I got this from an article I read on PM News and decided to share it with u pals.....especially the married and the about-to-weds.....It was a long article; hence, I decided to bring out the major points.........
•Analysis: Couples who argue so much and want everything to follow a particular pattern, easily have problems. Life is easy, try and overlook some things for peace to reign. Marriage is not the right place for you to prove how intelligent you are.
•Wrong choice of words: If you can watch and control your tongue, a whole deal of your problems would be gone. Dishing sarcastic comments is not healthy for the relationship and studies have shown that even after apologies, the wounds refuse to heal completely.
•Infidelity: Please try as much as practicable not to give your spouse any cause to doubt your love for him/her. Just the way you promised at the beginning of the marriage, keep to one partner and derive pleasure in each other.
•Care: Care makes it easy for you to love, give, respect, support, encourage and do a lot more than
There is this old saying of a woman who went to an elderly man to complain that her husband beat her every time. The elderly man sensed that the cause of her beating was her words. The old man told her to wait for him to get her a medicine that will stop the beating. The old man gave her a cowry and told her to put the cowry in her mouth immediately an argument is about to start. He told her she must not say a word once the cowry is in her mouth because if the cowry falls then she will get more beating that she may loose her life. She followed the old man's word to the letter and there was no more beating that even the husband was shocked that his wife becomes very quiet when there is an argument. He called his wife one day and asked what the secret was and she opened up to the husband. Both of them went to the old man and he told them that there was nothing to the cowry. She stopped using the cowry and realised that her bad mouth was the cause of her beating. She learned to be quiet and they lived happily together.
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