Well, to be frank and sincere my opinion as far as this issue is concern is just for you to forgive him. and nt even to forgive but even forget. Becos in some situation you will do want you dont intend to do. And now that the guy is now pleading just try and consider second chance. I know the implication of what he said but just try to forgive and forget and as you do so GOD BLESSING YOU AND STRENGTHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM. More Love