sure 

hmm over curiosity 

 

Beautiful ladies.

Yeah i guess as much, some people seems to be doing that, anyway no 

Hey 50 cent 

Simple because life is not perfect and people living it is not perfect as well. so relationship sucks atimes.

First are you a man or woman ??

Then with your write up, it seems you're already enjoying the fact that he said to you that he wants you back to feel your body, You don't need someone to remind you that is over between both of you, You should already know what to tell him by now, if you really don't want him back, I guess you're feeling the same thing he's feeling........ and what was that with making him feel jealous ?? are you kidding me 

If is necessary, most times we girls ( Not all anyway) use to have some kinda skeleton in our cupboard 

Well whatever your research about honeypot means to you is not the issue here, because is not the problem on the topic. I'm quite sure you don't have honeypot on you to know how it react or function, so i could tell you better. Give us the better way to talk to man with such issue in a way he will not find it offended or bring down his ego.  

As we all know that some people do this quite easily but some of us don't and this can make it hard to meet new people without getting stuck in the dreaded lost word zone. Drop it here and help those less fortunate that cant naturally pick up those of the opposite sex 

For the men: Drop your best skills method how to get her giggling 
For the ladies: Drop your best signs, words on how to get that Men you find attractive, how do you approach him and what words are perfect to apply.

Lets get on it 

Of course both do talk about it indirectly that he has to be buying some special condom to still help, but he can't stand it as well, Should one go mad over it because in the first place Sex is not the top priority between both but still no woman want to gamble on that area. How will one engage in discussion without wounding his ego 

 

Ooops !! who gave you such impression at first place, Do you realize that, the same honeypot had to increase at least 10cm wide to be able to push out a baby ?? I don't quite agree with you that such issues occur in women, no matter how much that person think she can lay with a man, it doesn't have anything to do with such impression, don't forget that place is like elastic it suits in what soever you drop in there gently. But thats not the problem about the post. the problem is totally from the guy, he can't just stand it.. don't tell me you don't know is happening in most average men nowadays !! We're talking about you to approach men with such issues in order not to bring down their ego. 

Sorry all for the long note but i guess is worth reading abit 

Most people always mention that...1. attraction 2. romantic attraction (or something like that) and 3. attachment are the stages of love. But I don't agree with these at all, so i made my own stages with what i think should be the real meaning. Tell what you think, all opinions are welcome. I know is long but try as much as possible to read 


1. We see the other person as having security in themselves.

I believe subconsciously security is the first thing we look to see if a person has during our first impressions of them, whoever they may be. We immediately judge people on their appearance, confidence, stance, comfort in their own shoes, tone of voice and their eagerness to impress or be liked. All of which are signs to us whether we will see the person as having security in themselves or not. To form as strong a bond as possible and not just one based on convenience, i believe it to be essential to see the other person as secure. The last thing people want or feel they could truly love is a desperate, needy person who is too insecure to let them have any time alone. So I believe in immediately analyzing how much another person NEEDS to have a partner, (most likely to increase their security in themselves) as oppose to just wanting a partner we increase the chances of the relationship going further.

2. We become fond of the person and build affection

So once you believe them to be secure we then also find we like interacting and engaging with the other person also. Thoughts of the other person while they're away are almost completely positive and we feel the need to show the other person how great we feel about them. (SIDE NOTE - Don't forget at this stage and all other stages of the relationship you need to still show them that you are secure! Easy on the affection 

3. We find an interest in the person and build care

The affection we have built for the other person, then causes us to worry if they have a problem. We want to be there for them and want to know we have done our best to make them happy. We check to see how they are regularly in an effort to make sure they are okay and their life is running smoothly (and also ease the longing we have for them caused by the affection). Not the most exciting stage but care can be seen as the cement in the stages. During the first two stages, if not enough affection and/or belief in their security has been built that we have taken a further interest in them and now have care for the other person, we may begin to tell ourselves such things as "It's not that I don't like them, but there's just no spark". We begin constantly asking ourselves questions such as - Is this the real thing? Can I do better? Do I deserve more? Am I better than them? .. It's at this point where the other persons insecurities can begin to show usually simultaneously with our doubts. If your doubts are not eased or the persons insecurities don't fade it is almost certain that as soon as another person comes into your life who you also see as secure and are fond of that the relationship with your current partner will dissolve further until it is taken over completely by your new one.

4. Emotional bond

The prize at the end of the race, you and your partner have kept your security, fondness/affection, interest/care in one another and have formed a mutual emotional bond. How long your emotional bond will be able to last in the face of adversity, contempt from familiarity, boredom and other problems life will undoubtedly throw at the relationship will depend on how strong each of the factors in the stages are.

LAST POINT

Love is not based on insecurity (butterflies, fear of losing your partner, vulnerability), although all these things feel like love, in my opinion real love is in fact based on the opposite. Affection and care with security as the foundation at all times. I don't believe you should ever feel you NEED someone to make you happy or worse complete you, no matter how romantic, exciting and idealistic it feels, as this will no doubt be counter-productive in the long run. Instead do the opposite - be secure enough in yourself that you only WANT the person as you feel you have an emotional bond that gives you pleasure and comfort (AGAIN NOT SECURITY!!!!!!! lol) from spending time together .. And if worse comes to worse and you do split, remember the four stages and get back in the game. Nobody is in fact as perfect as we make them out to be when we are in love with them (especially if based on insecurity) and remaining secure in yourself throughout the relationship will make the break up a billion times less painful should it come to that.

Whats your opinion? Agree or disagree? Do you have your own stages belief ?? you can go on and add them up !

Your word sounds off point, I suggest you read the post all over again. i'm quite sure, i mention in the post about everything been absolutely perfect both emotional and both been attractive to each other.  what do you mean by "Walls are no more" what is walls 

Wow !! thats authoritarian order 

Even when you love him so much that you can't do anything to let him down ? I know is a kinda difficult situation but most men always have this ego that they don't like to see anyone let it down.