I live abroad and i'm planing on having a traditional wedding but worried about the safety of my husband, he is a foreigner white and is not safe for him going to Rivers State Port-harcourt.

So i was thinking if it is possible for us to do it here without both of us being present in Nigeria  but my father said no, so i came up with another idea of doing the traditional mariage in  lagos or abuja cos it is safer but expensive to transport everyone down there.

My dad said it will be better to do it in the village or Port-harcourt what should i do?

We already did court and white wedding here in his country and now we like to do the traditional mariage very soon but i am worried about his safety to port harcourt, my family told me that traditional mariage is the most important thing in married life.

Should we forget about the traditional mariage?
And what is so important about traditional mariage?

I just need an advice on how to go with this or to make it work and how to convince my dad to accept it, traditional mariage is very expensive in River state and once they discover my husband is white they might double the bride price, so we are only preparing for it and how we can go about it, we are legally married but i still want my traditional wedding so that i can be recognised as a married woman in my family according to custom or tradition. Your advice will be appreciated.

you mean that my own and only one treasure base of the nation is now Danger Zone? i disagree with you unless there is still more things you need  us to know about your ex life.