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81  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Final Straw! on: 27-12-2010 09:13 AM
Quote from: samboko on 25-12-2010 06:13 PM
At what point do you stop loving someone you ever loved?

At the point you make a deliberate decision to move on!!!
82  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 'ABORTED' DAUGHTER RESURFACES on: 27-12-2010 09:08 AM
Quote from: tmusowoya on 22-12-2010 09:31 AM
An acquaintance of mine  man had a string of intimate moments with one pretty girl who had come to visit within his neighbourhood. She fell pregnant and broke the news to him. Upon his insistence she agreed to abort the baby and he gave her the needed money. After she left his neigbourhood he never heard from her until now, over two decades later.

His mobile phone rang and guess who it was - the daughter he thought was aborted.

She's a university graduate working for an insurance company and preparing for her wedding. And she wants no other man but her own dad to give her over to her bridegroom on that special day.

My friend is panicking! (I gather her mum brought her up single handedly as she's a well-to-do career woman).

Any advice for him.


LATEST DEVELOPMENT
1) My friend at long last met his long forgotten sweetheart together with a daughter he never new he had, and who, according to him, bears an undeniable resemblance to him.

2) He confesses that he was massively overwhelmed to see both of them. According to him his ex is not very far from what he expected her to look like after so many years. They had a very friendly conversation (I just hope he's not developing some ideas as the consequences would be disastrous)

3) The lady's family were obviously not happy at all with him. Their daughter actually succeeded until now to have kept the identity of this man as her highly guarded secret. He intimates to me that they plan to charge him damages belatedly for deflowering their daughter.

Your views please!!
83  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: i'm confused on: 23-12-2010 02:54 PM
Nothing much to get confused about. Just make up your mind who to end up with. We all do. Most ladies choose based on material stuff. My sincere advice ... choose the one you're more in love with to reduce chances of cheating in future!
84  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 'ABORTED' DAUGHTER RESURFACES on: 22-12-2010 03:26 PM
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 22-12-2010 03:16 PM
Quote from: esonu on 22-12-2010 11:44 AM
Quote from: tmusowoya on 22-12-2010 09:31 AM
An acquaintance of mine  man had a string of intimate moments with one pretty girl who had come to visit within his neighbourhood. She fell pregnant and broke the news to him. Upon his insistence she agreed to abort the baby and he gave her the needed money. After she left his neigbourhood he never heard from her until now, over two decades later.

His mobile phone rang and guess who it was - the daughter he thought was aborted.

She's a university graduate working for an insurance company and preparing for her wedding. And she wants no other man but her own dad to give her over to her bridegroom on that special day.

My friend is panicking! (I gather her mum brought her up single handedly as she's a well-to-do career woman).

Any advice for him.
make im go so dat he go eat the gurl bride price

If he goes for this reason only, the bride price fit choke am. Matter of fact he shudnt touch it cuz he is so not worth it

I agree totally on this one!
85  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 'ABORTED' DAUGHTER RESURFACES on: 22-12-2010 11:49 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on 22-12-2010 11:26 AM
Quote from: tmusowoya on 22-12-2010 09:31 AM
An acquaintance of mine  man had a string of intimate moments with one pretty girl who had come to visit within his neighbourhood. She fell pregnant and broke the news to him. Upon his insistence she agreed to abort the baby and he gave her the needed money. After she left his neigbourhood he never heard from her until now, over two decades later.

His mobile phone rang and guess who it was - the daughter he thought was aborted.

She's a university graduate working for an insurance company and preparing for her wedding. And she wants no other man but her own dad to give her over to her bridegroom on that special day.

My friend is panicking! (I gather her mum brought her up single handedly as she's a well-to-do career woman).

Any advice for him.


First of all, the man should slap himself well well for such a costly mistake he did, why he never contacted the so called called he slept with and ask her to abort the child if she is alright all those years ? Na waoo !!

Since the girl requested for her biological father to be the one to hand her over to her man, The man should buckle up and attend to that fast without hesitating, that once his rejected stone that is now his corner stone !! If the mum told the girl how she came online and what was suppose to be done to her when she knew nothing, i also advice the man to go on bended knees and plead the daughter for forgiveness.

At least you've made me laugh over this. Costly mistake indeed. My fingers r crossed for what will happen over the weekend!
86  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 'ABORTED' DAUGHTER RESURFACES on: 22-12-2010 11:06 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 22-12-2010 10:47 AM
let him see d mother of d child first and talk to her, only then will he know wat to say

Guys you've been very helpful ... so PALS can really be great reservoirs of wisdom if they choose to. PLEASE keep it up!

Watch this space; I should be able to give you all an update next week!

AGAIN I say 'THANKS'!
87  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 'ABORTED' DAUGHTER RESURFACES on: 22-12-2010 10:58 AM
Quote from: blessedme on 22-12-2010 10:47 AM
let him see d mother of d child first and talk to her, only then will he know wat to say

Wow u r such a blessing ... SERIOUS!
88  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 'ABORTED' DAUGHTER RESURFACES on: 22-12-2010 10:44 AM
Quote from: Priceless-jewel on 22-12-2010 10:30 AM
ok. D man shd honor her daughter's invitatn. 4 d fact dat her daughter remember n invited him is a proof dat d girl has forgiven n let go

Should he also explain abt the decision to abort?
89  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 'ABORTED' DAUGHTER RESURFACES on: 22-12-2010 10:04 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 22-12-2010 09:48 AM
hmmmmmmm, so touching
the mum must be brainy..

my advice to him is.. he should take her as his daughter and be happy to be a proud father

Truth is he really wants to do that but he doesn't know how to begin to say 'sorry' to both mum and daughter. He hasn't even seen the mother yet; and he has his own wife and two sons to break the news to!
90  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 'ABORTED' DAUGHTER RESURFACES on: 22-12-2010 09:47 AM
Quote from: xter on 22-12-2010 09:37 AM
dis same story u posted hapened to someone i know very well


i really hope its not him sha

Really? Dont' tell me it's so common!
91  Forum / Relationships & Romance / 'Aborted Daughter' Re-Appears After Ten Years on: 22-12-2010 09:31 AM
An acquaintance of mine  man had a string of intimate moments with one pretty girl who had come to visit within his neighbourhood. She fell pregnant and broke the news to him. Upon his insistence she agreed to abort the baby and he gave her the needed money. After she left his neigbourhood he never heard from her until now, over two decades later.

His mobile phone rang and guess who it was - the daughter he thought was aborted.

She's a university graduate working for an insurance company and preparing for her wedding. And she wants no other man but her own dad to give her over to her bridegroom on that special day.

My friend is panicking! (I gather her mum brought her up single handedly as she's a well-to-do career woman).

Any advice for him.
92  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: pls help me on: 22-12-2010 07:56 AM
false prophets on the loose!!!!
93  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: i want to know on: 21-12-2010 03:46 PM
yours did?
94  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Help!!! I have never seen him before but he claims I am his ex...!!!! on: 21-12-2010 02:58 PM
Quote from: 0luwanifemi on 18-12-2010 07:17 PM
i met a guy on the street with 2of my friends, he claimed i was his xgirlfriend and he started creating a scene immediately. i have neva set my eyes on him before but he said i was his girl and i ran away with his pregnancy, the guy was providing adequate information about me but i ve neva seen him b4 in my life,now my boyfriend is asking questions, i ve neva done blind dating b4 i wud ve said i knew him but i dont, pls what shud i do, am not even pregnant

Ask your boy friend!!!
95  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: A Working Mother on: 21-12-2010 02:46 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 21-12-2010 02:42 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 21-12-2010 02:35 PM
How is the family affected when the mother of the house work outside the home?

Negatively

Not in all cases! I know a family where the man has not been fortunate enough to be in gainful emplyment (including self). So the wife has been the bread winner and she's not doing a bad job so far.
96  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Man Shorter Than You? on: 21-12-2010 02:18 PM
And where does this leave taller than average ladies?
97  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: YOUR SPECIAL CHRISTMAS GIFT on: 21-12-2010 01:52 PM
Quote from: juleshotluv on 21-12-2010 01:45 PM
Quote from: tmusowoya on 21-12-2010 01:26 PM
Quote from: juleshotluv on 21-12-2010 01:20 PM
I havent gotten any yet....so, how am I supposed to choose? Huh? Undecided

we r 4 days away so don't lose hope ... simply indicate your choice and see who knows what may follow!

And who said I was losing hope? Undecided your post didnt say make a wish or indicate what you wanted.... Undecided stop confusing yourself

Read my post again dear ... this time slooowwly!!
98  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: YOUR SPECIAL CHRISTMAS GIFT on: 21-12-2010 01:26 PM
Quote from: juleshotluv on 21-12-2010 01:20 PM
I havent gotten any yet....so, how am I supposed to choose? Huh? Undecided

we r 4 days away so don't lose hope ... simply indicate your choice and see who knows what may follow!
99  Forum / Relationships & Romance / YOUR SPECIAL CHRISTMAS GIFT on: 21-12-2010 01:18 PM
If you were to choose just 1 memorable gift for christmas this year, what would it be?
100  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: "PREGNANT FOR" (Page 2) on: 21-12-2010 12:47 PM
Quote from: blazingdiamond on 21-12-2010 12:31 PM
does it really matter if we say pregnant for or pregnant in... wateva

It doesn't matter unless you care about the impression you create by what you say. And judging from your foto, I think you must care!
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