If u are wit a girl and u want to turn her on don't rush her and start kiss or fondle her,u just stand behind her,more ur hand from her hips up to her head,fill her hair,more close to her,bend ur head down to her neck,more ur head up a bit.u'll find somthing*her ear suck it w...e...l...l...,i tell u she want u wit passion and her oil will run up.try it but don't let her do it to u first;i'll tell u wat's up next time.