Ok, so i met this guy who arrived at the U.S. 5 years ago. At first, I was like how can i date a JJC from 9ja..and i was born in the U.S. so anyhow sha, at first, I wasnt into him, i cheated on him with my ex , he almost went crazy and committed suicide. i felt bad, so i decided wow, this guy really loves me and i decided to give him a try to be truthful and stay away from every other. I let go all of my males friends and bad friends.I want to have a new start ova with this my man. we embarked on this journey of "I LOVE YOU, AM CRAZY IN LOVE WITH YOU for 3 and half years. I took care of him, changed him, by the help of God, he was a changed man. if you see him today, you will be like, wow.. he is FINEEEEEEEE. however, through all this journey, it hasnt been ez because i was educated and have my masters, he is a high school diploma and works as a mechanic. I encouraged him to go to school, at first, he did and then later he stop after me and God find him a good job as a bank teller. despite it all, I was at my man's side. our families does not want us to be together because i am educated and he is not and his family(not his parents, but his extended relatives) does not like me because they said i will be enforcing him to be a great man, (they want someone they can be sendng errands, and be saying yes ma, yes sir) but me and my love did not let the family stuff bother me. We fought and fought to declare our love for each other but still because of families disapproval, we got tired and fed up and both of us were unhappy. he started talking to other females, and he claimed them to be friends and i became so jealous that i will insult all this girls. he saw i didnt want him to have any friends. anyhow, last month, he told me, he is dating an american girl and this girl loves him and cares about him and accept him for who he is. he told me to move on with my life, i should come and pack my things from his house we both paid for. he said he hated me, he regret me and us being together. he has agreed to marry the american girl. he even beat me because i call one of females friend and insulted her on the phone. he has moved on with his new girl and i am here, stuck and cant even move on. i missed him so much. after everything, my life, my money, i gave to him, i did not even reap the benefits. another girl come want chop the soup that i have been cooking for my husband. I learnt my lesson. is tough to move on when i have built everything i had around this man. he doesn't want us to be friends or nothing.. all he want is, he wants to move on.. WHAT HAPPEN TO LOVE..good 4 years of my life, money and properties to this jjc.. I want him back but in his eyes, i am his worst enemy after the fight and his new girlf. my friends told me he was going to leave me, i said no, he is different. not knowing the future.. if i c snake and man, i will kill man first b4 snake. this man did me dirty.i cant sleep, eat, think normal, all i want is my MAN back.. but i guess he aint coming back. . |