape and so the officer cannot be charged for molesting
However, i will term it as NEGLIGENCE OF DUTY, perhaps.
I am not so cool at judging misdemeanors

Hi , everyone
Can you please hold on a moment.
lets try and think outside the box for a moment.
According to the lady, boyfriend didnt give an inkling that he was annoyed or started an outright confrontation.
All he did was aim for her jugular, i mean attacking a sleeping fellow that he (boyfriend) was supposed to be guarding.
Ok.
Now i am thinking two dimensionally :
1, Its either the lady is a LUNATIC in love
                    or
2,She has an ulterior motive. maybe revenge of some sort.
Take heart dear posters and dont get too emotional and pressed about this, who knows, they may both be lunar.

If this post is true, then its either she is not well informed or she has other plausible and depressing reasons yet unknown to the wider public or family. As a doctor she should be aware that a certain cocktail of drugs can suppress the viral load for a long period and it is a known fact that she can marry somebody with the same status and give life to a healthy baby and hence life goes on.
This topic should be denounced, the woman involved should not be given a healthy eulogy of any sort so that this kinda unsavory  event would not repeat itself. My regrets to the loving family left behind...

Its quite unfortunate, in a first world, this kinda incident would be considered retrogressive to the economy and in other so-called advanced countries it is a key performance index (KPI) used to measure the overall boost or decline in the country's GDP. Here in Nigeria its just a topic to discuss on and a good reason to pray and fast more as often orchestrated by our religious chauvinist. I think these development should not be taken lightly if for any reason other than the fact that these people have dependents that would be sorely affected by this uncouth act. Also, this  is an awkward sign for both the banking system and its head (the governor). The sacking of these individuals means that ZENITH bank rather than file a bankruptcy claim to the CBN or accept that they have no visible means of paying their workers resort to this infamous act. Really, am sad!